InwehAkpevwe:
I just don't get this the man's church nd d woman's church tin! Bt trust me! B4 God we r d church! " This denominational tin is begining 2 bcom sth else!... I bliv since they av bin joined! They shuld agree on wh 1 2 attend! Its entirely up 2 dem!

MissMeiya:
The things Nigerians consider important.

jennykadry:


Lmao..... And separation in your own dictionary is worshiping in two different churches?

You no get talk

Aprime:
There must be a church that overhead the couple's wedding in the first place right?... So I think they should both attend that church. It's no big deal.

BreezyRita:
When couples get married, who follows who where??
Does the woman have to attend the husband's church?? Can it ever be the other way round?

The norm is the woman following her husband, but what if you love a man but you're not okay with his denomination??

tete7000:

Hmmm!, true love to me entails loving someone and learning to love and enjoy what they enjoy. Now regarding the issue of faith, it becomes more important that a woman loves her husband faith. It is the wife that is expected to give up and follow her husband not vice-versa. I am not totally ruling out the reverse case but it rarely occurs. The house needs to have a common front as regards faith as the house divided against itself cannot stand. If they don't share faith, it's the children that suffer. They are the ones who ends up not having strong faith, so on that ground the woman who loves her man and invariably her children should embrace wholeheartedly her husband's faith. In case she can't, I advise she marry a man whose faith she shares for the sake of her children.

kaybiel2u:
if she truly loves her husband she must attend the church her hubby attends. she must love her husband with everything i mean everything 4 beta 4 worse, u knw and read the case of Ruth In The Bible. Remember What She Said To Naomi. YOUR PEOPLE SHALL BE MY PEOPLE, YOUR WAY SHALL BE MY WAY, WHEREEVER YOU GO I GO etc.

beau49:



So what you are trying to tell me is that because a couple decide to attend different place of worships even when they serve 'the same God', God would still hold the husband responsible? For what exactly?

Should place of worships even be a cause for argument? As long as we serving the same God shouldn't that be enough?

Like I said place show me a place in the bible that supports ' a wife must move/go to the husband's church'.

Am beginning to believe this is a man-made rule,just like the doctrines most churches adopt.

BreezyRita:
When couples get married, who follows who where??
Does the woman have to attend the husband's church?? Can it ever be the other way round?

The norm is the woman following her husband, but what if you love a man but you're not okay with his denomination??

sunnyt1:


Pls wat dos seperation/division in marriage means to you?

kaybiel2u:
if she truly loves her husband she must attend the church her hubby attends. she must love her husband with everything i mean everything 4 beta 4 worse, u knw and read the case of Ruth In The Bible. Remember What She Said To Naomi. YOUR PEOPLE SHALL BE MY PEOPLE, YOUR WAY SHALL BE MY WAY, WHEREEVER YOU GO I GO etc.

hardbody:


Woman, did they not teach you or did you not read it in the holy book that women must learn in silence? A woman has got to submit to her husband and why would you want to have a divided household on religious matters. The two must become one. Enuf said.

jennykadry:


No don't throw it on me. Answer me, is separation in your own dictionary defined as a couple worshiping in two different churches?

sunnyt1:


Ur response to " what dos the 2 shall become one means" will absolutely ansa ur question

vitality22:

I beg to differ please. If the man and the woman attends different churches before marriage, the wisest thing to do IMO is to wed in the woman's church and afterwards, both should head back to the husband's church.

Kachisbarbie:


lmaoooo
Epic!
__ this is real love mehn...perfect understanding o

Ilekeh:


You're wasting your time on typical Nigerian mentality.

Upon all their "follow husband jump bridge" mentality, most Nigerian marriages are unhappy and full of fraud.

I don't understand how following ones husband to church (while you have a church that you like) sustains a happy home. I'm guessing a fraudulent "happy home" is better than "the message". (I hope to never understand)

I've been to several churches and many, I didn't visit twice because the pastor/the church atmosphere didn't resonate with me. So why should I force myself to attend a church (just because my husband does) that's not sending me the right message just to play the "happy wife"? I have tried every Christian denomination out there, and I will find the right church for me, not my husband.

Anyway, my plan is not to have a typical Nigerian home anyway. God forbid such awful bondage. Y'all on Nl keep pretending......you'll be free someday Awon Mrs-by-force. Don't go out and free yourself. YOLO!

efficiencie:


WRONG Sir! I'm a man but not a chauvinist looking for a scriptural opportunity to cage my wife...The Holy Ghost said:

Collosians 3:18 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord.

A wife must submit to her husband as it is fit in the Lord.. In the name of submission men have forced their wives into or.al se.x, an.al se.x, masochism and all manner of vile acts...A wife must submit to her husband as it pleases the Lord...and hence the wife has the scriptural right to rebel when the husband's desires deviate from those of the Lord!

nnekamezor:
@ Edith wat church do u attend??

Kachisbarbie:


ahahaha
This one you ask, even call my name...lolz
I attend Living Word-Chapel.

Kachisbarbie:


ahahaha
This one you ask, even call my name...lolz
I attend Living Word-Chapel.

nnekamezor:
LOL.. Surprised? I see. Okay, ooo was thinking na Anglican

AgapeCharis:
hmmmmm
So ur real name is Edith

HARDDON:


Eph 5:23 how could man hv made this? Huh?

Christ is the Head of the Church as d man is d head of the home. As much as we all love to hv a lil chat n reach a compromise on certain issues , there r some that r none negociable.
And this is one of them.
For peace to reign, the wife must acept d leadership of d man in dis regard .
Thru out the bible , God spoke with Men not their wives. He wanted Issac sacrificed , he spoke with Abraham , and Abraham never consulted Sarah. U can imagine what her response would hv been.
So wives, follow ur men, at all cost n by all means.


Now u deviating from d argument when u mention both having to attend separate churches( that shouldn't even occur nonetheless)
What we were on about was d fact that after wedding, the wife much follow her husband to his church! If u ain't comfortable with his church, then don't marry him! Period.

We all know: any two headed animal is a beast and two captains can't be on same both.
From time immemorial so itz been, women move from their family, abandon family names and churches, n Clive to their husbies .

But u indomie n egg gurls not only want a man that would pay ur bride price, u also want to keep d unknown family name with a dash, dictate which church all will attend and generally lord it subtly over ur supposed head of the home .
And u just begun

Kachisbarbie:


lolz...I don't like the name though - I prefer my igbo name (Onyinyechi)