1. The only thing he wants from you is sex,
After
Cumming he will be gone. He will only sweet
talk you again when he needs some sex.
2. He can spend a day with you touring
beautiful
places but at the end of the day he will go back
to his
wife and kids who will be missing him.
3. He is never going to leave his kids and wife
because of you. He will only be fooling you all
the time with words like “I will marry you, I will
build for
you a house, I will buy for you land, I will take
you to
the driving school, I will buy for you a posh car”
and
many more different lies.
4. Keep it in your minds that you’re not the only
one
he sleeps with apart from his wife. If he can
cheat on his wife with you then can’t he cheat
on you with
some other lady? Seriously he does. He spends
his
time and money on other babes just like the
way he
does with you.
5. He really loves his wife that is why he
married her,
he can’t divorce her and he can’t marry you.
You are just his side dish to take off his stress.
So his loving
you is for fun and temporary.
6. He will dump you after using you for some
other
fresh babe; he won’t fulfill what he promised
you.
Those will be lies that he told you just to soften
your
heart and to get what he wanted.
7. Getting pregnant won’t fully trap him; He has
his
real kids and wife at home that he can show to
the
friends and relatives. You and your kids will be
hidden.
8. His property and money are his, children and
his
wife. It’s very hard to get a share on his
property.
9. You will never be part of his future, so stop
wasting your time and energy. Cease serving
your
body to him because he gives you some money,
because he promised you something.
10. A real lady works hard and gets her own
money,
pays her bills and a man with a lot of dime
should just be a BONUS. Be wise dear Ladies.
Get out of that
sexual network. Stop wasting your time with
married men.
Love guys of your level who have true love for
you.

You think this will change their mindset?
Gold diggers#

why should u tink of dating a married man in d first place?

urhoboman:
You think this will change their mindset?
Gold diggers#

I pray it does

Xavier9ja:
why should u tink of dating a married man in d first place?

I just wonder

Xavier9ja:
why should u tink of dating a married man in d first place?

you should refer the question to those who are currently dating on of them or have at one time. as for me I have no clue.

joshbouy:

you should refer the question to those who are currently dating on of them or have at one time. as for me I have no clue.

the question is for the ladies. Thank you!

Elantracey:



I just wonder

u see am like that too abi?

Most girls know all dis yet they wont stop dating married men.

one I met in my stay in school, said she's just doing it for the money only. that she has to support herself and all. I tried convincing her to stop, and she told me that if I agree to pay her allowance, house rent that she would stop . na So I opt out o.

one I met in my stay in school, said she's just doing it for the money only. that she has to support herself and all. I tried convincing her to stop, and she told me that if I agree to pay her allowance, house rent that she would stop . na So I opt out o, cause me no get that kin money.

mizzkeji44:
Most girls know all dis yet they wont stop dating married men.

maybe it's an obsession then

Elantracey:



I just wonder

me sef i wonder, but some girls especially those in the uni prefer married men cos of the money

joshbouy:

maybe it's an obsession then

it couldn't be an obsession , its just their choice and sometimes the pressure could be very high.

Elantracey:



it couldn't be an obsession , its just. their choose and sometimes the pressure could be very high.

yea but they can overcome the pressure by finding single loaded guys who could even marry them

Elantracey:



it couldn't be an obsession , its just. their choose and sometimes the pressure could be very high.

while some don't even have a choice, sometimes I just wish I could do some thing bout these things, cause I know a quite few of them. the highest I can do for now is pray for them.

dozieinspired:
yea but they can overcome the pressure by finding single loaded guys who could even marry them

Its not easy to find a loaded guy lol but still at that , do they really need one? I've meant a few girls who saw themselves through school .

Elantracey:



Its not easy to find a loaded guy lol but still at that , do they really need one? I've meant a few girls who saw themselves through school .

u know some girls can be quite lazy and instead of them causing ps for married women they could as well enter the marriage competition with single ladies

joshbouy:

while some don't even have a choice, sometimes I just wish I could do some thing bout these things, cause I know a quite few of them. the highest I can do for now is pray for them.

they all have a choice , their worse excuse could be they don't have money or they just like it but they all have a choice.

FÜCKING nice one OP; one will only FÜCKING hope one will apply wisdom in this FÜCKING matter; just as you FÜCKING concluded:

Be wise dear Ladies.
Get out of that
sexual network. Stop wasting your time with
married men.
Love guys of your level who have true love for
you

this is one FÜCKING good advice

fuckshit:
FÜCKING nice one OP; one will only FÜCKING hope one will apply wisdom in this FÜCKING matter; just as you FÜCKING concluded:



this is one FÜCKING good advice

Lol, you funny man. Thanks

dozieinspired:
u know some girls can be quite lazy and instead of them causing ps for married women they could as well enter the marriage competition with single ladies

Is there really a competition for marriage or am the one not seeing it? Every lady has a potential husband out there its just for her to fish him out .



I won't really agree that they're the one causing problem for married women because the men have their blame.

Elantracey:



Is there really a competition for marriage or am the one not seeing it? Every lady has a potential husband out there its just for her to fish him out .



I won't really agree that they're the one causing problem for married women because the men have their blame.

marriage sometimes scares me, with the rate of infidelity on the up rise. and all these young gals no dey help matter. it takes a great deal of self control to stick with a partner for life, without cheating.

Elantracey:



Is there really a competition for marriage or am the one not seeing it? Every lady has a potential husband out there its just for her to fish him out .



I won't really agree that they're the one causing problem for married women because the men have their blame.

no i just men they shld enter the marriage market and men sef na wa una no fit take eye see woman , it is not our fault shaa it is the way we were wired

joshbouy:

marriage sometimes scares me, with the rate of infidelity on the up rise. and all these young gals no dey help matter. it takes a great deal of self control to stick with a partner for life, without cheating.

lol, it scares me to and in fact a lot , but their are still good and decent girls out there.

dozieinspired:
no i just men they shld enter the marriage market and men sef na wa una no fit take eye see woman , it is not our fault shaa it is the way we were wired

though am working on myself not to be easily tempted by ladies especially when i resume in uniben next year , by God's grace i will concentrate on my studies and make first class(no bi by mouth)

nice one OP. but na both ways O! Guys should equally leave married women alone; Guys should keep their distance.
As you admonished ladies i will do same for the guys.

Be wise dear Guys
Get out of that
sexual network. Stop wasting your time with
married women.
Love ladies of your level who have true love for
you.

dozieinspired:
no i just men they shld enter the marriage market and men sef na wa una no fit take eye see woman , it is not our fault shaa it is the way we were wired

Then whose fault ? There's something called self control joor

Op,nice writeup u've got up dere,bt do u think ladies that date married men actually cares abt dis ur points of urz??,they av their motives of dating them.

Elantracey:


Then whose fault ? There's something called self control joor

yah that is what am working on and i think most men should work on it. thank God @18 i am still a virgin though i have been tempted but God has kept me and i hope to be a virgin till i get married especially as am about to enter the so called notorious uniben

dozieinspired:
yah that is what am working on and i think most men should work on it. thank God @18 i am still a virgin though i have been tempted but God has kept me and i hope to be a virgin till i get married especially as am about to enter the so called notorious uniben

I see, you can't do it on your own sha except you have the love of God in you and there's nothing notorious about uniben , its just a school you'll go to and in four , five years you're out , it all depends on you , your determination and zeal .

dozieinspired:
no i just men they shld enter the marriage market and men sef na wa una no fit take eye see woman , it is not our fault shaa it is the way we were wired

Lol, na our configuration be that