pickabeau1:



I agree he is trying....

Just that his wife has no respect for him n moreover is using her mouths to pull him down rather than edify him

bennyrazz:
@op, it is very obvious your wife is a big witch sorry to use that word. Don't you know the power of life and death lies in the tongue whenever she uses that word "your prayers would never be answered" pls rebuke/reverse her words. This world, knowingly or unknowingly some people marry their enemies. This are the kind of women that don't want their husbands to grow. Pls exebi, send her back to her fathers house to learn some manners. She's too repulsive. When she can't bear your fart, how would she clean up her baby poo? I'm sure one guy is already deceiving her somewhere and you as a man as to stand your feet. Either she joins you in family prayers or she leaves your house.

beeevan:




Something is wrong with their foundation, 'the spraying perfume thing' is something that could have provoked laughter, the use of possessive terms over a mere bottle of scent is really unsettling. Does it really matter whose scent was sprayed? Then this woman....her mouth is toxic, end time wife .

Acidosis:


I tell you. Honestly, no one can replace the position of a mother. Even in bad times, a mother will always pray for her son/daughter.

Any woman who cannot play the role of a mother do not deserve marriage.

pickabeau1:


I agree..... However she has to know that a good woman builds first with her mouth and her hands next

If he is wrecked will she be happy



Aside....first time I've heard u say end time wife.

beeevan:




Lol, you know how it is with NL stories , we only hear the cry of the self acclaimed innocent women,as the men are usually portrayed as wild horned beasts devoid of emotions or rational thinking, so no be my fault PB.


Men have earned a not so flattering reputation for themselves though and some shamelessly admit their callousness right here on NL, so...at least most women will rather maintain their online virtuousness .

kandiikane:
It's funny how many people fail to see where she said "as long as you continue to cause me pain" instead people are bringing in how she may have been raised to see challenges as evil which I think is rubbish.

That her statement right there should be looked into. Op do you know about the pain she is talking about? What pain are you causing her?

freecocoa:
Get out of my head already.

I think there's an underlying problem here, except the wife is a witch then he 's got to be doing something wrong.

sassygal:
Dear Op, there is power of life and death in the tongue! Your wife is a typical example of a dream killer, there is no way you can thrive in the presence of such negativity!

Please sit her down and ask questions. Ask her what you are doing to cause her pain? Ask her what you can do to take the pain away. Why on earth would God not answer your prayers? So many questions, you need to ask. Listen to her replies and see if you can reach a compromise.

I can not wrap my head around the fact that she is deliberately destroying her home.

exebi:


Only she knows for sure why she calls me frustrated. I came here hoping people could help explain these situation to me and explain these comments. The "frustration" comment she has based/leveled against me many many times, it still stings but is not surprising.

What really shocked and PAINED me this time, that really prompted this post was this comment:

"God will not answer your prayers. All your prayers to God will remain unanswered as long as you continue to cause me pain"


To your question: I am self-employed and run my own business. I have had severe business setbacks which I have shared with her. These setbacks obviously make me sad and unhappy,but I keep praying and working as hard as I can to stabilize and grow my business.

brito:





How do you know she's a dream killer? There is something the op is not talking about , men?? until I hear from his wife I won't take side with him either .

sassygal:
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My dear, ANYONE that deliberately say such words to me, especially knowing the struggle to succeed and knowing that my prayers are my forte is a dream killer.

There is a negativity that resonates from those words. Trust me, this is the worst kind of negativity there is. Why because, Negative energy from such a close source will always cause insecurity and lack of self-confidence. It gives you fear, doubt, and makes you think less of yourself. It closes opportunities in your life and makes life less fun.

I know so cause I lived it.

brito:









I still don't believe the op is saying the whole truth, going by what my husband did to me today, most men feel they are right at all times.

sassygal:


I'm certain when your husband did what he did to you, you didn't say hurtful things like his prayers will never be answered, knowing that by doing so, you will, inadvertently, implicate yourself, as his prayers being answered will be a blessing to you as well.

I don't know the Op, but being human, I'm certain he has his flaws and probably caused or is causing his wife so much pain but does that justify those words?

brito:







No I didn't but I was really hurt

sassygal:


Exactly my point! You were hurt, probably more than I can imagine, but you will NEVER sabotage his success deliberately because of that pain. That is what an enemy (dream killer) will do!

kandiikane:
It's funny how many people fail to see where she said "as long as you continue to cause me pain" instead people are bringing in how she may have been raised to see challenges as evil which I think is rubbish.

That her statement right there should be looked into. Op do you know about the pain she is talking about? What pain are you causing her?

brito:







Ok ma, it seems you are a very nice lady

freecocoa:
Get out of my head already.

I think there's an underlying problem here, except the wife is a witch then he 's got to be doing something wrong.

SeaGold:


Who is causing who pains? The woman who refuse to discuss her problems or the man who is confused as to her actions.

We should stop justifying stupidity you know.