Joavid:

Lol @ in this lifetime.

Shine ya eyes take your time and you'll find one or two or three lol.

No one is perfect you know. What if you find one that meets all your "standards" and her badonkadong is as flat as a board?

coogar:


learnt that since age 12.
if you want less arguments & squabs, tell her what she wants to hear - what you gotta do should be locked safely in your heart.

SirShymex:


Oh, well, I don't go around finding what's tougher than Finding Forrester. But if I'd meet one, without the badonkadonk and there's connection, and she complement's me based on my philosophy on life, then I'm on it. Funny enough, my ex never had a huge badonkadonk (just normal), but she looks like a Gabrielle Union clone - with F-cup on her chest and a lot of qualities you don't see in most chics. Bwoi, I had to jump on that and became a bre.ast-man. Supremely attractive! Then I've got a few chics with big badonkadonks now, but I don't even like them on that level cos there's no connection whatsoever. Regardless, massive batty with connection, isn't too much to ask for.

However, if I'll be honest with you - there are more empty vessels out there who just talk for the sake of it, without actually saying anything. You just have to adapt to the flow.

SirShymex:


Nah, I'm asking about ya badonkadonk lol.

Really and truly, I mean it. My standards are very high, and using those standards as a premise for women would be extremely harsh, cos most women can't meet them. Er, let me use this medium as a case study, since we are both members - how many female posters can make logical arguments about reality? - very few, maybe a handful lol. So, what is the point of having standards that can never be met?

Anyway, badonkadonk can't be left out - it is very important. Err, let me add connection to it.

Mondisweets:
you seem to have the fish brain syndrome yourself and you are a male

alutacontinua:


F cup? without an arse to complement it?
I imagine what the shape must have looked like

zeb04:
Don't you all get tired of opening all these threads.

These list not changing anyone's opinion about marriage or life so what's the point

SirShymex:
Joavid, how big is ya badonkadonk?

That is the only standard I care about in women lol.

Most women have fish brains. Some of them might be book smart, but very few of them are problem solvers. So, the appearance is the only thing I care about in women loool.

SirShymex:


what does a primitive zulu with spear know about about having brain matter?

Mondisweets:
For one i know im not zulu neither is it the only tribe on this planet

SirShymex:


Lol, denying ya roots now, no?

Er, I was just calling you to upgrade you a bit - I know you're a san woman.

KanwuliaJara:
Another "submissive" thread?

Una go wait taya o!

Me sef LOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE "submissive" boys and men o!

They make me VERRRRRRRRRRRRY "wet"!

xcapizt:
VickyyB

I bookmarked this thread specially for you. Check out.

NB:it was created by a lady.

xcapizt:
VickyyB

I bookmarked this thread specially for you. Check out.

NB:it was created by a lady.

VickyyB:

Her opinion won't change mine since the one written by Chimamanda didn't change hers.

BTW, I don't have a problem doing all those^^^, with being submissive an exception.

I mentioned that i would love a submissive husband but i was attacked by NL men that i'm a wicked girl.
But here they are, claiming submission. (-_-)

xcapizt:


I wasn't expecting her opinion to sway yours. What kind of feminist will be swayed by a post as as this? I was expecting you to say something witty as usual.

I am a firm believer in egalitarianism as it pertains relationships, a relationship of equals. Too bad the ladies would rather they be dominated. It's a biological wiring thing I guess and perhaps we're not as evolved to escape that yet, Idk.

AfricanApple:
now tell me, why do u guys feel we should be submissive to you, because you have stronger muscles? because the bible said so? because it is generally believed men were created first? or because of the thing dangling between your legs? I really don't get, tell me what makes us less to u men, make me understand
men and women are not the same, agreed but we are humans right? and not some sought of animals bought from the market and trained to be humble and obedient, and that must do whatever its master says

imagine someone comparing a woman's brain to that of a fish how dire

men cannot do without women, women cannot do without men, we all have power enclosed in our genders. its not a man's world or a woman's, it a world for us all

like someone once trashed dis issue, being submissive means u are being dominated, a supremacy is being exercised over you, blahhhh, u know what it is...

imagine when a man says: don't make friends, don't go to weddings, don't do this don't do that, his words are final even when they are wrong

or even his mendulla oblangata is decaying


make una joor o

Joavid:


The ish is, never end up with that kind of man.
Just like men look out for qualities in women, women should do the same.
Set standards for yourself too
So no need for the blame game and playing the victim like you never had a choice.

You always have a choice.

So it goes both ways.

AfricanApple:
now tell me, why do u guys feel we should be submissive to you, because you have stronger muscles? because the bible said so? because it is generally believed men were created first? or because of the thing dangling between your legs? I really don't get, tell me what makes us less to u men, make me understand
men and women are not the same, agreed but we are humans right? and not some sought of animals bought from the market and trained to be humble and obedient, and that must do whatever its master says

imagine someone comparing a woman's brain to that of a fish how dire

men cannot do without women, women cannot do without men, we all have power enclosed in our genders. its not a man's world or a woman's, it a world for us all

like someone once trashed dis issue, being submissive means u are being dominated, a supremacy is being exercised over you, blahhhh, u know what it is...

imagine when a man says: don't make friends, don't go to weddings, don't do this don't do that, his words are final even when they are wrong

or even his mendulla oblangata is decaying


make una joor o

crackhaus:

Noted.

What's the modern word for it? Coachable?

AfricanApple:
you have forgotten that people do change overnight

I am not blaming anyone here, I'm jest asking an innocent question why men feel they should be worshipped

choice to do what

xcapizt:


Where's the triple like button?!

Joavid:



But I think the word submissive is kinda outdated

VickyyB:

Her opinion won't change mine since the one written by Chimamanda didn't change hers.

BTW, I don't have a problem doing all those^^^, with being submissive an exception.

I mentioned that i would love a submissive husband but i was attacked by NL men that i'm a wicked girl.
But here they are, claiming submission. (-_-)

AfricanApple:
now tell me, why do u guys feel we should be submissive to you, because you have stronger muscles? because the bible said so? because it is generally believed men were created first? or because of the thing dangling between your legs? I really don't get, tell me what makes us less to u men, make me understand
men and women are not the same, agreed but we are humans right? and not some sought of animals bought from the market and trained to be humble and obedient, and that must do whatever its master says

imagine someone comparing a woman's brain to that of a fish how dire

men cannot do without women, women cannot do without men, we all have power enclosed in our genders. its not a man's world or a woman's, it a world for us all

like someone once trashed dis issue, being submissive means u are being dominated, a supremacy is being exercised over you, blahhhh, u know what it is...

imagine when a man says: don't make friends, don't go to weddings, don't do this don't do that, his words are final even when they are wrong

Joavid:


Yea according to the article.

I cant think of a befitting "modern" word.
A relationship should be based on a partnership contract.

crackhaus:

It's this defensive posture you ladies always put up that make you misinterpret a simple line as 'women should be submissive' into a master-slave relationship.

The man you should be submissive to is the one that marries you - if you still have a problem with that, you should check yourself...

I don't need every woman to be submissive to me, I only need my woman to be - she has to, and that's the natural thing because women desire to be led...

[after all the internet fronting ends, y'all still want a man to lead and protect you.

If you still interpret this to mean a master-slave relationship, then that's on you - I can't help you explain what you already assume submissiveness implies.

Well I'm not gonna defend that someone, but I can explain the concept.

A fish never learns that when it sees food dangling freely below the water, it most probably has a hook and line attached to it - fishes don't learn, they fall for the same trick every darn time, ergo, fish brain.

Do you get the analogy now?

It is a man's world baby, you can try to paint it anyhow you want but I advise that you be realistic and take a look around.

The wise and sensible woman knows this, and has learnt how to manipulate this world in her favour.

That's not what it means.

Have you ever had the opportunity of being in a leadership role/capacity?
If you have, you should know how submissiveness works in a system where there is a hierarchy.[quote] I have and I am, I know how it works


[quote]This is between that man and his wife.

However I gotta ask though; say you find yourself in such a situation with your husband, what would you do?

AfricanApple:
I am not misinterpreting anything here. na oyinbo man wey get English interpret am like that

I've checked and rechecked, what I saw is still what I see

u don't have any other tangible reasons to give not all women desired to be led by a man

yes i want a man who can protect me, how does that affect my own power to protect him (my man) we are together in this, u know.
marry me and see if I'm just fronting na after all I still love u even after u broke my heart

abeg helep me explain, here in Arabia, we don't study English

that means men have dog brains cos they like sniffing poosies up and down :\

stories for amadioha

we are not one way traffic, we can't all use the same method to manipulate the world in our favour. what works for Beyonce won't work for rihanna

I will open his eyes for him to see he is not my
creator

AfricanApple:
I am not misinterpreting anything here. na oyinbo man wey get English interpret am like that

I've checked and rechecked, what I saw is still what I see

u don't have any other tangible reasons to give not all women desired to be led by a man

yes i want a man who can protect me, how does that affect my own power to protect him (my man) we are together in this, u know.
marry me and see if I'm just fronting na after all I still love u even after u broke my heart


abeg helep me explain, here in Arabia, we don't study English


that means men have dog brains cos they like sniffing poosies up and down :\


stories for amadioha

we are not one way traffic, we can't all use the same method to manipulate the world in our favour. what works for Beyonce won't work for rihanna


then yarn me the koko

bukatyne:


Is it?

Depends on your interpretations

Nice thread