An adage says " petender are the worse"! And i have come to learn that those who pretends turns out to be d baddest just like my X. ..

so

Just like your ex you said! Details pls.

I wouldn't call my girl a pretender , for someone who tells me the truth whether it hurts me or not. I would prefer such a person who admits to doing something wrong than a liar and pretender.

izaray:
Just like your ex you said! Details pls.

yea d op shud giv more details

MrWhoKnows:
yea d op shud giv more details

Abi....

That girl is the worst thing that has ever happened to me.

MrWhoKnows:
yea d op shud giv more details

Naija babes tend to be pretenders. Especially those who claim to be good girls. They are often worse than the so-called bad girls. Just like an ex...

Somethings are better left to remain where they belong. IN THE PAST!

Tymax:
Naija babes tend to be pretenders. Especially those who claim to be good girls. They are often worse than the so-called bad girls. Just like an ex...

Yeah yeah, blame the ex mr goodman.
Shebi d ex no dey again why won't she be the pretender?

Tymax:
Naija babes tend to be pretenders. Especially those who claim to be good girls. They are often worse than the so-called bad girls. Just like an ex...

gbam and i just saw a thread that reads BEAUTY OR CHARACTER WHICH WILL YOU GO FOR. Some of this babes you see parade themselves as good girls i swear are actually the ''worst'' in quote and some gud girls taged bad are far off better than all of them. Talking from expirence thoug

3cycle:

Yeah yeah, blame the ex mr goodman.
Shebi d ex no dey again why won't she be the pretender?

Why are you supporting her? Are you a pretender too?

Awho:


gbam and i just saw a thread that reads BEAUTY OR CHARACTER WHICH WILL YOU GO FOR. Some of this babes you see parade themselves as good girls i swear are actually the ''worst'' in quote and some gud girls taged bad are far off better than all of them. Talking from expirence thoug

I tell you...
Those "bad" gals are even better than the pretenders.

The worst pretenders are the "I'm-not-after-your-money" chicks. If you dare believe them, I give you 2 months, they will dump you for a spender. But they won't stop singing "I'm not after your money". Rabbish!

Gone are the days when guys were the players. Nowadays, ladies play the game big time.

Tymax:

Why are you supporting her? Are you a pretender too?

Wasn't supporting her, why call her a pretender?
She was trying to please you mr perfect.

Gone are the days when guys were the players. Nowadays, ladies play the game big time.[/quote]

God bless you i confirmed it when i dated the quoted bad girls i swear that chick was, should i say my best girl freind among them all and the so call humble looking, gentle, reserved ones where the ones that almost gave me a heart bended heart. And it baffles me to still see people judging people by what they see guy enter the place na there you go confirm say A.c no be fan

Tymax:

I tell you...
Those "bad" gals are even better than the pretenders.

The worst pretenders are the "I'm-not-after-your-money" chicks. If you dare believe them, I give you 2 months, they will dump you for a spender. But they won't stop singing "I'm not after your money". Rabbish!

Gone are the days when guys were the players. Nowadays, ladies play the game big time.

What do guys really want?
When you aren't after their money, they call you a pretender. Go after their money, you become a gold digger.
Become gay sir and let us be

Some of d so called pretenders as u said are doing what they are doing just to please u perfect guys

3cycle:

What do guy really want?
When you aren't after their money, they call you a pretender. Go after their money, you become a gold digger.
Become gay sir and let us be

I'm straight and I'll always be straight, thank you.

Ladies should just stop pretending. Let's know who you really are... Players

Tymax:

I'm straight and I'll always be straight, thank you.

Ladies should just stop pretending. Let's know who you really are... Players

smh
Then Accept the stress that comes with the love of punany.

3cycle:

smh
Then Accept the stress that comes with the love of punany.

Lol. You ladies had better repent and let me propose to one of you.

Tymax:

Lol. You ladies had better repent and let me propose to one of you.

So all the ladies at ogbomosho are pretenders?
Nawao, relocate then.

3cycle:

So all the ladies at ogbomosho are pretenders?
Nawao, relocate then.

Lol. Your deliberate attempt to digress exposes you as a pretender. Stop deceiving that short man of yours.

Can u do withou us

3cycle:

What do guys really want?
When you aren't after their money, they call you a pretender. Go after their money, you become a gold digger.
Become gay sir and let us be

There's no need of putting out d details.

mikeson12:




Is that all?

3cycle:

smh
Then Accept the stress that comes with the love of punany.

lol

mabeni:
Can u do withou us

Yes for now I can.

For hw long?

3cycle:

Yes for now I can.

If one expects a partner to possess some certain traits like
the one listed below and they do, how can one also
actually tell if the are pretending and acting it all up just
to ensure the relationship ends in marraige?
Characteristics of a Wife/Husband are;
*One who Understands
*A Patient one
*A Conversationist (this is extremely important in every
and any relationship)
*One who makes Sacrifices
*Someone who see your dream just as you see it or even
clearer than you do (not a pessimist to your whole
believe)
*A Comforter (who who will always pray for you and
never use any negative or curse words on you)
*A friend (a true friend will correct you on things other
people are scared, shy or reluctant to tell you I.e, "honey I
bought you this body spray or mouth wash because I
think you should use eat because I felt you sweated too
much yesterday / your mouth felt dry while we were
talking - no one else will tell you this only someone who
really scares for you).
*A listener (someone who isn't quiet just because he/she
is waiting for you to pulse so they can take over. But one
who is really listening to bring about a positive impact in
your conversation.)
*A Giver (a generous one who isn't weighing what he/she
has given to you and expecting the equivalent or
something better)
*One who shares your interest (Sports, fashion, current
affiars, music, geography, movie, Sport, History, Politics,
Religion, events, lifestyle - if your partner doesn't have at
list 3 of these interest with you then please move on to
the next because marriage goes way beyond the sex and
food. There MUST be other similar interest to always keep
communication going).
*Fear of God (this means differnt things to different
people so sort yours out).
*Love (this came last because one must have 2 or more of
the above triats before you can love them. And note; love
rises and fades in every relationship and marriage but
only the above will reignite the love you crave for).
A good partner should possess at least 3 or more of the
above traits before you should consider him/her for
marriage.