Yields:

Aww, I'm sorry about that.

I think the Open University suggestion Bukatyne made is a good one. Speak with him about this and hear what he says.

Crossing my fingers for ya.

bukatyne:


Does Unilag offer DL options for full time masters?

cococandy:
what about her personal fulfillment ?

DollyParton1:

Nope she committed a crime by being a female. Her personal fulfilment doesn't matter.

bukatyne:


Lol!

A friend in the OP's shoes had to go to school by force.

The OP's hubby wants her to a house wife so he is thinking what is the use of schooling?

She will go through this same thing when she wants to work with him because school enlightens and broadens one's mind.

OP:

I would advise you think about going to Open University. You can study online and still be a house wife.

If hubby doesn't bulge for working: start thinking in the lines of business especially online.
It is well

Debbiemma:
Im having issues with my husband and now he is neglecting me and rejecting my food.pls i need your advice

chaircover:


Debbiemania, this is a sensitive matter and it needs to be handled wisely.
How did it get to the stage of your hubby not eating your food?
Did you just say "hubby I want to go to school" and he suddenly stopped eating your food? . . I dont think that this is what happened.

This is why its important that when husband and wife come with their "reports" the listener does not automatically take sides but reads between the lines

My little advise to you is to go back to the drawing board and retrace your steps and do some homework. You know your husband better than anyone here and you know what his fears/reasons may be and what you need to do is go and speak to him, but armed with information and solutions to problems that he may feel that your going back to school may present. This is not a head to head matter. Listen to him, listen to his fears and its only when he opens up to his deep seated concerns can you even begin to allay thise fears.

For example if he is worried about what will happen to the children in your absense, then you would have already have some good ideas/plans for childcare that you have in mind to allay those fears.

The truth is that you are the one who has to do the appealing. You cant force him to let him send you to school so you need to take it down a notch or two. I am assuming that you want to remain in the marriage.

You can still both meet somewhere in the middle or even still manage to convince him to let you return to school, but it wont be by gra gra but by calm, mature and sensible methods. He is your hubby . . .find his weak & tender spot for you and work on it. Sefini.


We have talked about this many times, the children are not the problem cos i will go to sch on a daily base with my car,my hubby is just stubborn,i think he stopped eating and talking to me so that i will not speak of schooling again and yes he has suceeded.i will make up with him and think of something else to do with my fine.i have been at home for 6 years now but not anymore.hubby did this cos he knows im emotionally weak towards him.but thanks anyway for all ur support

Odilafta:


Chop your food and wash your pot,

That's why they advice ladies not to marry before acheiving their dreams..
he's only scared you might go to school and find another Johnny or come back to become stubborn..

Debbiemma:


We have talked about this many times, the children are not the problem cos i will go to sch on a daily base with my car,my hubby is just stubborn,i think he stopped eating and talking to me so that i will not speak of schooling again and yes he has suceeded.i will make up with him and think of something else to do with my fine.i have been at home for 6 years now but not anymore.hubby did this cos he knows im emotionally weak towards him.but thanks anyway for all ur support