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I Need Your Advice On This Pls by izaray(f): 10:11am On Feb 11, 2015
My hubby says, he now sees me as his sister, wat is that suppose to mean?

Does it mean, am no longer attractive to him or wat?
Re: I Need Your Advice On This Pls by HURUCHI(m): 10:14am On Feb 11, 2015
Swt hrt no
Re: I Need Your Advice On This Pls by ammyluv2002(f): 10:16am On Feb 11, 2015
No....the bond/love is getting very strong so rejoice and relax grin


#IWannBeMyHubbyEverythingToo

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Re: I Need Your Advice On This Pls by Nobody: 10:17am On Feb 11, 2015
Wow, this is taking 'friend-zone' to a preposterous level.



Nice one lucifer, I saw what you did there, nice one! You have won this battle, but you can't win the war.
Re: I Need Your Advice On This Pls by izaray(f): 10:17am On Feb 11, 2015
HURUCHI:
Swt hrt no
But why is he saying that, he actually said, he dnt easy get feelings for sex anymore, when i asked him why, he said he now looked at me as his kid sister, how is dat possible?
Re: I Need Your Advice On This Pls by Splendblex(f): 10:19am On Feb 11, 2015
Lolz this is funny. I don't think you understood your husband. Talk to your hubby, let him know you didn't understand what he meant.

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Re: I Need Your Advice On This Pls by izaray(f): 10:21am On Feb 11, 2015
ammyluv2002:
No....the bond/love is getting very strong so rejoice and relax grin


#IWannBeMyHubbyEverythingToo
I taught we are supposed to av only matured minds here, why d joke? Pls if u dnt av sumtin good to say, just read and pass, its not necessarily you must comment, plsss
Re: I Need Your Advice On This Pls by izaray(f): 10:21am On Feb 11, 2015
Splendblex:
Lolz this is funny. I don't think you understood your husband. Talk to your hubby, let him know you didn't understand what he meant.
Abi, tnk you my dear
Re: I Need Your Advice On This Pls by Edykul(f): 10:24am On Feb 11, 2015
That is strange.Are u no longer attractive?U both need 2 talk or visit a marriage guidance counsellor.
Re: I Need Your Advice On This Pls by pweetixandy: 10:24am On Feb 11, 2015
Marriage is just so fqcked up..its just one institution that's so messed up..he now sees u as his sister and so he doesn't get sexually aroused by u. D spice is gone,d passion has disappeared..sorry
Re: I Need Your Advice On This Pls by ammyluv2002(f): 10:26am On Feb 11, 2015
izaray:
I taught we are supposed to av only matured minds here, why d joke? Pls if u dnt av sumtin good to say, just read and pass, its not necessarily you must comment, plsss
Nne, pls don't transfer aggression to me. I replied to your post, what's wrong with that? Pls, don't be mad if you're not okay with my post okay

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Re: I Need Your Advice On This Pls by MizMyColi(f): 10:27am On Feb 11, 2015
This is just funny.
My thoughts have lost coherence.
Re: I Need Your Advice On This Pls by izaray(f): 10:29am On Feb 11, 2015
ammyluv2002:
Nne, pls don't transfer aggression to me. I replied based on your post that its what's wrong with what i said?
Aggression keh, i only said, if u av notin to contribute, read and pass, nice day sha.
Re: I Need Your Advice On This Pls by MizMyColi(f): 10:29am On Feb 11, 2015
pweetixandy:
[s]Marriage is just so fqcked up..its just one institution that's so messed up..[/s]he now sees u as his sister and so he doesn't get sexually aroused by u. D spice is gone,d passion has disappeared..sorry

Look Atew.
Fallacy of Generalization.

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Re: I Need Your Advice On This Pls by izaray(f): 10:30am On Feb 11, 2015
MizMyColi:
This is just funny.
My thoughts have lost coherence.
My dear, its some how funny, dat's why i brought dis to NL for you guys contribution too
Re: I Need Your Advice On This Pls by ammyluv2002(f): 10:31am On Feb 11, 2015
izaray:
Aggression keh, i only said, if u av notin to contribute, read and pass, nice day sha.
You sounded harsh but it's ok sha
Re: I Need Your Advice On This Pls by HURUCHI(m): 10:31am On Feb 11, 2015
izaray:
But why is he saying that, he actually said, he dnt easy get feelings for sex anymore, when i asked him why, he said he now looked at me as his kid sister, how is dat possible?

Try dis so u can put ur mind at rist when he come back, let hem rest when both of u have relax playfull chip in d kid sista talk ummm u well b suprised dat he have forgoting
Re: I Need Your Advice On This Pls by izaray(f): 10:34am On Feb 11, 2015
pweetixandy:
Marriage is just so fqcked up..its just one institution that's so messed up..he now sees u as his sister and so he doesn't get sexually aroused by u. D spice is gone,d passion has disappeared..sorry
Swty, everytin is still intact, but he dnt just disturb me 4 sex, sumtyms we made love once or twice a week, so it's not really wat you think. All i just want to understand is d statement he made.
Re: I Need Your Advice On This Pls by izaray(f): 10:35am On Feb 11, 2015
HURUCHI:


Try dis so u can put ur mind at rist when he come back, let hem rest when both of u have relax playfull chip in d kid sista talk ummm u well b suprised dat he have forgoting
Hahahah..u are so funny
Re: I Need Your Advice On This Pls by Kennywills7(m): 10:36am On Feb 11, 2015
izaray:
But why is he saying that, he actually said, he dnt easy get feelings for sex anymore, when i asked him why, he said he now looked at me as his kid sister, how is dat possible?
If these were his exact words then there is trouble o
Re: I Need Your Advice On This Pls by izaray(f): 10:36am On Feb 11, 2015
Edykul:
That is strange.Are u no longer attractive?U both need 2 talk or visit a marriage guidance counsellor.
Tnks alot dear
Re: I Need Your Advice On This Pls by izaray(f): 10:37am On Feb 11, 2015
Kennywills7:

If these were his exact words then there is trouble o
Smiles, God wont allow dat to happen my dear
Re: I Need Your Advice On This Pls by pweetixandy: 10:41am On Feb 11, 2015
MizMyColi:


Look Atew.
Fallacy of Generalization.

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Re: I Need Your Advice On This Pls by Kennywills7(m): 10:46am On Feb 11, 2015
izaray:
Smiles, God wont allow dat to happen my dear
Yeah
Here is wot i think, guys and their sisters do play but not like d one of a lover, so for me, both of u do play but not like d way its was before u guys got married, u hv slow things down too much

Now this is wot i want u to do- try to do something different from wot u guys normally do since u got married, there must b something he enjoy doing, try to do dat with him & make him feel like u guys just started and while at home alone with him dress seductively and u knw d rest
Then am sure soon it wont b a case of my sister anymore but a case of my husband is so sweet
Cheers
Re: I Need Your Advice On This Pls by izaray(f): 10:51am On Feb 11, 2015
Kennywills7:

Yeah
Here is wot i think, guys and there sisters do play but not like d one of a lover, so for me, both of u do play but not like d way its was before u guys got married, u hv slow things down too much

Now this is wot i want u to do- try to do something different from wot u guys normally do since u got married, there must b something he enjoy doing, try to do dat with him & make him feel like u guys just started and while at home alone with him dress seductively and u knw d rest
Then am sure soon it wont b case of sister anymore but a case of my husband is so sweet
Cheers
Smiles, tnk u very much
Re: I Need Your Advice On This Pls by pinkycute(f): 10:57am On Feb 11, 2015
My dear))) there's problem and you need to act fast.... Before ur hubby could make that sentiment and even tag you as his kid sister "that means, there's no chemistry between you guys anymore "because under probability, your hubby can't sleep or bleeds his kid sister and he doesn't even have feelings for sex anymore " which means, you're not attractive to him as his wife for now!.. Well, I'll advice you to comfort ur hubby and ask him some questions and you check urself young lady, to know, if there's anything you are doing wrong to kill his sexual feelings towards you Or you loss ur home.... Good luck Ma!



izaray:
But why is he saying that, he actually said, he dnt easy get feelings for sex anymore, when i asked him why, he said he now looked at me as his kid sister, how is dat possible?
Re: I Need Your Advice On This Pls by Kennywills7(m): 10:58am On Feb 11, 2015
cheesy
izaray:
Smiles, tnk u very much
grin
U are welcome
Re: I Need Your Advice On This Pls by jmoore(m): 11:03am On Feb 11, 2015
The first person you should have asked this question is your husband. His answer will give us more insight on why he sees you as a sister.
Re: I Need Your Advice On This Pls by izaray(f): 11:07am On Feb 11, 2015
jmoore:
The first person you should have asked this question is your husband.
You are right, but i taught, they was notin serious den
Re: I Need Your Advice On This Pls by ednut1(m): 11:12am On Feb 11, 2015
take heart dear. he probably is getting it outside
Re: I Need Your Advice On This Pls by Dyt(f): 11:15am On Feb 11, 2015
He didn't say u are also his best friend?
Re: I Need Your Advice On This Pls by izaray(f): 11:15am On Feb 11, 2015
ednut1:
take heart dear. he probably is getting it outside
I hear you, tnks

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