If you have been dating a guy for three years and he has been talking about doing the "marriage introduction" and that after introduction you will pack in and live with him and maybe after some years you can do wedding?

What if the guy dumps you after some years?

what is the probability?

I guess that's just the way love goes, you never can tell what's goin to happen next. . . . .

If you have been dating a guy for three years and he has been talking about doing the "marriage introduction" and that after introduction you will pack in and live with him and maybe after some years you can do wedding?

What if the guy dumps you after some years?

what is the probability?

So, after the "marriage introduction", he wants you to come live with him?  I do not recommend this.  If he plans to marry you, he should do so BEFORE you live with him.  This is called "trying to have the cow, without buying it".

This guy should propose and walk you down the isle, FIRST.  It's your life, you don't have to follow his backwards plan and put your future at risk.

Personally, i wouldn't do that. But then all these long engagements and vague arrangements are not really my thing. I wouldn't do a marriage introduction unless I was ready to marry within the year. And I wouldn't move in with someone unless we were getting married like tomorrow, not at some vague point in the future.

But again only you know your guy and your relationship and you have to decide for yourself whether you trust this arrangement and whether it's something you want for yourself, and not just because it's what your guy wants.

personally i wouldnt advice u 2 count on it. . . . .been there done that

em em, i hope i'm not in the wrong thread but if i'll have to speak my mind on this topic i'd simply say that first of all let me get a clear pic of what ur tryna say.

1) U've been dating this guy for three years,
2) He's been talking about marriage intro,
3) After intro u'd move in and live with him and
4) may be just maybe after some years u'll wed

From this I can say that this guy truly loves u and he's really considering settling down with u. He may not have the financial capacity yet and that's why it's taking long. U have to be patient baby ur man ain't going nowhere.He has a plan. That no 4 where he said maybe, what he meant to say is that hopefully things would work out for him and he'd settle down with u (his love).

The reason is because a man can talk about what he truly desire, i mean his heart desire all day because that's what he truly want (to settle down with u). Trust me on this, this guy loves u. have faith!

em em bros, y d pic?

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em em sis,

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frijos:

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Thanks!

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Never can tell what might happen when it comes to relationships

@ tope, hav u been dumped?

yicob:

@ tope, hav u been dumped?

Interestingly enough, i havent been dumped before.
wonder what its like to be dumped hmmm. . .

tope2000:

Interestingly enough, i havent been dumped before.
wonder what its like to be dumped hmmm. . .

ur one lucky babe aren't u? I pray u never experience it loruko Jesu.