bukatyne:


Is it women who are territorial or Nigerians?

Let's do this experiment: for those who drive while hubby is in the car, Please carry someone else in front, .pick him up somewhere and let him seat at the back.

I like experiments

Volunteers anyone?

Icherishu:

Some Nigerian women. I expect the person to respect the man and move to the back. But I as a woman won't make fuss about it. If hubby friend was in the car before I came. I won't even make a fuss about it. And I won't even talk about it.

blank:


My husband will collect the key from me and drive. He will say it's cos of his long legs, he can't sit behind someone.

anthoniaz:
There's this my fiance's friend that like following us wherever we are going and he likes sitting in front so whenever we are going out I just take the back seat.The one that annoyed me most was when I and my fiance travelled to see my parents, he insisted he wanted to follow and I sat at the back.

What I don't really like about it is that, when people see two guys sitting in front and a girl at the back, they would feel it's one random girl the two guys just picked .That's how I feel

stinggy:


Believe me, some pretense are normal, to show respect.

bukatyne:


That friend lacks courtesy

Gently discuss with your hubby to be especially on the issue of him following you guys around.

I am sure that the both of them would have some guy time together so his friend should free you guys sometimes.

However, if you both are living together,.it might be a bit difficult.

It is well

bukatyne:


But the woman does not deserve same respect?

Does the person moving to the back not signify that there is some importance to the coverted front seat?

My point is that 99% of Nigerians in Nigeria attach a sort of importance to the front seat. It is not a woman's thingy

anthoniaz:

Thanks...no ooo, we don't live together, I visit once in a while, we live in different states. My fiance's tenant is more or less like a brother to him(fiance) because they all lived together back home so whoever visits his tenant is also a friend to my fiance and this particular guy in question is always around cos of job search though he has a job nw,2weeks off,2weeks in,so he lives with his cousin who's my fiance's tenant.

Truth is, he's tired of his friend's attitude but I tell him to just forget abt it.Last month he wanted to pick me from where I was so we could go and buy our rings, lo and behold, the guy jumped from the house that he wanted to follow him.I tire for the guy matter but I don't complain sha even when oga is complaining I just tell him to overlook his friend. Make e no be sey I no want him friends around

Icherishu:

Yea you are right everyone deserves that respect. But some people won't just let it slide. That is why I keep using me me word. I personally won't make a fuss out of it.

Icherishu:

Yea you are right everyone deserves that respect. But some people won't just let it slide. That is why I keep using me me word. I personally won't make a fuss out of it.

bukatyne:


Sista mi,

I no sabi this kain politricks o!

My little understanding is that a man you want to marry is your intimate friend and confidant

If you cannot tell him how you truly feel about his friend now, when will you do it?

Discuss with him honestly on this and every other thing you have been feeling and adopt this method going forward.

I will have my PA send you the bill for my counsel

Christmas is fast approaching; woman must hammer.

cKaiser:
You should sit on your friends lap

Meddler:
Jesus should sit in front at all times. Case closed!

turasumon:
some women self. is dere gold in d front seat? personally I prefer sitting @ d back but u self no try ooh