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Advise Him!!!he Cant Just Stop self-servicing!!help!!1 by Nobody: 10:30pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Please this is serious..this post is talking about me.like seriously,I have a girlfriend,if you read my other post,but i have not had sex with her over 2 years we have been together reason is that i don't feel sexual feelings with her or any other girl..I just loving going down on my own..i have been even with a girl at cricksteem town for like a month where she stayed with me but i never had sex with her,she complained bitterly about that,but i am always going down on my own.its not that i don't want to have sex.i don't know if t cause i was sexually abused when i was 3..ever since then,it grew from bad to worse.i had to climb poles sticking my penis as a kid..due to no girl availabe,i even used a pawpaw tree at the back of my compound where i made a hole to use..sometimes i boil hot water and pour in to it, to make it warm..please ,HOW CAN I STOP THIS.. HAVE TRIED..EVEN NOW AM POSTING THIS I JUST FINISHED MASTURBATING NO LIES..PLEASE HELP ME..WHAT CAN I DO THIS IS GETTING SO SERIOUS NOW.I DON'T WANT TO BE A GAY..PLEASE.IF YOU KNOW YOU HAVE EXPERIENCED THIS PLEASE HOW DID YOU STOP..I MASTURBATE EVERYDAY,EVERY NIGHT..JUST THAT AM INTO BOXING AS A SPORT THAT WHY AM STILL STRONG..AT THIS MY AGE I STILL DO NOT LIKE TO HAVE REAL SEX RATHER TO SEX MYSELF.please don't laugh or make mockery of me.i only need to stop this.if i don't open up,i will die in silence. |
Re: Advise Him!!!he Cant Just Stop self-servicing!!help!!1 by holatin(m): 10:32pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
if ur hand cause u to sin cut d godamned hand |
Re: Advise Him!!!he Cant Just Stop self-servicing!!help!!1 by Nobody: 10:33pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
holatin:Need advice.You are not making matters easy here |
Re: Advise Him!!!he Cant Just Stop self-servicing!!help!!1 by Nobody: 10:42pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Honestly..only u can help ursef ..decide to stop it and be principled abt it..pray also cos telling people myt make them see u as sometin else.. |
Re: Advise Him!!!he Cant Just Stop self-servicing!!help!!1 by Nobody: 10:44pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Hi there, please calm down. There's no overnight solution to this so you need to have patience, lots of it. I suggest weaning yourself, let me explain If you do it X number of times per day or week (depending on how quickly you want to wean, going by day will be faster), then you wean by X -1. This method won't starve you but then your brain subconsciously registers a reduction over a period of time, allowing itself to adjust. In addition to this, if you can afford one, consult a psychologist. Think about alcoholics anonymous (AA), most habits as such are conquered over a period of time. Don't judge yourself, love yourself first, that way you don't fall into guilt which can lead to remission. The first step to change is accepting the need for a change, you have done this, good job 1 Like |
Re: Advise Him!!!he Cant Just Stop self-servicing!!help!!1 by theorbiters: 10:51pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
If u are humble enof, you shud go tell ur pastor if u have one. And hey, do u watch porn? If u do, stop it. What u see can trigger that stuff wen u are alone. It is hard oooo, but wen ever u feel like 'going down' instead, go on ur kneels and pray. Engage ur mind with something else cos wen u are alone, ur mind begins to replay stuffs that are stored in ur head. So after praying, make sure u feel ur head with something that will edify ur inside. Ask God to give u self control and u self, CONTROL URSEF. God will not come down to do it for u. |
Re: Advise Him!!!he Cant Just Stop self-servicing!!help!!1 by braine(m): 11:08pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Stopping won't be easy. But you can limit yourself to a specific number of times a week. Or do it when you achieve something, etc.. |
Re: Advise Him!!!he Cant Just Stop self-servicing!!help!!1 by pyyxxaro: 11:09pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Hahahahahahahhahaha........ U even climb tree for the matter , even pour hot waateer for ur prick !! Oogaan oo Go to the nearest MFM close to you , tell them what you have been doing to ur prick I trust de would disgrace that demon that makes you buy soap and vaseline The Devil has lost the battle |
Re: Advise Him!!!he Cant Just Stop self-servicing!!help!!1 by Applaner: 11:10pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
no nid to read ur post pls visit de nearest mountain of fire for serious deliverance |
Re: Advise Him!!!he Cant Just Stop self-servicing!!help!!1 by Nobody: 5:21pm On Dec 18, 2014 |
Thanks for the advice.but he thing is am not a christian..we don't believe in jesus okay.and i noticed even if i get back from work,or at my office i still have to masturbate again and again,and i keep liking and loving myself for that.i don't feel ashamed in anyway.however i have talked to my parents about this but still i couldn't stop..i don't know if it cause i am always in the internet,so i visit porn sites often or sometimes when just browsing this like sexy pics appear where i have to go there.i noticed am an internet freak the way i am a sex and masturbation freak..i am beginning to think i wont have a home with my wife for this..i have given you more clue on my life please help me |
Re: Advise Him!!!he Cant Just Stop self-servicing!!help!!1 by cheatmastergerr(m): 5:31pm On Dec 18, 2014 |
I was once a victim buh I've stopped tho Just reduce it If the formula you are using now is 1-1-1, make it 0-0-1 Gradually, u'll stop it ok Goodluck 1 Like |
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