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14 Clear Signs You’re In A Girl’s Friend Zone! by Eljay24(m): 9:33pm On Jan 22, 2015
#1 She avoids being seen with you so people
don’t get the wrong idea.


#2 She talks about her hookups. Possibly the
worst part of being in the Friend Zone, is having
to hear all about the other men she is totally
digging, while you are not one of them.


#3 Three’s not a crowd.
If you invite her
somewhere, or anywhere that is remotely
private, and she brings along a friend and somehow it ends up turning into a group event.
*This is just another tactic women use to say “Sorry, I’m not interested”
If this
happens once, maybe it is a coincidence, if it
happens again then there is no doubt where you
stand
.


#4 She’s drunk, and still no signs!
You finally
got her to the bar, you have her alone in public
*just the 2 of you* and after a few drinks she still
wants nothing to do with you! No slip ups about
how crazy it would be if both of you started
dating. No inching closer as the drinks flow to get
closer into your arms. Not looking good, man, not
looking good at all!
Your own as Finished better find an Escape route"


#5 There is no physical contact between the
two of you.
A hug does not count here, what are
we, 12?!
If you hug each other every time you
see one another, you cannot realistically believe
she is interested. I’m just moving on to the next
point, I hope you get the hint.


#6 She’s so casual.
You can tell that she isn’t
making any attempt with her appearance to impress you when
you see her.

Again, not looking too promising here, friend.


#7 You watch a whole movie! The worst
thing that can happen when watching a movie
, her
placing her head on your shoulder.
"That move
just SCREAMS Friend Zone!!
No!! it's not a good sign"

If you try to hold her hands
Any movement away from you should let you
know what's up.


#8 Brother from another mother?
As stated
in an example above, being referred to as a
“bestie” is a terrible situation for you to be in. But
being referred to as “the brother she never had”
your screwed it's even worse, because who in their right mind
would ever think about a “family member” in a
dating scenario?



#9 Shopping time. Does she ask you to go
shopping with her on a regular basis?

Now let me
clarify, if you’re being invited to do some "lingerie
" shopping, this may be a great opportunity for
you.

But shoe shopping, handbag shopping,
carrying her purchases through the mall while
following her around like a puppy dog, that is
where things start to look grim.


#10 She needs your advice. She asks for tips
on what guys are looking for in a woman. She
isn’t asking that to woo you, I can promise you
that. She clearly has her eyes on another guy,
and is wondering how to make him notice her.
But if you want to keep telling yourself she’s
talking about you, go ahead, whatever helps you
sleep at night!


#11 Sharing a bed. You have shared a bed with
this person and yet, did not take part in any type
of physical activity. You finally get her alone in
your room and she is “too tired” or “so exhausted
from the long day” and wants to head right to
bed. If you are bold, try and initiate something
once both of you get into bed, but you are mostly
likely looking at a much more direct rejection
taking place within the next few seconds!


#12 She tries to set you up with her friends.
If she is constantly tell you how perfect you are
for this friend or that friend, what she really is
trying to say is you are not perfect for HER!


#13 You always end up doing favors for her.
You remember the last time you covered for her
during work? Traded shifts? Helped her study for
her final exam at the expense of your own
studying? Giving her rides from place to place
without being invited to these places. Wake up,
man, wake up!


#14 You’re her shoulder. The worst way to
realize you are most definitely in the Friend Zone
is when you end up consoling her each time she
has a breakup. Right after every breakup, who is
the person she comes crying to? The person who
she wants to sit on a couch with, share a gallon
bucket of ice cream while crying the whole time
wondering where things went wrong?

Hope I've been able to open up your Eyes tho*
Re: 14 Clear Signs You’re In A Girl’s Friend Zone! by IKJ66(m): 9:42pm On Jan 22, 2015
ℓ̊ hear ,,,,,
Re: 14 Clear Signs You’re In A Girl’s Friend Zone! by TRADELYN: 9:43pm On Jan 22, 2015
Researching...
Re: 14 Clear Signs You’re In A Girl’s Friend Zone! by Nobody: 9:47pm On Jan 22, 2015
Make i read 1st
Re: 14 Clear Signs You’re In A Girl’s Friend Zone! by AfricanApple(f): 9:53pm On Jan 22, 2015
boys' talk smiley
Re: 14 Clear Signs You’re In A Girl’s Friend Zone! by motherlode: 9:53pm On Jan 22, 2015
Mathematical, AfricanApple, Zick19 where are you?
Re: 14 Clear Signs You’re In A Girl’s Friend Zone! by AfricanApple(f): 10:01pm On Jan 22, 2015
motherlode:
Mathematical, AfricanApple, Zick19 where are you?
I don't know math sad why you called me?
Re: 14 Clear Signs You’re In A Girl’s Friend Zone! by Mathematical(f): 10:05pm On Jan 22, 2015
AfricanApple:
I don't know math sad why you called me?

What?
Re: 14 Clear Signs You’re In A Girl’s Friend Zone! by Nobody: 10:05pm On Jan 22, 2015
AfricanApple:
I don't know math sad why you called me?
i jez dey wake up jhare...
Re: 14 Clear Signs You’re In A Girl’s Friend Zone! by Mathematical(f): 10:09pm On Jan 22, 2015
motherlode:
Mathematical, AfricanApple, Zick19 where are you?

Mother, food don ready?
Re: 14 Clear Signs You’re In A Girl’s Friend Zone! by AfricanApple(f): 10:13pm On Jan 22, 2015
Mathematical:


What?
is that news? sad

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