Before i proceed, i would like to make it clear. This is not a superiority contest between a man and his wife nor that between male & female.

I would need us to consider ourselves marriage counsellor for a moment and give your professional advice regarding the following challenge between a man and his wife:

The couple has been married for 9year with three beautiful kids. Two girls and a boy. Their ages ranging from 8, 6 and 3. They both agreed even before the arrival of the kids not to engage the services of any house help. The school bus normally drop the kids at the crech close to where they live from where they are picked up by either of the parents that closes earlier than the other.

Now they both have agreed these children need better attention than what they are currently getting atleast more presence of either of them would do their kids a lot of good.

The challenge now is who will resign to assist in taking care of these kids?

The man's pay is 250k per month while that of the woman is 850k per month with free medicals for 4 family members and an all expenses paid trip for the whole family abroad once a year. Non has shifted ground yet, what would you advise.

Please, as i earlier urged, no insult, let's be civil with our responses.

Thanks.

Nonsense..dey should be deceivn demselves... Get a maid jor.....

Cutehector4u:
Nonsense..dey should be deceivn demselves... Get a maid jor.....

well they dont want maid in their home. Probably they have their reasons.

Odilafta:
They should bring somebody preferably from the man's side,not as a maid but a live-in brother or sister..

Or

The man should resign

And the woman should help him set up something to be doing beside the house

Others have suggested the 2nd option. Probably a business center or something else with someone managing incase the man would need to leave to receive the kids returning from school.

No maid, famly member should do. From ether of d 2 sdes

A relative they will be paying salary shld be a good option for them.