jackpot:
All married women in the house this post is for you

Sex is holy within marriage, & there is no prescribed style. Nowhere in the Bible or Quran does it say that the missionary position is the only sexual style. Not discussing sex in a relationship leads to separation! Many husbands leave their wives to seek sexual pleasures in clubs and brothels, or with girlfriends. Have you ever asked yourself what those ladies have that you don't? Wives have become very frigid and even sleep with their panties on. If you're a married woman, you should sleep naked and let your bum touch your husband. Today you find men going out of their way to get a glimpse of a vagina. They page through magazines and even go to lingerie departments in stores hoping to see what's hidden under panties, because their wives hide it from them.

Marriage is about being free with your body in front of your partner. A woman should parade naked and do some modelling to tempt her husband. There are many married women who don't know what their husbands' "kobokos" look like. They only feel it when he enters her. They always switch off d lights before undressing. The koboko is a wife's toy - she is supposed to play with it. I blame couples for not making time for sex & complaining about being tired after work. You find couple who've been sexually starved for years.

WHO SAID U CAN ONLY HAVE SEX AT NIGHT?
Why not drive home during lunch and have a quickie wit your husband?

Pls, it just a piece of advice; me i dont know anything oo!

Madam, A guy that will cheat will still do that even if the wife is hanging upside down to satisfy him.

Setaje:
See you people talking like kids. Am not saying adultery is good . But please life is not a one way traffic like everybody sees it. I have seen women who married as virgins yet their husbands still look outside, and some still looking for fruit of womb, would we now say they deserve it? I have seen repented hoes marry pastors. I see useless women marry the best set of men every weekend. Sometimes u cannot explain certain things that happens in life. A lot of men do not set out to commit adultery but it happens so does a lot of women. When it comes to matters of the heart, things are more complicated than paper talk and sometimes no matter how you try not to be caught in that situation, it happens and you have to deal wiv it. For as long as there is human interaction between both sexes in the work place, church, events and meeting, somethings will never change.
Many of you people talking don't no what your father's and mothers have done or are still doing and u cannot adequately say what u would do unless u are in that situation. We all just pray our spouses are different.

madam keep quiet abeg. nothing justifies adultery. what you are doing is akin to bokoharam trying to justify their actions. or armed robbers giving reasons why they steal and harm people.
nothing justifies any of those. nothing

Setaje:
See you people talking like kids. Am not saying adultery is good . But please life is not a one way traffic like everybody sees it. I have seen women who married as virgins yet their husbands still look outside, and some still looking for fruit of womb, would we now say they deserve it? I have seen repented hoes marry pastors. I see useless women marry the best set of men every weekend. Sometimes u cannot explain certain things that happens in life. A lot of men do not set out to commit adultery but it happens so does a lot of women. When it comes to matters of the heart, things are more complicated than paper talk and sometimes no matter how you try not to be caught in that situation, it happens and you have to deal wiv it. For as long as there is human interaction between both sexes in the work place, church, events and meeting, somethings will never change.

Many of you people talking don't no what your father's and mothers have done or are still doing and u cannot adequately say what u would do unless u are in that situation. We all just pray our spouses are different.

No mind them....Na today? It has been happening since time immemorial ......and Seven women shall cling unto one man...Isiah 4:1

Most important is...in your domain..hold your ground well well. otherwise...rival full ground

Arsenate:
madam keep quiet abeg. nothing justifies adultery. what you are doing is akin to bokoharam trying to justify their actions. or armed robbers giving reasons why they steal and harm people.
nothing justifies any of those. nothing

Please act civilised and don't tell me to keep quiet. You don't no me neither do I know u. If u disagree, state your reason wiv out acting uncultured. I won't reply u again.

NIGERIANS: forming holier than thou since 1800.
1) Most of you people here are hypocrites. I know for sure that most of the girls claiming saint here don sleep with a married man at one point or the other in their fake life for whatever reason.

2) Some of them are still sleeping with married men.

3) Some will still sleep with married men.

4) As for the married guys spewing rubbish, 85% of them has girlfriendssss.

5)To the unmarried guys, there is a probability that your present girlfriend wey u dey see as saint has a married man somewhere shinning her Congo. You are probably going to get married to a coded olosho except u ain't gonna marry a Nigerian gal.

6) Most of Nigerian married men are in 1 or more serious relationships.

7) Most of the girls forming saint here are only doing so just to appear responsible to prospective magas on nairaland.

Most of the guys forming faithful husband material toooo......Na lie. All na acting. Na dia type dey go honeymoon wiv gf.

9)Quote me and Die.

10) I am not saying Doing Married Men is right though. WRONG IS WRONG even if everyone is doing it.

jackpot:
All married women in the house this post is for you

Sex is holy within marriage, & there is no prescribed style. Nowhere in the Bible or Quran does it say that the missionary position is the only sexual style. Not discussing sex in a relationship leads to separation! Many husbands leave their wives to seek sexual pleasures in clubs and brothels, or with girlfriends. Have you ever asked yourself what those ladies have that you don't? Wives have become very frigid and even sleep with their panties on. If you're a married woman, you should sleep naked and let your bum touch your husband. Today you find men going out of their way to get a glimpse of a vagina. They page through magazines and even go to lingerie departments in stores hoping to see what's hidden under panties, because their wives hide it from them.

Marriage is about being free with your body in front of your partner. A woman should parade naked and do some modelling to tempt her husband. There are many married women who don't know what their husbands' "kobokos" look like. They only feel it when he enters her. They always switch off d lights before undressing. The koboko is a wife's toy - she is supposed to play with it. I blame couples for not making time for sex & complaining about being tired after work. You find couple who've been sexually starved for years.

WHO SAID U CAN ONLY HAVE SEX AT NIGHT?
Why not drive home during lunch and have a quickie wit your husband?

Pls, it just a piece of advice; me i dont know anything oo!

you are a velly velly badt girl. the quickie thing just turned me on right now. I need my husband right away so I can focus on my work afterwards .

Thunderous ' Amen

temitemi1:
Some ladies will find love in ur husband too when u finally settled... Don't do to others what u don't want others do to you!

You dey mind am?

Eneze1:


Madam, A guy that will cheat will still do that even if the wife is hanging upside down to satisfy him.

Life isn't black and white.

lalasticlala:
Single Lady Wants Married Women To Know They Are Sometimes Not At Fault For Dating Their Husbands






http://www.ladunliadinews.com/2015/02/single-lady-wants-married-women-to-know.html?m=1

So where is the reason,cos i ddidn't see one reason on ur post¿

Eneze1:


Madam, A guy that will cheat will still do that even if the wife is hanging upside down to satisfy him.

Don't mind all this people talking. If life was so straightforward hoes shouldn't be getting married and having so much money. I used to talk like them before till I began to see life for what it is. Its so unfair to a lot of people. I am also talking from experience.

donodion:
Hahahaha See them venting fire and brimstone because of rivalry. If you wont take proper care of your oga,he will get the care elsewhere coooleh and no hell fire will come down.Such is life

Don't mind all these small small girls jare! Instead of them listen to what their fellow lady nairalander ''jackpot'' posted they are here making noise!

Eneze1:


Madam, A guy that will cheat will still do that even if the wife is hanging upside down to satisfy him.

donodion see what i mean! @Eneze1, believe it or not, MAJORITY of married men cheat not because they want to, but because their madam at home is ''fucking up''

lalasticlala:
Single Lady Wants Married Women To Know They Are Sometimes Not At Fault For Dating Their Husbands






http://www.ladunliadinews.com/2015/02/single-lady-wants-married-women-to-know.html?m=1

Now you are lying...how will you ever get redemption. A man chases you for 3yrs and you accommodate the chase because you are enjoying the attention, then your guy of 5 yrs dumps u for no reason?...seems like there is a connection between the two...You are not ready to repent, you just hate feeling guilty.

All dis guys(men) abusing ladies, re d one causing most of d problems, no matter how deir wives satisfies dem, how beautiful deir wives re, still dey will go abt chasing d young ones. God will save u all from #shina#

Nairaland and bashing are like bread and butter. No thread is ever complete until judgments are made against even d vulnerable.

Let's think a little,can a fully grown man be 'snatched'? Go 2 d dictionary and find d meaning of snatch. Most ladies commenting here would do dsame under circumstances similar 2 that painted by d OP. For d guys, God is watching you.

I'm not in support of cheating partners,but why do we spare no time to rain abuses on people who summon d courage 2 open up on their imperfections? If we're all as morally upright as we portray ourselves here, so who are d ones doing these wrong things we see around us? Did they drop from Hades?

Very few comments here(e.g. Jackpot and some others) have been edifying so far. Most talking abt "reaping what u sow",u be God?. If not 4 God's mercy,if we all reaped all that we've ever sowed,will any of us be here 2day?

Haba!!! If God were a nairalander,ds world wld have bn extinct long ago.


Oya...you can all start quoting me

Story for d gods

Dating a married man takes away your from being married...

You causing storm in another's marriage expect same for your own
Unless you repent

All of a sudden, we all are saints who dont engage in such. All the ladies are like 'it's very wrong'. The guys repeat same.
This then leads me to my questions...who are the married men chasing after other girls? Who are the ladies who knowingly date married men, or even run after them? Ohh, I forgot, there're not on this thread!

Hypocrites.

Next!

On point!
Sex is holy within marriage, & there is no prescribed style. Nowhere in the Bible or Quran does it say that the missionary position is the only sexual style. Not discussing sex in a relationship leads to separation! Many husbands leave their wives to seek sexual pleasures in clubs and brothels, or with girlfriends. Have you ever asked yourself what those ladies have that you don't? Wives have become very frigid and even sleep with their panties on. If you're a married woman, you should sleep naked and let your bum touch your husband. Today you find men going out of their way to get a glimpse of a vagina. They page through magazines and even go to lingerie departments in stores hoping to see what's hidden under panties, because their wives hide it from them.

Marriage is about being free with your body in front of your partner. A woman should parade naked and do some modelling to tempt her husband. There are many married women who don't know what their husbands' "kobokos" look like. They only feel it when he enters her. They always switch off d lights before undressing. The koboko is a wife's toy - she is supposed to play with it. I blame couples for not making time for sex & complaining about being tired after work. You find couple who've been sexually starved for years.

WHO SAID U CAN ONLY HAVE SEX AT NIGHT?
Why not drive home during lunch and have a quickie wit your husband?

Pls, it just a piece of advice; me i dont know anything oo! [/quote]

So disheartening that when i look at the rate of adulterous cases today and the rate of breakups occasioned by cases of sexual unfaithfulness especially from men, i keep asking myself if its really worth the stress for a lady to leave her marriage as a result of this.

As difficult as it may sound,we still have some men who will never see it as fun dating two or more ladies let alone sleeping with them and this could be because of strong moral principle or love for GOD but when I hear ladies say “all men are the same” I just keep mum because I believe whatever 8 out of 10 men will do then we can as well generalize.

It is absurd for a lady to have multiple sex partners,but I have also tried to rationalize various reasons why some men go out of their way to cheat on their lady for no just cause and the deductions I can draw is that they either lack discipline or maybe the lady they have in their life does not appeal to them sexually as regards physical looks, which made me really conclude that all men have the strong tendency to have more than one sex partner irrespective of their love for GOD or moral standard and it will take the grace of GOD for a man to stay with just one lady all his life no matter how seemingly perfect his lady may be..

This is why I tell ladies to wake up to the harsh reality that they have only one option left if they can’t cope with a philanderer as a man and that is to remain single because if it is true that 95 out of 100 men will cheat on their ladies regardless,then why fool yourself running from one man to another when there is no guaranty that you will get lucky to meet a faithful one In the next 10 trials.

The only thing I will never accept is for a man to cheat under the nose of his lady or with impunity because that shows total lack of regard for that lady but then whether he does it under or over her nose,it still remains what it is so ladies should face this harsh truth and be ready to take their minds off it if they are really ready to stay happy in any affair they find themselves else they will only end up been alone and p robably getting passed around from one man to another all in the bid to be with a faithful man.

Just get married to a man,raise a family and dedicate your time to developing your life and that of your child(ren) and care less whether that man takes a tenth wife or sleeps around like a crazy mad dog as long as he uses a protection.
It’s a cruel,unreasonably and unjust world of men.

*Just thinking*

jackpot:
All married women in the house this post is for you

Sex is holy within marriage, & there is no prescribed style. Nowhere in the Bible or Quran does it say that the missionary position is the only sexual style. Not discussing sex in a relationship leads to separation! Many husbands leave their wives to seek sexual pleasures in clubs and brothels, or with girlfriends. Have you ever asked yourself what those ladies have that you don't? Wives have become very frigid and even sleep with their panties on. If you're a married woman, you should sleep naked and let your bum touch your husband. Today you find men going out of their way to get a glimpse of a vagina. They page through magazines and even go to lingerie departments in stores hoping to see what's hidden under panties, because their wives hide it from them.

Marriage is about being free with your body in front of your partner. A woman should parade naked and do some modelling to tempt her husband. There are many married women who don't know what their husbands' "kobokos" look like. They only feel it when he enters her. They always switch off d lights before undressing. The koboko is a wife's toy - she is supposed to play with it. I blame couples for not making time for sex & complaining about being tired after work. You find couple who've been sexually starved for years.

WHO SAID U CAN ONLY HAVE SEX AT NIGHT?
Why not drive home during lunch and have a quickie wit your husband?

Pls, it just a piece of advice; me i dont know anything oo!

You're missing a trick.
Consider starting a blog where you can talk about relationship & family. It's not about knowing much, it's about being ready to learn & sharing your knowledge.
When it comes to sex, a lot of people literally need divine intervention. Frigidity and prude approach is ruining otherwise impeccable relationships. People listen more to women dishing advise.

If you point out what ladies do inadequately, as a man, ladies would be up in arms saying stuff like: maybe your JT is too tinnie winnie, maybe you aren't hitting her right, etc. Even though you're not even referring to yourself.

The reason anybody would pretend and sexually neglect a spouse (except illness, distance and so on) is beyond me.

Wait but what about the husbands?

All this condemnation for the babes?

Is it not the man that is toasting her?

Abeg everyone keeps talking grammar about Karma because they know that when the side chick gets married, her own husband too will play AWAY games

Is this not a man issue? Abeg leave women jor

I hope these single ladies dating married men realize they themselves would be married one day and shouldn't cry blue murder when their husbands date other single ladies.

priscaoge:
Silly excuses

Don't cry when ur husband runs after other women

Because what u Wish others will surely come to u

true talk

richardokubo:
Ask the married man y re yhey dating singel ladies

think I have interest in ur? Following keenly

BeauHomme:
Nairaland and bashing are like bread and butter. No thread is ever complete until judgments are made against even d vulnerable.

Let's think a little,can a fully grown man be 'snatched'? Go 2 d dictionary and find d meaning of snatch. Most ladies commenting here would do dsame under circumstances similar 2 that painted by d OP. For d guys, God is watching you.

I'm not in support of cheating partners,but why do we spare no time to rain abuses on people who summon d courage 2 open up on their imperfections? If we're all as morally upright as we portray ourselves here, so who are d ones doing these wrong things we see around us? Did they drop from Hades?

Very few comments here(e.g. Jackpot and some others) have been edifying so far. Most talking abt "reaping what u sow",u be God?. If not 4 God's mercy,if we all reaped all that we've ever sowed,will any of us be here 2day?

Haba!!! If God were a nairalander,ds world wld have bn extinct long ago.


Oya...you can all start quoting me

word!

scribble:
Wait but what about the husbands?

All this condemnation for the babes?

Is it not the man that is toasting her?

Abeg everyone keeps talking grammar about Karma because they know that when the side chick gets married, her own husband too will play AWAY games

Is this not a man issue? Abeg leave women jor

you know we apply lots of sentiment in this part of the world,morally is wrong.......the wives also have a role to play,tame ur husband,as per people saying I didn't date people husbnd don't date mine,guard him meticulously,men love varieties accept or not.dont quote me

carozy112:
NIGERIANS: forming holier than thou since 1800.
1) Most of you people here are hypocrites. I know for sure that most of the girls claiming saint here don sleep with a married man at one point or the other in their fake life for whatever reason.

2) Some of them are still sleeping with married men.

3) Some will still sleep with married men.

4) As for the married guys spewing rubbish, 85% of them has girlfriendssss.

5)To the unmarried guys, there is a probability that your present girlfriend wey u dey see as saint has a married man somewhere shinning her Congo. You are probably going to get married to a coded olosho except u ain't gonna marry a Nigerian gal.

6) Most of Nigerian married men are in 1 or more serious relationships.

7) Most of the girls forming saint here are only doing so just to appear responsible to prospective magas on nairaland.

Most of the guys forming faithful husband material toooo......Na lie. All na acting. Na dia type dey go honeymoon wiv gf.

9)Quote me and Die.

10) I am not saying Doing Married Men is right though. WRONG IS WRONG even if everyone is doing it.

God bless u,hypocrite since 1960.......married men that can chase single like temple run.....

Does single mother fall to this category also?

If you subject them to this bash also! Then you high on Nigeria problem

theorbiters:
Your bf of 5yrs left you for no reason?

A married man chased you for 3yrs?

You knw it is bad and you cry everyday for God to forgive you?
You are not with him for money.
You insist he takes care of madam.
WTF!!
I can categorically confirm that your case is from the village. You are confused.

You need help

DeM sEriOusLy NeEd HelP cOz dEy aRe NoT NoRmaL

Did she say her boyfriend of 5 years left her for no reason? Oh pls! Cry me a river...