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Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by Stephxoblessed(f): 5:18pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
kazlaw2000: I dnt think that is weak.thats maturity and i respect him more. 1 Like |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by yemivictor: 5:50pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
HARDDON: If she wouldn't "bulge"?!! Hmmm! I may have to resign from NL afterall.... |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by Shirley07: 5:56pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
Leave the house for weeks and tell her it would continue like this if she doesn't change her temperament. |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by yemivictor: 6:38pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
fr3do: LWKMD! You can't be serious. |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by Nobody: 7:04pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
aisha2: He will wait till she cuts off his manhood in his sleep before he will know what the time is. |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by yemivictor: 7:05pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
coogar: A million e-kisses to you. NL needs more minds like yours... |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by 19naia(m): 7:08pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
chowlade: Yes true, some are bloody murder from start to finish.. I think i am gaining better insight these days on how to spot women like that and avoid them from the very first day we cross paths... |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by yemivictor: 7:30pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
SirShymex: Please what is "YOLO wave" sir? |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by Nobody: 9:46pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
yemivictor: You Only Live Once. And the wave is about being young and wild, and enjoying ya youth. You are only young once as well. So you gotta ride that wave lol. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by eckersley: 10:08pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
HARDDON:Which of the foot should he put down? The left or right? |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by Kingexcellence(m): 1:02am On Dec 15, 2014 |
Timbuktou: You have probably been tormented by 'wrong' ladies. Your wife in the tru context of it will feel remorse for going haywire foor a few minute. She undrstands what that might cost the relationship. She cannot just bear your emotional distress. She's connected to you really, your pains becomes her's, thats the truth. |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by Nobody: 7:57pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
No person (male or female) deserves to be in a marriage he or she is abused and unhappy, simple. Tallesty1: |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by vanitty: 8:35am On Dec 17, 2014 |
Situations like this happens more than we know but unfortunately the way society is set up, there is this general belief that women are the weaker sex but trust me that is totally not true. Sure, a man MAY be stronger physically but a woman MAY kill emotionally and render you useless you with her tongue. That been said, I can assure you that you handled it perfectly, had you reciprocated, you would have been the one in the wrong ( another society set up) You sir , need to take it a step further, she has done it twice and she has more or less escaped scot - free. Remember the adage, fool me once, shame on you, twice shame on me. I will suggest you have a serious one to one with her, labelled the point and please stick to it, think of it as a contract if you must. Next time, she abuses you in any shape or form, stick to any agreement you have. Let her understand there are repercussions for her actions. Hitting is not cute! Lastly, communication. If there is something off with your routine/pattern for the day, take time out, even just 5 minutes and talk to her about it. Why you will be late etc. Good luck and yes you are right, marriage is not child play!! Most men are seen as the monster for hitting back even though the wife had done it for eons. Something about life not being fair springs to mind and why I personally think all this male - female equality will never work. |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by hughjass: 12:48am On Jun 03, 2020 |
Women love tough guys who do the things mentioned, but will willingly take spankings when requested like in the photo. tintingz: |
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