EPILOGUE: I just read a thread about how spouses are cheating on themselves in Abuja. Who do the ladies cheat with? A young guy of course... SMH


I had this thread in mind...because I was almost caught in the web.

My best friends are married folks so I have a deal of knowledge and experience as to what this means.

Married women were once single women so some of them still possess this "flirting trait"

Their emotional part is so strong and pronounced that it sparks fire at a little compliment or praise.

That's where things begin to take a U- Turn...


However, some married women (most especially the younger ones) find it difficult to carry themselves in such a way that the young men do not get the awkward feeling that she's passing signals.


Below Are Some Ways Married Women Are Supposed To Be Behaving Themselves Around Single Guys.



1. Stop Touching Them In Awkward Parts


I had this colleague and crush who before she got married likes touching my cheeks (she finds it fun stretching her hands up to touch them). She got married and still doing so. Sometimes, resting on me, I have to stylishly escape. I feel it is inappropriate and not like she is "flat" o


2 Avoid Excessive and Lustful "Lookery"


Looking excessively at a guy you're not married to sends unhealthy messages. I know one can't really stop it but reduce it. Call yourself to order especially if he is a crush or a colleague. Before things get outa hand, get outa that zone!



3. Close up sensitive parts if you want to squat or bend.


You wear a gown and your cleavages are showing. It's reasonable to kinda close up your cleavages with your hand when you want to bend down. That passes an information to him that you're not trying to "seduce" him. The same goes if your top exposes your waist.



4. Always put on your wedding rings (if any)


I met a lady who didn't put on her ring and we were getting quite close. She was beautiful, tall, fleshy and edo-beautiful . My subconscious was already making plans as to how to just settle with her......Until I heard she was married... It cut me like a knife sha..., I began to give her the distance. If you are the lady who uses ring, please put it on always, a beg! Let's know who is who in the market joor!



5. Chat him up like a woman with the psyche of a girl.


Fine, most women are professional, self made marriage counsellors. Fine. But, you should not so soon forget you have a husband who works in the Rig. He confides in you how he has gotten many ladies laid and how that is is challenge. As usual, you begin to fantasize doing it with him! My prescription is: Discuss Moderately like a woman, see him as a protege and not a pal. The psyche of a girl will help you Discuss Sexual Issues With Him Without Getting Emotional Or Desire To Flirt...



I know right now: there are ladies reading this who need help to quit cheating on their husbands in one way or another.

This is a menace that has to be curbed. I hope this helps...

what about the single guys too?how should they behave around married women?

lemmi park here ayam coming

Make I sleep first. Gud9t

*closing my eyes and snoring*

Bisjosh:
Make I sleep first. Gud9t

Sweet dreamz dear

Well done op see u tommorow

1miccza:
*closing my eyes and snoring*

LoL

Call him broda. Turn off

emusmith:


LoL

Bros your laughter dey disturb my snoring laugh like Oyibo small now

dovelike:
Call him broda. Turn off

Call who? don't get

omophunky:
Well done op see u tommorow

See you too BHG!

emusmith:


Call who? don't get

The single guy

emusmith:

Ooooo *increasing the volume of my snoring*

Counter thread eiii

Kachisbarbie:
I greet you @emusmith

I greet you, Her Excellency.

Shaakasi:
Counter thread eiii

1miccza:


Ooooo *increasing the volume of my snoring*

Sleep nefa cash you...

A married woman calling a single guy "village broda" is also a way she can behave around him. It shows and creates disinterest.

dovelike:
A married woman calling a single guy "village broda" is also a way she can behave around him. It shows and creates disinterest.

Ohh

Thanks emusmith, been looking for something to read alast I got one

malonephills:
Thanks emusmith, been looking for something to read alast I got one

Bro, wow ... I'm glad this could help...Thanks Gm.

Hmmm!

emusmith:


Sleep nefa cash you...

*stretching and yawning* ehen wetin you talk again sef OP??

1miccza:


*stretching and yawning* ehen wetin you talk again sef OP??

Oya Go up go read am

emusmith:


Oya Go up go read am

Up?I go need ladder be that o