Happy New Year in Advance all Nairalanders!!!!!!!!!!

Can anyone plz tell me what it can take a man to find his ideal partner? I dont want to remain a bachelor in the coming year, i need her now!

I need everyone's suggestions, plz!

Money is like a magnet that draws girls towards your direction. The more money you have, the more girls you attract. I hope I've answered your question

well, thanks, i dont think everything is money, and if women come to men because of money, then its not a good idea, a woman should be ready to stay with a man no matter what his situation is, what it entails is unconditional love!

crazykid:

Money is like a magnet that draws girls towards your direction. The more money you have, the more girls you attract. I hope I've answered your question

its a litttle bit more than money. it takes[b]swagger[/b]to seal the deal.
but i cant teach you ma swag you can pay for school but you cnt buy class.

Money isn't everything jor, though it helps

My dear unconditional love no longer exist. Most girls want to be comfortable. Believe me, I've seen so many relationships get wrecked due to lack of finance. If you ask me, I think money is essential if you want to have a successful relationship.

crazykid:

My dear unconditional love no longer exist. Most girls want to be comfortable. Believe me, I've seen so many relationships get wrecked due to lack of finance. If you ask me, I think money is essential if you want to have a successful relationship.

Obviosuly money is essential, I just mean that the guy does not have to be stinking rich, as long as he is not poor to the bone, average is good enough, he should be able to take care of his girl, he should be hardworking and exhibit great potential, some girls just get too much ojukokoro for eye

Quit scrutinizing my girl. Ibukun don't mind them baby. Financial stability is extremely important

H2O2:

Quit scrutinizing my girl. Ibukun don't mind them baby. Financial stability is extremely important

Lol yes now, finacially stable, doesn't have to be the nigerian Bill Gates, though I'm not saying being rich is a bad thing

@ Topic
U can find that special someone anywhere, all u have to do is be patient and also beleive, u dont want to turn LOVE away even when it stares u right in the face,

No romance without finance

Smurf
And how do u know when love stares u in the face.

I think we underplay the importance of money in relationships. Though money is not important, it is ABSOLUTELY necessary. Money can't buy u love, but it will sustain the love. Without money, love vanishes gradually

@ ND
Fortunately most people don't realize it until its gone very few stick to it till the end, all in all, I say we should try and be as accommodating and tolerant when it comes to relationships,

@Ndumart. You're the true son of your father. Without money, it would be very difficult to advance in any relationship. Even if the girl you're dating doesn't constantly ask you for money, you must spend money in order to make her take you more seriously.

@ Topic.

I will find mine whenever I meet 1 that doesnt have "vulturic" interest in my pocket,
Who's not with me because of my physical attributes
Who respects my culture and traditions
and who would want just boys as kids.

sillyboy:

@ Topic.

[b]I will find mine whenever I meet 1 that doesnt have "vulturic" interest in my pocket,[/b]Who's not with me because of my physical attributes
Who respects my culture and traditions
and who would want just boys as kids.

Good luck wiff that one oh, maybe u should go to the village for that,!!!!!!!!!! heck village chicas don open eye too,

~smurf:

Good luck wiff that one oh, maybe u should go to the village for that,!!!!!!!!!! heck village chicas don open eye too,

The solution that is easy now.
It's a matter of going for a chick with ambition and well educated.

The king of my town (Ilesa) promised me fine chick. . . .it's just that I have not been there in a while

I knew u were going to end up wiff a village chic all these while i just had that hunch seriously, old fashined fella like u too,

Forget it. . . .
Village girl ko , clan girl ni.
Am ending up with an oyinbo jor. . . .
even my pastor knows.

OJ Simpson ANYONE? ? ? ? ?

thanks for all the comments!

But its like most people here believe money is more important in setting up a relationship. But what can you say in a situation where a man is comfortable with a nice job (presidency appointment), nice looking and average educational background?

~smurf:

OJ Simpson ANYONE? ? ? ? ?

Sharrrrrap jor.  
OJ simpson ko OJB ni.
Oyinbos are not materialistic like you naija girls.
Moreover, there wouldnt be any headache about raising inlaws financially like one will have marrying a naija girl.

@topic
Often times we all have the picture of our ideal spouse. Tall, handsome/pretty, humorous, hardworking, gentle but not too cool, GENEROUS, romantic, broad-shouldered, easy-going, down-to-earth and many other qualities. But its really difficult to find someone with all these qualities embedded in one. If we all should wait for our ideal partners then we may never get married.

ndumart:

@topic
Often times we all have the picture of our ideal spouse. Tall, handsome/pretty, humorous, hardworking, gentle but not too cool, GENEROUS, romantic, broad-shouldered, easy-going, down-to-earth and many other qualities. But its really difficult to find someone with all these qualities embedded in one. If we all should wait for our ideal partners then we may never get married.

so in that case, what will one do?

Na so so Money shaaaaaaaa, everywhere u turn on nl
Ahn ahn

Saylawchar:

so in that case, what will one do?

U need to get PAID. . . . . .

hmm,

@poster
dude,its better to be patiently single till true love finds you than hooking up with the wrong girl that ll smash your heart to pieces

lucabrasi:

@poster
dude,its better to be patiently single till true love finds you than hooking up with the wrong girl that ll smash your heart to pieces

But how long will i continue to wait when my mates are already producing now? I dont want to be seen as a desperate guy here but it think its high time i get married!

i have not find the answer to my question. Does is mean there are no ladies on this site who could contribute something?

ideal varies from individual to individual. what seems ideal to u might not be for another person. my advise is that u mix with people u share common interests with , people of like minds with u be it at work, church and social circle. in short, move with the "right people" for u AND U'LL SURELY FIND UR TYPE AMONG THEM.

Saylawchar:

i have not find the answer to my question. Does is mean there are no ladies on this site who could contribute something?

the earlier you realize nairaland is also known as jokeland the better