SkinnyDude:
i get tired of people easily, and i think it's not normal. i will be all over the person, calling him or her every 24/7, hanging out with them. but after some weeks, the fire starts going off. and i start avoiding them.

DesChyko:
You easily get bored. That's all.. Use your quiet times to develop yourself intellectually.

DesChyko:
You easily get bored. That's all.. Use your quiet times to develop yourself intellectually.

SkinnyDude:

like reading intellectual books?

SkinnyDude:

like reading intellectual books?

SkinnyDude:
i get tired of people easily, and i think it's not normal. i will be all over the person, calling him or her every 24/7, hanging out with them. but after some weeks, the fire starts going off. and i start avoiding them.

overhypedsteve:
boss that will only sink him further into his problems. That is even the source of mine, there was a time i started an anti-social personality and i spent most of my time running researches and reading materials on international politics and jurisprudence. Boss that made me so far ahead of the normal people around me that i couldn't accept a normal silly conversation anymore i became this serious " learned" person that only talks to people nobody would talk to you cus they believe you know everything. Just too sad. This days i meet people discussing politics, i enter the conversation and the whole place becomes quiet as if a lecture is going on. Just too sad men. The only people i can enjoy a nice intellectual discussion with are the guys over there in the foreign affairs section and some of my colleague in my department.

Thavik:
wow bro, that's some deep shi, ur now a robot

overhypedsteve:
boss that will only sink him further into his problems. That is even the source of mine, there was a time i started an anti-social personality and i spent most of my time running researches and reading materials on international politics and jurisprudence. Boss that made me so far ahead of the normal people around me that i couldn't accept a normal silly conversation anymore i became this serious " learned" person that only talks to people nobody would talk to you cus they believe you know everything. Just too sad. This days i meet people discussing politics, i enter the conversation and the whole place becomes quiet as if a lecture is going on. Just too sad men. The only people i can enjoy a nice intellectual discussion with are the guys over there in the foreign affairs section and some of my colleague in my department.

SkinnyDude:
i get tired of people easily, and i think it's not normal. i will be all over the person, calling him or her every 24/7, hanging out with them. but after some weeks, the fire starts going off. and i start avoiding them.

SkinnyDude:
i get tired of people easily, and i think it's not normal. i will be all over the person, calling him or her every 24/7, hanging out with them. but after some weeks, the fire starts going off. and i start avoiding them.

skyladon22:


You must be an introvert i guess
Find time to hang out more. You need extroverts around esp your gf
Dont always stay alone. I dont support the idea of reading or doing researches like someone suggested
This will make you more bored.
If you have anything bothering you just try to share it instead of keeping it to yourself

SkinnyDude:
yes, i'm an introvert. my female friend (we are not dating, just friends) is an extrovert. she gets alot of attention from guys. wears too much make-up and wears hot leggings. am not comfortable with that, and i have started avoiding her.

and yes, i have so many things bothering me..

overhypedsteve:
Mine is worse. I just don't know how to tolerate people. You re either perfect or i don't care. And i just want that to change cus it is beginning to affect my relationship privately and publicly.

KAYCEEJUNIOR:
Chai.....I been think say them dey do me for village. I will collect contact, chat up with a girl until she starts to fall in love, only for me to wake up next morning and purposely delete all the contacts on my phone including my Mum and dad.

skyladon22:


Okay i understand you

Do you like her as in really want to be with her?
If you do, can you boldly tell her you want to be more than her friend? She may want more than friendship from you because most unlike charges attract
If she accepts your proposal, tell her what you like about her and she can do to make you happy. stylishly tell her to reduce her make up. This shouldnt be immediately she accepts.

If you dntr like her and she doesnt want to be more than a friend, let her out of your life

Whatever maybe bothering you, please let it out. You deserve to be happy in life instead of stressing yourself with unnecessary issues
Dont worry be happy and all will be well

SkinnyDude:

i like her, but i dont know if i want to be with her or not (i'm confused). i cant just let her out of my life. she is a very nice girl. when we did our departmental party, i got drunk and started misbehaving. my so called friends were there laughing. she took me to a safe corner, and helped me. my phone and wallet would have disappeared if not for her intervention. (she didnt really know me then)

BreezyRita:


Yes.... You've been so immersed you've lost touch with humanity......
Happens to most if not all melancholics.....
Happens to me. But not this extreme.. I lose interest too. But I try to keep up, be in touch, even if I don't want to..... I know I've got to.

SkinnyDude:
i get tired of people easily, and i think it's not normal. i will be all over the person, calling him or her every 24/7, hanging out with them. but after some weeks, the fire starts going off. and i start avoiding them.