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Should A Woman Assist Her Fiancé In Paying The Bride Price? by Charleschidera(m): 4:57am On Nov 22, 2014 |
The bride price, also known as the bride token, is an amount of money or property or wealth paid by the groom or his family to the parents of the bride. In Nigeria, the amount a groom pays as bride price depends on the tribe, culture and the parents of the bride. Should the groom or his family be unable to pay the amount requested by the fiancée’s parents. Now question is, Is it proper for the bride to assist her partner in paying the bride price. |
Re: Should A Woman Assist Her Fiancé In Paying The Bride Price? by madone: 5:19am On Nov 22, 2014 |
no its not too good for the interest of both of them.she can help in other tins during the preparations not the bride price.she should allow him find the money even if it takes him collect lting loan from his friends. |
Re: Should A Woman Assist Her Fiancé In Paying The Bride Price? by Nobody: 5:21am On Nov 22, 2014 |
If you cannot pay the bride price you don't have any business getting married. How will you pay for the rent and upkeep. |
Re: Should A Woman Assist Her Fiancé In Paying The Bride Price? by Tallesty1(m): 5:58am On Nov 22, 2014 |
madone:Wondering what someone who cannot afford a bride price do with a wife. |
Re: Should A Woman Assist Her Fiancé In Paying The Bride Price? by madone: 6:02am On Nov 22, 2014 |
Tallesty1:I wonder too but sh**t do happen at times |
Re: Should A Woman Assist Her Fiancé In Paying The Bride Price? by Melahou(m): 6:32am On Nov 22, 2014 |
You can borrow from her and pay... Later you balance up |
Re: Should A Woman Assist Her Fiancé In Paying The Bride Price? by Nobody: 6:34am On Nov 22, 2014 |
you cannot pay bride price, but u want to marry? lol its funny sha. she can help with a very small amount..but when things start going well, he has to pay her back |
Re: Should A Woman Assist Her Fiancé In Paying The Bride Price? by DesChyko: 6:39am On Nov 22, 2014 |
If she wholly assists him, it is most likely a sign of desperation. In the man's part, it seems belittling and I wonder how he can preserve his manly pride in such scenario. But if she helps him in some part - well, we hope in God it doesn't hunt him later. But the guy must be very hadworking before she can do this confidently. |
Re: Should A Woman Assist Her Fiancé In Paying The Bride Price? by RAKITIC: 6:57am On Nov 22, 2014 |
Nope . If u cant pay then u have no business doing marriage |
Re: Should A Woman Assist Her Fiancé In Paying The Bride Price? by Burger01(m): 7:02am On Nov 22, 2014 |
As long as the bride price is not more than 35k, no problem Bride price doesn't really tell the expected value of a wife in the husband's life or in the marital home - does it |
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