I dont know if its me, or if its the way my brain is wired but everytime a boy I fancy shows a slight interest in me, I start hearing wedding bells. Ive just been asked out on a date with this really cute guy ive been eyeing for a while. Its just drinks/coffee but here I am already goin on the fast forward. Is it just me, are there other people out there that go through this?

What slow your roll bebeto

Wells it happens especially when you are getting to a 'certain' age. Its normal however, showing it to the man can make him run away cos he'll see you as desperate. besides the pressure of marriage might scare him off.

Just take things easy,enjoy the dating ritual and allow time to 'tell'.

Cheers

It's only normal for you to buid fantasies about your ideals.But at thesame time do not love to blindfold you.[color=#770077][/color]

Sisi, please kindly take it easy and let it be one step at a time. Ok?

may not mean much but ya gotta be careful though because it may be an indication that under the surface, you're a bit worried about your single status and that's not good, because it makes you vulnerable, ok?

so, please ease off on that gas pedal now, will ya!

calm down

People like this scare me away. . . Fast!

you are allowed to have such thoughts but you would have to slow down enough to get to know your date. At least get his last name before you jump the broom. Also you should never come off being deperate for love because people would take advantage of you.

take it easy. Wedding bells ke?

Stop have wedding expectations whenever u start a relationship. enjoy it not scare him away

yeh I do feels dat too. Infact, why should he even start dating me if he hasnt got marriage in his mind? We are just decieving each other by pretending. If it is short term friendship and sex he has, then u should say it from the begining, and if he is expecting the relationship to result in marriage he should say it. I dont like all these pretext.

whitelexi:

People like this scare me away. . . Fast!

You bet.

@ OP.

If its thinking, its still manageable. . . .as long as u dont talk abt it with em.

Atleast you date them first. . . .I just have to see across the street, then I hear jingle [/i]bells.






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*Toyinrayo:

Atleast you date them first. . . .I just have to see across the street, then I hear jingle [/i]bells.






^{[i]ah, that was a joke}

Lol. . .this is funny. . . .
You must have bn married like a million times in your head.

@Poster
I think u r kinda desperate 4 marriage which is very very dangerous. U need 2 let it flow and at d same time think with ur head and not ur heart,

@topic
Please dear, try not to get too excited o

Wierd huh, I think there must be something wrong with me. Never felt like this till I came home. Only 23 but yet Im feeling the pressure.
Damn this naija society!!

BabeX:

Wierd huh, I think there must be something wrong with me. Never felt like this till I came home. Only 23 but yet I'm feeling the pressure.
Damn this naija society!!

At 23, u shudnt be feeling the pressure yet
I think its just u being You

there isnt any pressure there if u ya mind is settled already then u go down with it

@babex
nothing do u jo!, its wot u do with the feeling that counts(its kinda like wanting to try er type of eyeshadow, ders nothing wrong as long as u dont actually go trying all of dem out, makes sense?)


ur 23 for crying out loud! tick tock tick tock (my guess is ur yoruba abi?---this is common among yoruba gels welllllll sorta)

netotse:

@babex
nothing do u jo!, its wot u do with the feeling that counts(its kind of like wanting to try er type of eyeshadow, ders nothing wrong as long as u don't actually go trying all of them out, makes sense?)


ur 23 for crying out loud! tick tock tick tock (my guess is ur yoruba abi?---this is common among yoruba gels welllllll sorta)

Yeah u guessed right. We love parties, its wierd but when my mum introduces me to her friends some of them smile and then say " ah ko ni pe marry" its like their eyes are gleaming with the thought of, rice, aso ebi or another owambe party. Its probably all of the above,

@babex
der u have it, . . . u're subconsciously being affected by dem yarns(i knew i shlda read psychology instead of engineering ) why if i might say so myself i've been in your shoes(nope not having my mom introducing me as her soon-to-be-married son) sha enjoy u're dates, u might also find consolation in the fact that u'll prolly end up not marrying in the next one year(i mean how many married 23 year olds are there in yorubaland?)unless of crse u decide to accept sillyboi's offer

OutlukBabe: yeh I do feels dat too. Infact, why should he even start dating me if he hasnt got marriage in his mind? We are just decieving each other by pretending. If it is short term friendship and sex he has, then u should say it from the begining, and if he is expecting the relationship to result in marriage he should say it. I dont like all these pretext.

ladies and marriage
na wao