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For Those Married To A Spouse They Didn't Love Initially. by Nobody: 6:21pm On Nov 20, 2014
Day say sometimes d love grows later in marriage.

So I wd like to hear from dose who got married to someone day rily didn't love initially:

* maybe it was an arranged marriage by ur parents/family or maybe it was on contractual basis.

* maybe she got pregnant for u or u got pregnant for him, and u guys just had to get married.

* maybe she was rily in love with u but u only just liked her so u decided to marry her, since its safe to marry someone dat loves u more, or vice versa.

* maybe u were desperate and decided to settle for who was available.

Woteva was d case, it all boils down to d fact dat der was no initial flame of love or passion felt by the two of you at the time of the wedding, maybe d oda person felt it sha. But d fact remains dat one or both of u was not really in love with the oda fellow but u guys still got married sha.

If u had any such experience, ur d one I wd like to hear from. So how has it been thus far? Have u guys grown closer to each oda? Has it been rough, smooth or interesting? Has d love which was not der in d beginning grown in u or ur spouse as a result of living togeda? Can u rily say ur enjoying ur marriage?

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Re: For Those Married To A Spouse They Didn't Love Initially. by StPete: 6:32pm On Nov 20, 2014
The fact remains that whatever you are trying to deduce from this will be inconclusive because, some will definitely find a way to live with it while others would have to go their separate ways
Re: For Those Married To A Spouse They Didn't Love Initially. by Kanwulia: 12:06am On Nov 21, 2014
Love in AFRICA. . .for AFRICANS. . . .by AFRICANS!!!!

LWKMD!!!!! cheesy
Re: For Those Married To A Spouse They Didn't Love Initially. by Nobody: 6:29am On Nov 21, 2014
Kanwulia:
Love in AFRICA. . .for AFRICANS. . . .by AFRICANS!!!!

LWKMD!!!!! cheesy



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