unsuitable in the sense of not considered good enough because of some qualities beyond your control eg background, ethnicity etc.

ok, since nobody seems to have experienced this type of thing (either its too embarassing or I'm the only one in this situation), then I'll continue.

Were they prevented from or were they not interested in befriending you because you're not suitable?

How did you cope with the rejection?

well, one of my main policies is , if it doesnt seem to be happening then perhaps its not meant to be.

coping with <<perceived>> rejection is easier when you dont have unrealistic expectations or outlook.

you really dont want to be a square peg in a round hole anyway, very uncomfortable for all involved. If its not a good fit then it simply isnt, and you shouldnt push it.

This hurt my feelings, see how you're blowing hot and cold, darn.

You never strike me as one that had feelings...

I've never been considered unsuitable as a friend, but I've considered a lot of people unsuitable as friend. I do not need a list to remember them. The moment i see/interact with such a person, i'll know for sure and if my actions cannot spell it out then I'll have to convey the message verbally.

udifrancis:


You never strike me as one that had feelings...

Good for you.


Consider it a learning experience.

udifrancis:
I've never been considered unsuitable as a friend, but I've considered a lot of people unsuitable as friend. I do not need a list to remember them. The moment i see/interact with such a person, i'll know for sure and if my actions cannot spell it out then I'll have to convey the message verbally.

The question has nothing to do with people's behaviour, but rather their background.

Posters should please stop pretending to miss this important point. I know yall get it but are feigning ignorance.

udifrancis:
I've never been considered unsuitable as a friend

Then the thread is not for you.

Observing

ok, since nobody seems to have experienced this type of thing (either its too embarassing or I'm the only one in this situation), then I'll continue.

I think it's too early to jump into conclusion.

xynerise:
Tpia and her weird threads

This thread isn't weird at all ,I think it's kinda hard for dumb folks like you to understand what she is saying.

iyabodeh:
. If someone Has issues with me for Whatever reason, it's his/her loss! .

Personally, I don't even consider all that, I just immediately remove them from my mind and move on.

I notice the expected reaction is what you posted, its not that way for me at all.

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