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23 Ways To Know If S/he Loves You by ProfGday(m): 8:51am On Dec 27, 2014
23 Little Ways You Know Someone Actually Loves you.

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1. They act the same way around you as they do around their friends.
2. They would go out of their way to bring you food and medicine and walk
your dog when you’re sick, even though your place is in the exact opposite
direction than would otherwise be convenient to them — and they wouldn’t
consider it going out of the way.
3. They’re not afraid to call you on your bullshit, but do it in a way that is kind
and not judgmental.
4. They don’t freak out if you don’t text them in x amount of hours, because
they feel solid and confident in what you have together.
5. But they also know that if they miss you, it’s on them to text — or better
yet, call — and say hi… while not overstepping boundaries and bombarding
you with messages (especially if you’re in a meeting).
6. They remember little random things like the fact that you’re in a meeting to
begin with, even if you only mentioned it in passing and not so that they
knew, but rather because you were venting about your stress level or
something only marginally related.
7. Flowers for no reason other than “just because.” (Or a steak dinner if
you’re a dude or allergic to pollen or something. But guys can receive
flowers, too.)
8. They respect your right to personal space, especially when you need your
alone time or to cool down from an argument you both had.
9. The apology they give you (if they were honestly in the wrong) is sincere,
and not a half-assed attempt to get you off their back. (But also, when you
actually love them, chances are good you won’t be relentlessly reminding
them hardcore about how much they messed up, anyway.)
10. They ask before they steal a fry off your plate, but don’t hold it against
you when you forget to ask and steal one off of theirs.
11. If some big opportunity arises in your life and they’re not entirely okay
with it because it’d uproot both your lives, they’ll actively work to see if
there’s some happy medium so that you both can get what you want. This is
called a compromise. (And if something huge happens in their life, they
consult with you before uprooting your world, too.)
12. They do the chore they know you hate so that you don’t have to do it
(even if they hate it, too).
13. They respect when your opinion is unwaveringly different from theirs,
and don’t press the issue as to why they’re right and you’re wrong.
14. They don’t judge you for that one verging-on-the-insane obsession they
don’t share. (But like, there are limits. Don’t expect someone who loves you
to understand why you’d be a stalker.)
15. They’re more concerned about how comfortable you are than they are
about how you’re stealing the covers.
16. They know that sometimes, it’s the little moments of affection — all the
hands held under the table, the inside jokes and glances that nobody else will
notice — that matter most.
17. But they’re also not ashamed to kiss you in public and then post a selfie
of it to Instagram every now and again.
18. They’ll share the last bite of something, whether they’re full or you just
really want to try it at the last minute.
19. They’re more ready to do something for you than they will ask something
from you.
20. For your birthday, they’ll never let it stand that you say you “don’t want
anything” or that you don’t want them “to make a big deal” — they’ll do
something special for you anyway.
21. They will continually listen to you about family and friend issues, but will
push you to make the relationship right, because sometimes just agreeing
with you is not in your best interests. (But on the rare occasion when you
just really need to vent, they will let you but they will know it’s not their
place to join in.)
22. They don’t burden you to take care of them when they’re sloppy or if
they’re in a really bad situation, but also trust you enough to let you know
what’s gnawing on them and to let you in if you show signs of wanting to
carry that load with them.
23. They’re not afraid of saying they love you, the minute it overcomes them
to say so. And whether it’s the first or thousandth (or ten thousandth) time
it’s been said, no matter if it’s a shout or a whisper, it still sounds honest
and sincere and like there’s no one else they’d ever rather say it to.
Re: 23 Ways To Know If S/he Loves You by Nobody: 8:55am On Dec 27, 2014
Wen u go get marry if u use all ur years to observe.
Re: 23 Ways To Know If S/he Loves You by Beesluv: 8:57am On Dec 27, 2014
Good
Re: 23 Ways To Know If S/he Loves You by Zaikon(m): 8:59am On Dec 27, 2014
Hhmm almost all
Re: 23 Ways To Know If S/he Loves You by Sanchez01: 10:16am On Dec 27, 2014
smiley smiley smiley
Re: 23 Ways To Know If S/he Loves You by ProfGday(m): 12:36pm On Dec 27, 2014
starlingleanets:
Wen u go get marry if u use all ur years to observe.
you keep on doing it until u get it right noni
Re: 23 Ways To Know If S/he Loves You by Nobody: 12:40pm On Dec 27, 2014
I think dis should be on FP
Re: 23 Ways To Know If S/he Loves You by DrObum(m): 12:45pm On Dec 27, 2014
If I hear say person go read all that stuff!




















Make am 50 nah undecided
Re: 23 Ways To Know If S/he Loves You by AkProsper(m): 12:46pm On Dec 27, 2014
AND WHILE READING THIS, HE OR SHE WAS ON YOUR MIND.
LIKE IF TRUE.
Re: 23 Ways To Know If S/he Loves You by ProfGday(m): 8:16pm On Dec 27, 2014
starlingleanets:
I think dis should be on FP
I agree with u bro
Re: 23 Ways To Know If S/he Loves You by ProfGday(m): 8:19pm On Dec 27, 2014
DrObum:
If I hear say person go read all that stuff!




















Make am 50 nah undecided
ppu like u do include something like this "ability to pay attention to details" in their CV. Both na super-duper lies
Re: 23 Ways To Know If S/he Loves You by ProfGday(m): 8:20pm On Dec 27, 2014
DrObum:
If I hear say person go read all that stuff!




















Make am 50 nah undecided
ppu like u do include something like this "ability to pay attention to details" in their CV. Both na super-duper lies.Common 23 lines u can't read them patiently....

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