Please Nairalanders if you are face with an issue where a 20 years old girl fail in love with u seriously and you are not sure if a matured girl of about 26 years and above that u know love u, and your ex who in a way also want to fall back, please which among them will you prefer, is it the 20 years girl that really love you or the matured girl that u are not sure if she love u, or your ex that once disappointed u, and your age is 35, please i need urgent replies

My mat is my love so i shall spread it here

Your ex is out of the picture; she hurt you and I know you ain't going back to that.

Now, between the 20 year old and 26 year old, I'd suggest you date the one you'd possibly take to the altar.
Can you wife the 20 year old? If you can't, don't even go there.

Love with your head, not your heart.

Since you are 35 I think it is a question of whether to marry all of them. You know what to do.

The matured does not love me, but the 20 years love me so much

the 25 years plus girl is so lazy and am not seeing love in her, i have to beg her to cook for me and all that, but the 20 years girl which she can cook for me and all that, she do go to see my parent when am not around but the 25 years does not even ask after my parent

please fellow nairalander i need your candid advice please

According to you, OP, the 19 year old" fail" in love. So she don automatically fail. No bi so?

umohmfonobong:
the 25 years plus girl is so lazy and am not seeing love in her, i have to beg her to cook for me and all that, but the 20 years girl which she can cook for me and all that, she do go to see my parent when am not around but the 25 years does not even ask after my parent

you don't need a soothsayer to know who will love, cherish and care for you.

Someone who gives a Bleep about your parents or another that doesn't a shi.t.?

She's lazy and you have to beg her. I know she's not your wife yet and that responsibility is not hers but we all have our different definition of what love requires and should be and if in any way this is a priority to you. Please follow the younger one with all your heart.

Op you're not serious at all. What you're witnessing is what I call 'first approach' once you're in with her (marriage), you can never be that happy again. All your discussions will be draw backwards. When you say hello she'll say olleh. Rearrange your dating life and leave the kid alone. My former dept. Presido did something of this nature, married a 21yrs old girl now she's a 'KEZIAH'. All dem young fine boys done nyiach her, whether they were away of her marriage, I don't know. Their case is no.1 on their Pastor's list. She complains of the guy's age which is like a bully to her.