When choosing a life partner is it possible to be a 100% sure?
For the married, were you? For those about to, are you?

100% sure aint like it. One way or d other, u will still have one or two doubts

If spiritually guided, yes, I can be 100% sure. If not, I can be 60% sure

Nobody is ever 100 percent sure. If one wants to deceive himself, then he can continue to think that his partner is perfect and immune to change.

Nobody is sure, but risk is taken. Divorce is always a solution if the road taken becomes unbearable.

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What are you talking about?. . . .
You cant even be a hundred percent sure of u. . .
talkless of a union with some1 u met at Oshodi bridge

Identity problem eh?

No be u give me the viral infection. . .
Am loving it though. . .
I even tried to create a new 1 but them no gree

Why not?

_{Lemme stop}

Mba.  Women are unsure of themselves.

H2O2:

Mba. Women are unsure of themselves.

And men are sure of themselves?
You're so sexist!!

dis topic's been thrashed alot of times

Shut up, you're bitter.

I am the truth.

T_bag:

No be u give me the viral infection. . .
Am loving it though. . .
I even tried to create a new 1 but them no gree

atleast we know who is infected and who is not for future refrences.

@topic its almost impossible for someone to be 100% sure, to be 100% sure u know u are in ur 2nd marriage and has dne it b4 sotherefore know wat to expect, but for the first timers, its like embarking into an unkown destination

Ebony-Silk:

And men are sure of themselves?
You're so sexist!!

men are the mostunsure when itsnot even them pushing the baby out or carrying the heavy load

You can be sure she won't look the same 2 years down the line.

acidrop:

men are the mostunsure when itsnot even them pushing the baby out or carrying the heavy load

What the hell does this have to do with anything?  Olodo! The only heavy load you dey carry na your size 22.

H2O2:

You can be sure she won't look the same 2 years down the line.

and he will?

H2O2:

Shut up, you're bitter.

I am the truth.

shut it. . . .truth ko

I don't care about the "he" . I am talking about what will happen to her.
This is the truth.

H2O2:

You can be sure she won't look the same 2 years down the line.

You got dat rite!!!  

Ebony-Silk:

and he will?

He won't change dat much!  

J-girl, berra come and handle this

H2O2:

I don't care about the "he" . I am talking about what will happen to her.
This is the truth.

True that she'll change.
But the marriage is not only about her. Stop thinking about a one way traffic here. He's also going to change, which may affect their marriage

H2O2:

What the hell does this have to do with anything?  Olodo! The only heavy load you dey carry na your size 22.

OH God so we can have a freaking rest in this nairaland whitout some random mumu pops out from nowhere. n who told u it has nothing to do with it, you are the olodo there aint u d one who said the girls are scared, if we were u dumb skinny ass would not have been born

Lord_Reed:

You got that rite!!!  
He won't change that much!  

Thanks.

Don't mind that yeye girl trying to lick my words as if say na lollipop.

Lord_Reed:

He won't change that much!

beg to differ
1. potbelly
2. bald head
3. starts caring less for fashion
4. as each year goes by, they become more lazy because they become more used to their wife pampering them.
5. Less vigor in the bedroom
etc

Lord_Reed:

You got that rite!!!  
He won't change that much!  

yeah ryt wat is he gonna do with all that pot belly, like the one H202 is tryna hide under that big t-shirt n he's not even married

H2O2:

Thanks.

Don't mind that yeye girl trying to lick my words as if say na lollipop.

~roll eyes~

acidrop:

[b]yeah ryt what is he going to do with all that pot belly, like the one H202 is trying to hide under that big t-shirt n he's not [/b]even married

Ebony-Silk:

beg to differ
1. potbelly
2. bald head
3. starts caring less for fashion
4. as each year goes by, they become more lazy because they become more used to their wife pampering them.
5. Less vigor in the bedroom
etc

TO MENTION BUT A FEW

I don't think anyone can be 100% sure of anything. (ok one can be 100% sure that God exists). Even if you're 100% sure today, people change and things happen, no one knows tomorrow. If you feel led by God and by your heart that it's the right thing to do then you go with it, and pray everyday and work at it everyday so that what you have at the beginning lasts.

U can never be sure

In theory,yes but practically,the positivity should outweigh the negativity.

Interesting replies thanks everyone. Keep em coming!!!

nothing is 100 percent fool proof
just learn how to tolerate the bad even if its more