Happy new year to my fellow naira lander's wishing a prosperous year.I have a situation on ground.there is this girl am liking,in fact loving she is beautiful well mannered and she has 'watin brother like'.seriously I enjoy her company anytime she with me there is never a dull moment,I have told her couple of times how I feel for her she always smile and says she don't believe boiz anymore,sometimes I wondered what she meant by that.she actually told me she has a boyfriend but her countenance read a different meaning,my peeps how will i gett this girl,should I keep putting my proposal on her table everyday for her to keep to keep pondering on or I should go the other way on the ground that she diont believe boiz anymore.advice needed please

In my own little experience and the knowledge garnered from it, I'l say this comes in different ways. Considering you just asked her out, she won't give you your desired reply immediately. But you really need to worry bout "she doesn't believe boiz anymore" oga, that's work for you o. Really need to work on that and bring up your A game.
Now the critical moment for you to back off and take your offer off the table is when she mentions it repeatedly that she can't date you. Don't just waste your time, no light at the end of the tunnel.
She's had bad experiences with men for sure, your job is proving otherwise that you are different, being yourself with no pretence, she'l fall in love with you when she realises that. Good luck bro.

debonairprinx:
In my own little experience and the knowledge garnered from it, I'l say this comes in different ways. Considering you just asked her out, she won't give you your desired reply immediately. But you really need to worry bout "she doesn't believe boiz anymore" oga, that's work for you o. Really need to work on that and bring up your A game.
Now the critical moment for you to back off and take your offer off the table is when she mentions it repeatedly that she can't date you. Don't just waste your time, no light at the end of the tunnel.
She's had bad experiences with men for sure, your job is proving otherwise that you are different, being yourself with no pretence, she'l fall in love with you when she realises that. Good luck bro.

boss thanks firbthe info what you saying now is for me to baxkout a bit even on the ground that she told me she wud think about it?

odibenson:
boss thanks firbthe info what you saying now is for me to baxkout a bit even on the ground that she told me she wud think about it?

No, every lady thinks bout it, what I meant is when she expressly says "I can't date you" repeatedly. Yeah you back off. Now she's thinking bout it doesn't mean you should ask wat her decision is every minute you communicate. Get busy with other things together. Ask her out on a date. Walk her when she feels like, compliment her occasionally, but not everytime, cos she'l know you are lying. The best time to remind her bout your proposal is when she's having the best time with you. Relaxed, comfortable and smiling. That's when you get the best response ever. Mind you, this may not favour you, but she's actually saying the truth at the moment.

debonairprinx:


No, every lady thinks bout it, what I meant is when she expressly says "I can't date you" repeatedly. Yeah you back off. Now she's thinking bout it doesn't mean you should ask wat her decision is every minute you communicate. Get busy with other things together. Ask her out on a date. Walk her when she feels like, compliment her occasionally, but not everytime, cos she'l know you are lying. The best time to remind her bout your proposal is when she's having the best time with you. Relaxed, comfortable and smiling. That's when you get the best response ever. Mind you, this may not favour you, but she's actually saying the truth at the moment.

fantastic boss ...I saw her on Xmas eve at her own house and also we saw yesterday at a lounge close to my side .I told her just how I felt yesterday

Go back and Do your home work right and she'll leave her ghost bf and stick to u like magnet

odibenson:
fantastic boss ...I saw her on Xmas eve at her own house and also we saw yesterday at a lounge close to my side .I told her just how I felt yesterday

Interesting! Then you are on the path to a successful love voyage. Good luck once again.

alberto2k:
Go back and Do your home work right and she'll leave her ghost bf and stick to u like magnet

thanks boss's guy abeg gv me scope make I add join my own.....uu know 2 heads are surely better than one

debonairprinx:


Interesting! Then you are on the path to a successful love voyage. Good luck once again.

thanks boss more scope needed from uuuuu don't leave ur nairalanders alone ooo

Is this a diary section?

odibenson:
thanks boss more scope needed from uuuuu don't leave ur nairalanders alone ooo

Then upload your progress as it unfolds.

Op U said the girl said she doesn't believe boys anymore, show her U aren't a boy and the rest will be story for d gods .

greetins to uu all..sorry it took me to update on the latest development on me and this babe.....we have been talking talking but the problem am having is that,the talking is too one directinal,am the only one doing the talking,she always reply with yes" I have heard" am hearing uuuu" the convo is boring sometimes I wud refuse to call her.like for example I ask her how was her night,she replies fine without even bothering to reciprocate it back at least courtesy demands.the girl is just too boring for my liking