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Re: My Husband Says I Am The Cause Of His Problem by tellwisdom: 5:18pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
Who's oluwa saani funmi?? |
Re: My Husband Says I Am The Cause Of His Problem by beeevan: 5:47pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
Locking of shirt? I will beat you to pieces! Nonsense! How dare you? Don't ever try that even if you are drunk. |
Re: My Husband Says I Am The Cause Of His Problem by emeraldoe(f): 6:18pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
freshdude2:Pls don't misquote me, read again. Yes, u shud knw how much ur spouse earns but u shudnt be askin how it was spent. I won't expect my hubby to ask me how I spent my salary(he has neva done dat), so I won't do same |
Re: My Husband Says I Am The Cause Of His Problem by emeraldoe(f): 6:23pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
Tiredwify:my dear u've made a right decision. Add ur own finances only wen necessary cos u r his helpmeet. D Lord will strengthen us. |
Re: My Husband Says I Am The Cause Of His Problem by gazilion: 2:44pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
Tiredwify: Please, make sure the pastor is matured and can act not only as a pastor but as a real father. Do not take your husband to a pastor he does not have regards or respect for. It won't work!! Take him to a man of God he genuinely respects. finally do not make it a habit of running to your pastor anytime you have disagreements. If you do, the pastor may not only run your home for you, your husband will lose respect and may begin to suspect both of you. |
Re: My Husband Says I Am The Cause Of His Problem by Onegai(f): 4:33pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
Tiredwify: I think you should have a right to know how your husband spends his money. You two need to start saving for your future (you cannot expect your children to support you in old age). Men, you and your wife are 1. Share all with your wife, speak about finances together. Come together, share about how your day went, how to handle the children, outsiders. Your wife is NOT your enemy, she is your helpmeet, your co-commander, your biggest supporter. Be her champion. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Says I Am The Cause Of His Problem by koolg: 11:40pm On Dec 18, 2014 |
Tiredwify: some women are just evil and then they will be complaining whereas the problems about which they complain is apparently caused by them. a woman earns more than her husband yet it's the husband who should take a loan to pay the rent while the woman does what pleases her with her salary yet this woman has the audacity to question the man about how he spends the little remnant. yet their favorite song is gender equality |
Re: My Husband Says I Am The Cause Of His Problem by Nobody: 12:14pm On Dec 19, 2014 |
koolg: I am sorry sir. I took a loan to finance my education too. However, are u saying that I should have footed the bill of the rent since I earn more than him? If yes, maybe next year. Because he has paid for this year's rent. |
Re: My Husband Says I Am The Cause Of His Problem by limamintruth: 9:23pm On Dec 19, 2014 |
Tiredwify: Eyaahhhhh, sounds funny to me sha (no offense |
Re: My Husband Says I Am The Cause Of His Problem by giftedmum: 9:51am On Dec 20, 2014 |
pls send me Ur email wld lov to talk to u. |
Re: My Husband Says I Am The Cause Of His Problem by giftedmum: 10:23am On Dec 20, 2014 |
pls send me ur email. wld lov to talk to u. |
Re: My Husband Says I Am The Cause Of His Problem by Nobody: 10:03pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
giftedmum: Thanks i have sent u an e-mail by replying ur pm. Right now i need someone to talk to. You are right on time. |
Re: My Husband Says I Am The Cause Of His Problem by Nobody: 3:06pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
Mologi:Only topics like "tonto dikeh shows off new butt pad" or " the most handsome nairalander" makes FP on NL, serious issues dont matter. You should know that by now |
Re: My Husband Says I Am The Cause Of His Problem by KanwuliaJara: 4:26pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
Errrrrrrrrrrrrm. . . . Your journey has not started o. Please, you ain't seen nothing yet! How many CHRISTIAN WIVES do you know in that your 'BIBLE'? |
Re: My Husband Says I Am The Cause Of His Problem by janvier27(m): 6:04pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
But why did he say you are the cause of his problems? Anyway adversity brings out the real character in eveveryone. I think you both need some financial literacy. I doubt if he really needed to take a loan for house rent. If he enjoys reading, encourage him with motivational books, personal financial management. Encourage him to invest in something that he will love to watch grow, and that will motivate him to appropriately direct his spending. This self help will go a long way; pastors in most cases cause more havoc to families. |
Re: My Husband Says I Am The Cause Of His Problem by delishpot: 11:44pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
Do I see women saying she deserved to be beaten because she " locked" hubbys shirt? |
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