Joavid:


Thanks

We need a new word to replace "submissive".
That word is giving people high BP

Joavid:


Thanks

We need a new word to replace "submissive".
That word is giving people high BP

carefreewannabe:


The people who expect, should first define it.
Nobody knows what it really means.

bukatyne:


It depends on your hubby and really it is present in every relationship between mates or colleagues

carefreewannabe:


I was just trying to remember when we ever had a discussion on being submissive and the answer is never.
We get on perfectly well without having such issues.

I just want to know what people mean when they say a woman has to be submissive. It seems that people are discussing a word they cannot even explain.

Maybe you can explain what it means to you or what you mean by saying that it is party of EVERY relationship.

crackhaus:

The word will always be submissive.

Call it a partnership contract or one with two heads, at the end of the day, one partner will still defer to the authority of the other...and guess what, it's usually the woman doing that in a healthy relationship.

crackhaus:

Look past the dictionary meaning, what it really entails will come to you momentarily


Okay.


Maybe I don't have any other tangible reasons, maybe I do but would rather not try to convince you of something your mind is already otherwise made up on.

Yes not all women desire to be led, but since I'm having this conversation with you - do you desire/would you rather have your man lead you or not?


Lol...if you keep saying I broke your heart, you're going to start believing it pretty soon

You know what I meant by a woman having the desire to be protected by her man.



Look past the dictionary meaning of submission/submissiveness, it doesn't necessarily mean a i]master-slave relationship in a healthy marriage setting.



I don't sniff poosies up and down, neither do I personally know any man who does


Amadioha knows it's a man's world, so does sango and Buddha


True, you are to figure out how to manipulate your world in your favour.


In other words, fight/disregard him?
He is not your creator, but your husband.

Well I don't support those kind of restrictions if there are no good reasons for them.

bukatyne:


Lol! @ men have dog brains

In essence, women are fishes and men are dogs

No wonder they seem not to meet anywhere

AfricanApple:
but there is is one thing and one place they don't ever disagree, on a bed in a bedroom

bukatyne:


All hope is not lost then

AfricanApple:
I tell u

coogar:


women aren't even allowed to speak or exert any authority over a man. none of the holy books(bible or quaran) instructed women to speak where there are men present. the holy book(1 timothy 2:12) says a woman should keep mum at all times.

AfricanApple:
to your first question, i don't desire to be led by my man, our positions are equal even though we don't do things equally, we are meant to lead each other...


... to the lord's kingdom

@2nd question, yes I would disregard him. if u fail to respect me u definitely gonna loose mine
listen i'm not saying I will be fighting my man over minor issues just because I feel he is not my superior, but when I know I'm right in a particular argument and he doesn't want to hear me out or feels his words his final (especially for selfish reasons) then disregard must come in

@bolded, u are not being truthful here, we all know that most men can't use their eyes to see any human with two oranges and a hole

@italic I already believe it

crackhaus:

Lmao..

You give no quarters my man

crackhaus:

Okay you both lead each other to the lord's kingdom, but first to earthly eternal ecstasy

But I'm pretty sure he'll be doing more of the leading...and protecting.

Would you rather disregard your husband over such trivial things than obeying him that one time, then having a talk afterwards so you can both come to a compromise?

MizM yColi usually says, I quote and concur:
Wisdom is profitable to direct...


Well I'm not most men, trust me.

I usually come off as having an intense and serious demeanor around strangers in real life, that's what the ones who ended up acquaintances or friends say about our first encounter subsequently.
For a lady to have that much control over me, she has to be superbly stunning...as in, drop dead gorgeous. But even in such cases, I still manage to keep up my cool predisposition...I may get carried away for a bit, but I still can't be seen slipping or not in control of myself around the most sexy woman.

So yes I was being truthful...I don't go around sniffing poosies, never have and never will - believe that

Lmao...I'm innocent.

I have never broken any woman's heart, at least from my perspective - I'd like to keep that record clean

AfricanApple:
it could be the other way round u know, but however it works for a couple is the couple's biz
all I want u to know is dat submitting to one's husband is not a do or die affair.
but it is a no no for me unless say u be undertaker

oya make we leave am like that. no need disturbing my brains too much with marriage issues now. better things to do uhn

he can not always have his way, dats not possible. one thing is that I will not do to my man what I dont want him to do to me. if I tell him not to do something (especially what i feel is not right) and he doesn't, why won't I listen to him if he does the same but like I said, we can't both always have our ways. hope u understand what I'm trying to say here

u are beginning to make me fall harder but like u always say, people say one thing on the internet and do the opposite in reality

I didn't mean literally smelling poosies, I mean most men likes sex like its a ticket to heaven, and they can't just keep to one sex partner, they go for it up and down. u see, that makes them 'a dog brain'

let me also ask u one question why are u so obsessed with this submissiveness of a thing

crackhaus:

Lol...okay then.



I understand.


Very smart of you to be skeptical, no need trying to convince you here on the internet regarding that then


I knew you meant it figuratively, my subsequent explanation also fits.

I don't go sexing women up and down, get it?



To be honest, I've never even used the word during a conversation with a woman outside NL.
I know the word upsets a lot of you females here, so I'm not surprised you think I'm obsessed with it cos I consistently peach it.

A woman still has to be submissive to her husband though.

AfricanApple:
u no just wan gree sha
anyhow na, everybody with hin own.

coogar:


i am a bible-believing individual.

crackhaus:

You will be a virtuous and submissive wife, say amen!

zeb04:
Don't you all get tired of opening all these threads.

These list not changing anyone's opinion about marriage or life so what's the point