Hi NL

There is this girl whose whenever she sees me, she always took a glanced at me (in campus) to the extend that my pals started noticing her and later called my attention towards her but I neglected due to my reputation in campus (Naqib). She made all her effort to get my attention which was later successful.
She collected my number and add me up on whatsapp, we started chatting, she lamented that its being a while she's has been trying to get my attention which later prove successful with a lots of pressure.

After all the perpparazie intro, she told me she likes me and she only wanted to be my friend, I insisted that I don't makes friend, I only date, but she keep on pressuring me which I later considered (don't know why I did cos she's not my type).

We value our friendship so much to the extend that she can't do without seeing me, she calls me everyday, every night and vice versa.

We discuss a lot about her relationship with guys. How her heart was broken, she keep insisting that all men are wicked, we had a series of argument on that issue which I later convince her that all men are not the same.

Along the line, I started having a strange feeling towards her, in which have never encountered b4 in my life. This urge feeling occurs whenever I saw her coming towards me, my manhood will started erecting to the extend that whenever she calls, it will still happen (haba! 'lust' ni yen ke). I tried to control myself in such a way that I started neglecting her, dodging her calls, but she knows something smelled fishy, she ask what's wrong, I told her not to worry that it's my problem not hers'. She insist, I narrated the ordeal, she burst into laughs after listening, but I told her its all over now.....(damn I'm so fvcked)

To cut it short.... There is this little distance between btw us now, she keeps calling and calling, telling me she missed me like hell, 'I'm dying to see u', which I've only spent like a weeks (for holiday) insisting that I should hurried back as early as possible.....

I missed her also, I barely called my GF since have met her and whenever we discuss sum'in pertaining to my side of relationship and made mention of "suppose we are dating now......." She'll smile and look at me, though she make it clear (no dating)

I'm confused don't know may be i have feelings for her.
I don't want to loose her and as well as I don't know how to be friend with women without having feelings for them.

What can I do pls
#No Insult
Thanks in anticipation!

Dahjhi:
she actually succeeded in tampering with your feelings.. No matter what advice we give you here may not help you than you following your mind and damn the consequences.. Shes not your type you say, and forget about she want to be just friend, female friend finish for campus? Abeg if you are the carpenter type, nail her and see if she still wanna be friend.. Lets see what happens next ,

Thanks buddy

from Experience, dat kinda friendship is expensive to keep and it expires sooner. The Expensive I meant no be money o, Its attention Seeking, Time consuming and Care demanding. With time its either U guys date or One fvck up She go hate U for life.

#Friendzoned

You shouldn't have told her about the feeling that your prick charge everytime you see her. I think the girl too wants to straff. So guy the next you guys meet just straff her

Mumu

Lies! Lies!! Lies!!!

Hian!

keep the friendship, give ha the attentn she needed,

aristocrazzy:
You shouldn't have told her about the feeling that your prick charge everytime you see her. I think the girl too wants to straff. So guy the next you guys meet just straff her

The mistake I made though

She loves you na, signs are obvious

My dear u better b carefull, d gal in questio has feelings 4 u n she tried al means 4 u 2 aproach her bt u noticed it n u ignore her. She hv 2 use another means of geting u by u asking 4 frndship and nw she as won ur hrt, wot she is waitin 4 is 4 u 2 propose 2 her and after that...................... My brother all i hv 2 tell u is that dnt fall 2 her trap other wise u wil regret ur action all thru ur life tym

Aghans:
My dear u better b carefull, d gal in questio has feelings 4 u n she tried al means 4 u 2 aproach her bt u noticed it n u ignore her. She hv 2 use another means of geting u by u asking 4 frndship and nw she as won ur hrt, wot she is waitin 4 is 4 u 2 propose 2 her and after that...................... My brother all i hv 2 tell u is that dnt fall 2 her trap other wise u wil regret ur action all thru ur life tym

Thanks a bunch!

I couldn't get past your Engrish, so I stopped reading.

no wonder!!!

real men know how to control their feelings so you just have to control.
besides,how come your gf have not noticed any change in you##she no dey sharp##

English is dead in Nigeria. Op, work on your composition.
Fact: have regular and intimate communication with a person and love creeps in. Try it with your enemy and it's the same result.
Do it with God and it's the same.
We only love by communion.