edozie04:
Variety is the spice of life

David4best:
There are some guys that don't have the money to spend on babe/girl when they are struggling to survive & have a better future. U know 99% of Nigerian girls are after d money u have to give them now, not your future or ambition to be great. Expect some of those kind of guys to flirt with young girls after marriage, I am not justifying it. I sponsored myself with hard labours to acquire my ND & HND in Mechanical Engineering from Federal Polytechnic, Auchi, Edo State, with different kind of hard labour(farming, climbing of palm trees, rubber tapping, carrying blocks, mixing cement, frying garry etc). I was d one taking care of every expensives including school fees, accommodation, textbook, practicals, feeding, transportion, etc by spending much days at home than in school doing hard labour during any semester. There is no girl that accepted to friend/date me with that condition, both in school & outside school, despite d fact dat I have d confidence to confront any girl on earth & express my feeling. They always complain that I am too broke. My company became boring to them because at times in school, I always remain with #800 or #1000. Even a fellow female corps member I approached during my NYSC time/days said my allowee was not enough to take of her. Most of those girls told me they prefer married men than we broke guy. Even some female corps members said d same thing then. But I got a civil service job with level 8 step 2 the same year I pass out from NYSC. It will take d grace & fear of God for somebody like me not involve in extra-marital affair after marriage no matter how beautiful my future wife will be. This is still one of d reasons why some men still cheat after being married.