You have a great relationship with your partner. You both
like each other and enjoy each other’s company.
Everything is going smoothly until one day your partner
introduces you to their smart best friend! And boy, you
can’t stop thinking about your partner’s best friend. As
you meet the best friend more often, you start liking them
more and more and start losing interest in your own
boyfriend or girlfriend.
Well, this is not an imaginary situation. It has happened to
many couples. No, Wait! It happens to ‘most’ couples.
Why? Because there is always a good looking best friend
of either the girl, or the guy. And more often than not, the
best friend is either hitting on you, or you are hitting on
them and have a crush on them. You want to get out of
your present relation and mingle with them!
Is this sane? Is this fair? Is it worth it? The answer to all
the questions is NO. There are very few people who can be
happy with their boyfriend or girl friend’s best friend
forever, with their ex in their life.
Here is why eyeing your partner’s best friend is a deal
breaker and is NO good.



1. Destroying a relationship
Remember that if you are breaking up with your partner
for somebody else, you are destroying a relationship,
which might be absolutely perfect in the eyes of your
partner. Also, what you are feeling for your partner’s
friend might just be infatuation or a crush. Is it completely
sensible to just throw away what you have built with your
partner over time, for a fling or casual feelings? In the long
term, it will always be remembered as regret by you.



2. Destroying a friendship
Also, by eyeing your partner’s best friend you are doing
no good to their friendship. They will absolutely break off
and might become enemies for life. Just take a moment and
think, what you are doing to both of those people.
Remember that you might break someone’s faith over love
and friendship by your selfish motives for a fling. You are
stealing the person of two most important factors in life,
love and friendship!



3. Hurting the ego
Break ups are normal. Everyone is okay with them after
some time. It could be because of mutual differences, long
distance, career problems or due to attraction to other
people. But when this attraction is to own best friend, it
hurts like a lightning has struck upon you. It hurts the
person’s ego to no end. Since the person knows his
girlfriend and best friend well, he might not be able to stop
picturing them together and this could be so very
traumatic.



4. Back stabbing
Worst part is, it is considered back stabbing. It is the “girl
code”, the “bro code” and all the other codes of the
universe that a bro should never eye a bro’s girl and a girl
should never eye her girlfriend’s guy. Moreover, you are
ditching your own partner for somebody who he or she
introduced you to in the first place. If it wasn’t for your
partner, you wouldn’t have even known them! Sound very
evil indeed.



5. Comparison factor
Even if you do manage to break up with your partner and
stay with their best friend, and build a relationship with
them, there will always be a comparison factor. He or she
might ask, frequent questions about you and your ex (aka
their best friend). And the answers of those questions will
lead to constant comparisons every now and then which
will eventually lead to fights and then a big break up!


What are your views about the post? Have you ever had
such an experience? Share your opinion in the comments
section.

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patrickdarlins:
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and a kis from...elantracy....

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...... Are you guilty of the above?

MrTeymee:

...... Are you guilty of the above?

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