I'm 18 years old, a 200level student of Uniben. It all started 2 years back when I was 16. Using my elder sister's picture as my d.p on 2go, I met a guy, Leonard, who lives in Abia State, 27 years old. A very nice, funny and wonderful dude. I used my real age to open the account but I told him that I was 26. When he asked why I changed my age to 16, I lied that I mistakenly wrote 1996 instead of 1986; and he believed. Any time he asked for my pictures, I would send him my sister's picture who was 25 then. He noticed from my voice that I was younger but I told him that I talk like a baby 'cause I'm the last child, he also believed. He has introduced me to his mom, elder sister and younger brother; his elder sister called me last week. He has graduated and now working with DESOPADEC. Each time he asked to see me or talk to a member of my family, I would decline with one excuse or the other. And my elder sister is already married (last year november) with a kid, that the last time I visited, I had to convince her to put on jean trousers instead of wrappers so she wouldn't look like an old woman, just to get pictures to send to Leonard. And now Leonard told me that he wants to settle down, and that I should spend the Christmas holidays at his place, and that I would sleep in his mom's room just to assure me that he won't touch me. He has been a very great friend. The nicest guy I've met,, but how can I tell him the truth? I still love him as a friend and I don't wanna lose him. Please! What should I do??

16yrschoii

Tel him the truth..

Lolzz..funny piece..u cnt av him..not anymore..u guys can meet and av sex if u want but u av told too many lies dat no mata wat u say to him face to face,u av lost out..

This doesn't sound like what Leonards do.. No Leonard would want to settle down with a babe he hasn't seen.


Tell us the guy's real name.

Finally, i got the truth here, surprise, N/L here we come, you are now that angel my brother is talking about abi?, wonder shall never end, ok ooooh, true confession, well we will talk later shaaaaah

Just like my experience when I wanted to go into relationship... I just got frustrated by lies and decided to be on my own...For lying and not being sincere and open to him even when you saw he's not a player; I pray and hope you lose him...I believe soonest you will meet with a good player too##karma is a faithful and dutiful employee of nature## lessons for other so to say smart babes...

PLS, this is an indian film. *hiss*

Eyyah,it all started as some kid play. I don't think it can ever go past the play thing. I think its best you forget him,close all communication gateways and move on with the hurt of too much "e-play". The guy'll be hurt too.
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Or you can decide to spill it,but I think the hurt would be much more if you spilled it,much more than forgetting. If you spill it,you could still be friends,but you will never be in a relationship in either cases.
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Besides OP,you guys dating?
Ayamlaykorn

This clueless or silly Leonard must have paid a lot of cash into your bank account?

Since your sister is already married, the only option left is to tell him the truth and see where everything would end.

Tallesty1:
This doesn't sound like what Leonards do.. No Leonard would want to settle down with a babe he hasn't seen.


Tell us the guy's real name.

His real name is Leonard

There's one thing about "TRUTH",now matter how many years it might take,the fact is that he'll know the truth someday,so why not now?
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I think it's best you tell him even though i know you can cut communications with him but telling him will lighten your heavy heart.

The Gods must hear this

Tell him that just because your pics,etc are fake, you aren't. Your interactions aren't fake, hopefully he'll understand.
Tell him you love him too and that's not fake

Why lying about your personality,actually he loves your sister not you chi kina
and stop playing with this guy emotion or less it will backfire

Andyblaze, come and advise this girl.

Ab initio
Nothing good can come out from it cos
You have been deceiving him.
Tell him the truth if he's truly your friend.

Oops!!
It all started out with lies...
Then more lies,,greater lies.....and the Lies goes on

Moment of truth is finally here...
The harsh reality is beter than a false hope

you'd better come out clean and watch what happens next!!

*coughs out loudly* Errm...miss..i don't see it ending well sha
Goodluck tho!

Tell the guy the truth and forget about him cos i think he might lose interest after hearing the truth.

Ur in 200lvl and still 18yrs. Question is ''Do u also want to settle down now??

Just let him know the truth an wait for the aftermath!!

MissSlimbody:


His real name is Leonard

No lemme catch you there

Tallesty1:
No lemme catch you there

Catch me if you can

Ok.

Medunah:
Tell the guy the truth and forget about him cos i think he might lose interest after hearing the truth.

Ur in 200lvl and still 18yrs. Question is ''Do u also want to settle down now??

Marry? Hell no, I already have a boyfriend. I knew the relationship wasn't gonna work out. Last year I wanted to end our communication, or tell him the truth but I couldn't because I don't wanna hurt him and I still love him.

Tallesty1:
This doesn't sound like what Leonards do.. No Leonard would want to settle down with a babe he hasn't seen.


Tell us the guy's real name.

d problem is that u tried to grow up as fast as a bean seed.

CuteEmma:
Marry? Hell no, I already have a boyfriend. I knew the relationship wasn't gonna work out. Last year I wanted to end our communication, or tell him the truth but I couldn't because I don't wanna hurt him and I still love him.

You shouldnt have wasted his time nah since u know u already had someone. If you love him, you would told him the truTh

Everyday for the thief, one day for the owner