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"You Look Sexy" Is An Insult by tobechi74: 7:57pm On Dec 19, 2014 |
YOU LOOK SEXY" IS AN INSULT Ladies,do you always feel happy when people see the way you dress and say you look sexy? "You look sexy" is not a greeting, it is not a compliment, it is an insult. They are telling you, you are good for sex only, they are telling you you have something good under your skirt, but nothing tangible under your Cap. They are saying you are a bed professional, bedroom expert and nothing more. They are saying your greatest asset is under your pant, what an insult, never allow anybody to tell you, you look sexy again, because that simply means they are saying you are boys toy and guys pleasure tool, sex symbol and not a great personalty, not somebody to be respected. They are simply saying you are closer to been a prostitute than to been a Virtuous, quality and exceptional woman. So always dress to look pretty and beautiful, don't dress to look sexy. Queens and FIRST LADIES don't dress to look Sexy, they always dress to look beautiful, adorable and pretty. But BED LADIES will dress otherwise because like whores their value and biggest asset is in bed. Always remember that good product are always well covered, branded and well packed, but worthless product are always exposed for all dick and harry to see, make yourself valuable, cover up girl, let your daughter be proud of you in future, stop been object of Lust and passion. So when you are dressing tomorrow morning ask yourself, am I dressing like a FIRST LADY or like BED LADY, let your dressing answer for you tobechispeaks./2014/12/19/you-look-sexy-is-an-insult/ |
Re: "You Look Sexy" Is An Insult by alabiyemmy(m): 8:00pm On Dec 19, 2014 |
in your mind. |
Re: "You Look Sexy" Is An Insult by Nobody: 8:01pm On Dec 19, 2014 |
Some threads should never be opened. 4 Likes |
Re: "You Look Sexy" Is An Insult by mizjules(f): 8:09pm On Dec 19, 2014 |
I concur.. I always get goose bumps when told I look beautiful. What happened to you look good,gorgeous,pretty etc 1 Like |
Re: "You Look Sexy" Is An Insult by motherlode: 8:23pm On Dec 19, 2014 |
hmmm , i simply agree it is neither a greeting nor a compliment but an insult in a seductive manner! i pray for such ladies |
Re: "You Look Sexy" Is An Insult by dablazor: 8:53pm On Dec 19, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:its true though.. telling a girl she looks sexy is an insult, its being sexually objectized. i get offended when guys refer to my gfs as sexy, its an insult. 3 Likes |
Re: "You Look Sexy" Is An Insult by Nobody: 8:57pm On Dec 19, 2014 |
dablazor: When a guy tells a woman that she is hot, it is up to her to decide whether she takes it as a compliment or insult. 1 Like |
Re: "You Look Sexy" Is An Insult by dablazor: 9:02pm On Dec 19, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: when a guy tells my gf she is hot to her face in my presence, i'd slap his face in and make a face drum out of it, what an insult. u need to know what actually goes through the mind of we men when we say 'hot' or 'sexy'.. then u might segue, once u understand. 1 Like |
Re: "You Look Sexy" Is An Insult by Nobody: 9:04pm On Dec 19, 2014 |
dablazor: How often does it happen that a guy tells a girl that she is se*xy in the presence of her boyfriend? Never? |
Re: "You Look Sexy" Is An Insult by dablazor: 9:08pm On Dec 19, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: that is because they view it as insulting too, and would only say it to the girl cuz she doesnt know what it actually means. "you are sexy" is an insult.. depends on the context too, maybe. 3 Likes |
Re: "You Look Sexy" Is An Insult by Nobody: 9:09pm On Dec 19, 2014 |
dablazor: They don't say it because it's an insult but because it would mean that the guy is trying to flirt with a girl that is already taken. My boyfriend often tells me that I am hot and it's not an insult so PULEAAAASE! |
Re: "You Look Sexy" Is An Insult by buccal(m): 9:09pm On Dec 19, 2014 |
Oh,okayyy,so if you say someone's voice or legs are sexy.its means you want to have sex with.... |
Re: "You Look Sexy" Is An Insult by dablazor: 9:14pm On Dec 19, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: 'your bf' that is a big distinction.. thats okay. |
Re: "You Look Sexy" Is An Insult by Nobody: 9:16pm On Dec 19, 2014 |
dablazor: Why is it ok? According to the OP my boyfriend thinks that I have nothing upstairs when he says so. |
Re: "You Look Sexy" Is An Insult by dablazor: 9:16pm On Dec 19, 2014 |
buccal: 'nice set of legs' |
Re: "You Look Sexy" Is An Insult by dablazor: 9:18pm On Dec 19, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: well there I disagree, he is your bf, not just a random guy tossing compliments. i just hope he calls you beautiful, gorgeous too tho 2 Likes |
Re: "You Look Sexy" Is An Insult by Nobody: 9:20pm On Dec 19, 2014 |
dablazor: He does. |
Re: "You Look Sexy" Is An Insult by dablazor: 9:25pm On Dec 19, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: no worries then |
Re: "You Look Sexy" Is An Insult by bukatyne(f): 10:36pm On Dec 19, 2014 |
OP, That your definition no longer works and we use 'sex.y' and 'hot' for well dressed, intelligent colleagues. The circumstances would determine if it is an insult or not. If I am called s.exy when well dressed amongst my peers who know my worth, I will see it as a compliment If I am dressed like a s.lut with breasts hanging out, s.exy would sure be an insult 1 Like |
Re: "You Look Sexy" Is An Insult by EfemenaXY: 10:40pm On Dec 19, 2014 |
tobechi74: ***Yawns*** Okay. 1 Like |
Re: "You Look Sexy" Is An Insult by Nobody: 10:49pm On Dec 19, 2014 |
Tiring mehn... 1 Like |
Re: "You Look Sexy" Is An Insult by SAMBARRY: 12:15am On Dec 20, 2014 |
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Re: "You Look Sexy" Is An Insult by iykedare(m): 8:08am On Dec 20, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: You once called me 'sexy ' in the presence of my e-wives. Remember? |
Re: "You Look Sexy" Is An Insult by Nobody: 8:53am On Dec 20, 2014 |
iykedare: To be honest, I don't but did you feel offended? |
Re: "You Look Sexy" Is An Insult by Nobody: 9:11am On Dec 20, 2014 |
I think people abuse the use of the word nowadays. You could be decently dressed yet be told you are s.exy. Ive never taken the word seriously though. 2 Likes |
Re: "You Look Sexy" Is An Insult by iykedare(m): 11:56am On Dec 20, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: Offended that I'm sexy? Why should I be? |
Re: "You Look Sexy" Is An Insult by LordReed(m): 12:22pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Sophyrocks: That's cos the word is no longer tied to sex. Sexy car, sexy computer, etc. It is more a reflection of the attraction you feel for something than how much you want to have sex. I tell female colleagues you look hot but I have never had one get angry and take it as an insult or think that I am hitting on them. It's a compliment and it should make a lady feel good about herself. Of course a "toaster" can used the very same words and the same lady will be creeped out or feel like he is merely flattering her, that's where context plays a role. 2 Likes |
Re: "You Look Sexy" Is An Insult by Nobody: 1:20pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Re: "You Look Sexy" Is An Insult by Nobody: 4:01pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Not in and of itself, no. But depending on the context - the words, the manner, and the man - it can be uncomfortable, or insulting. If you've never gotten a distasteful "you're sexy" comment before, you should thank your lucky stars. |
Re: "You Look Sexy" Is An Insult by dablazor: 4:31pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
EnlightenedSoul: u have sexy eyes 1 Like |
Re: "You Look Sexy" Is An Insult by Nobody: 4:46pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
dablazor: Likewise 1 Like |
Re: "You Look Sexy" Is An Insult by dablazor: 5:50pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
EnlightenedSoul: why did u have a black rectangle covering half of your face? |
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