I have a wife that av courted for 10years and married for 5 years, everytime we have issues she will recount from the past issues that I have even forgotten and it pisses me off that we can stay for weeks without talking to each other

Take her to the past tru a time machine nd leave her there

Lol.. This one strong ooo.

You never tried to resolve those past issues.... so the list kept piling up.

Both of you shld table your grievences.... and start sorting and resolving them one by one.
Get ready to apologise to each other, yell at each other but you must move on.

There is No victory for any family in battle. Only pain & anguish.

Make sure she forgets the past

By giving her a wonderful present and a beautiful future to look forward to






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Bros u court your wife for 10 years.....abeg wen una wan do wedding anniversary kindly add the courting years oooo...e too much

Beat her til when she forgets you are her husband!

bomkizle:
Beat her til when she forgets you are her husband!

smh must you display your stupidity everywhere

Rapsainot:
smh must you display your stupidity everywhere

Ask your father!
and I'm capable of impregnating your mother!

bomkizle:



Ask your father!
and I'm capable of impregnating your mother!

k

You don't. Beat her to a pulp and the word "handle" becomes relative.

bonesofdavid:
I have a wife that av courted for 10years and married for 5 years, everytime we have issues she will recount from the past issues that I have even forgotten and it pisses me off that we can stay for weeks without talking to each other

Try any of these methods:

1. Try making a fun out of what she says.


2. Try making your presence now beautiful so that it does not make her remember the past.

3. Sit her down and talk sense into head that everyone has a past. Tell her that no one can change his past but the we have the power to make our presence and shape the future.

Any of these methods can change her forever. It may not be sudden but will change her over time.

mystiqueem:
You never tried to resolve those past issues.... so the list kept piling up.

Both of you shld table your grievences.... and start sorting and resolving them one by one.
Get ready to apologise to each other, yell at each other but you must move on.

There is No victory for any family in battle. Only pain & anguish.

Exactly!!

Some men are fond of doing this, my oga included.

They like to sweep things under the carpet, thet dont want to argue so they apologise quickly " it doesnt matter who is wrong , am sorry . I don't like us quarrelling. " dats sweeping under the carpet on his side but the woman will put it in the cooler and cover it nicely. If Anything happens dat reminds her of the issue she will jeje open the cooler bring it out and the matter is still hot.

Who sheet dey forget but who pack am....


Just follow the advice quoted and u shud be fine.

Cutehector4u:
Take her to the past tru a time machine nd leave her there

mystiqueem:
You never tried to resolve those past issues.... so the list kept piling up.

Both of you shld table your grievences.... and start sorting and resolving them one by one.
Get ready to apologise to each other, yell at each other but you must move on.

There is No victory for any family in battle. Only pain & anguish.

Op heed to the emboldened, this lady made a hell lot of sense there.