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Annoying Things Ladies Do That Kills Chat Which Makes Us Delete Them by tosyne2much(m): 6:18pm On Feb 13, 2015
I'm dropping this cos it would be an eye opener for the ladies who have poor communication skill but would never admit it. Majority of them are most likely to blame it on their mood or because they are not into you (if I hear)


Lemme quickly chip in this. Guys please never force any lady to chat with you and never hesitate to DELETE any lady that is always waiting for you to message her first. More so, someone who values and cherish you will always check on you unconditionally

Lemme keep the ball rolling cool

Annoying Things Ladies Do That Kills Chat Which Makes Us Delete Them

Note: I'm NOT trying to say the use of abbreviations is forbidden in an online chat

Let me start

1. The use Kkk

I have made a little research and I have come to conclusion that 100% of guys detest it with passion. I personally place ladies who reply with the use of "kk" on probation and as soon as they are not ready to change. DELETE

2. BIS About To Finish
I personally detest seeing this kind of updates so as my fellow guys too. My respect and reverence for a lady head on diminishing return as soon as i see such updates

3. Sending Gospel Messages To Claim What They Are Not
I once had a classmate who used to send godly messages frequently. The annoying thing is that the same lady was always uploading pictures of different guys expressing her love for them

4. Post Me First
I guess this should come second. An average Nigerian would definitely be waiting for you to message her first else, she might remain in you list till the end of time without thinking you exist.

5. You Are A Guy So You Should Lead The Chat
I'm not trying to say this is bad but it shouldn't happen every time. Since chat should be a two sided thing, the flow shouldn't always come from one side

6. I Have No Gist
Most ladies don't know how to keep a convo running because they aint innovative. You always have nothing to talk about. Let's have a gist of how your day went, you just can't give a summary of it. It's one of those things that makes us delete them

7. The use of "Same"
When you can take your own time to type a full sentence, only for someone to give a "one-word" as reply. I mean what kind of laziness is that ? Let's assume you reply " my night was worthwhile and I thank God for seeing the light of a new day" and you inquired about her night and you got the reply " Same" isn't that annoying ?

8. Chatting With Us In Time Of Need
When some ladies in your list message you, without reading the message you already know It it's either they need you to render help or financial assistance



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Re: Annoying Things Ladies Do That Kills Chat Which Makes Us Delete Them by obi4eze(m): 6:20pm On Feb 13, 2015
I smell Frontpage grin

OP don't you think you should use 'and' instead of 'which' as your second conjunction in the topic?
Re: Annoying Things Ladies Do That Kills Chat Which Makes Us Delete Them by Fatban(m): 6:22pm On Feb 13, 2015
Na by force to chat with a girl,if she no respond well, try ur fellow male and see d miracle dat will happen to ur inbox.#notenufspace
Re: Annoying Things Ladies Do That Kills Chat Which Makes Us Delete Them by Twaci(f): 6:23pm On Feb 13, 2015
Well mine goes both ways sha...

1. Lol.
U know, when this stuff came into town, I actually thought it meant, "Living our life", and whenever I comment and see someone say "Lol", I get angry and wonder, who forced u to leave the life u are living to come and read my post?! It was later on when I had blasted a poor girl on whatsapp that she explained to me that it rightly meant, "laughing out loud". Laughing out loud? Who send u? What if u come laugh small, wetin e go be? "Loss - laughing out small small". Really guys, pls stop "lolling". U can use smiley, that's why they are there. Or better still, just "Loss".

2. "Just passing".
Well here is ma advice to u passers, get a life! Stop passing. If u have got nothing useful to say, pass quietly and stop taking up comment space.

3. Kk/ohhkkk.
This comes mostly in whatsapp, BBM, Facebook and other social sites. Imagine this, u type furiously on ur pad, two sentences or three, then the perverted mind on the other side(usually girls, mind u) come up with just "kk or ohhkkk". Like seriously? Hey, if u don't have anything useful to say to my gist (...or gossip), just say "Loss". I can manage that. At least I go get for mind say u don loss.


Sowie girls.

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Re: Annoying Things Ladies Do That Kills Chat Which Makes Us Delete Them by englishmart(m): 6:23pm On Feb 13, 2015
maybe I should settle here
Re: Annoying Things Ladies Do That Kills Chat Which Makes Us Delete Them by dkronicle(m): 6:25pm On Feb 13, 2015
So i will smell fp dis friday. This is skushes.. Some maggas @ma back are busy discussin political igbe.
Re: Annoying Things Ladies Do That Kills Chat Which Makes Us Delete Them by Hanibal(m): 6:25pm On Feb 13, 2015
This land is not for sale...
Re: Annoying Things Ladies Do That Kills Chat Which Makes Us Delete Them by buygala(m): 6:27pm On Feb 13, 2015
And if op or whatever guys delete them, how does that delete the girl's destiny?





The girls who chat with you like that, most times, don't give a fucck about you or your monotous 'toasting lines', 'how was your day', 'have you eaten', how is your mummy' bullshiit undecided.... She is actually pushing you to shut the fucck up, but doesn't want to appear too rude..


POINT IS.. Girls like that most times, don't even notice that you have deleted them.... Even if they do, they just smile, heave a sigh of relief, and then totally forget about your existence angry

IF THE GIRL FINDS YOU INTERESTING, SHE DEFINITELY WON'T GIVE YOU THOSE IRRITATING REPLIES, OR ALWAYS WAIT FOR YOU TO INITIATE CHATS..

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Re: Annoying Things Ladies Do That Kills Chat Which Makes Us Delete Them by Nobody: 6:28pm On Feb 13, 2015
Tosyne2much hope say I nor be like this
Re: Annoying Things Ladies Do That Kills Chat Which Makes Us Delete Them by dkronicle(m): 6:28pm On Feb 13, 2015
Lols buh d truth is that, d church girls are always ready to chat while d baddo them are not ready for 'how is ur day' all they want is 'how is the weekend going to be' so just spice up.
Re: Annoying Things Ladies Do That Kills Chat Which Makes Us Delete Them by vizkiz: 6:29pm On Feb 13, 2015
asking for airtime or using code words during chats angry

Girl: elo vizkiz

Me: what's up bae?

Girl: M nt gud,m brk cn u snd me crd?

Me: I didn't understand what you typed oh, but don't worry sha, whatever problem you are facing you can lift them up to God the author and finisher of our faith tongue

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Re: Annoying Things Ladies Do That Kills Chat Which Makes Us Delete Them by ITbomb(m): 6:29pm On Feb 13, 2015
Another annoying list that tosyne2much create to make me delete him
Re: Annoying Things Ladies Do That Kills Chat Which Makes Us Delete Them by Dotwillis1(m): 6:30pm On Feb 13, 2015
I tink u v dropd a post of dhiz nature once before....


... 'K and whatever'....men, diz 2 responses sucks
Re: Annoying Things Ladies Do That Kills Chat Which Makes Us Delete Them by ozor1: 6:33pm On Feb 13, 2015
They remember to chat you up only when they are boored!!.
Re: Annoying Things Ladies Do That Kills Chat Which Makes Us Delete Them by Psalmwise(m): 6:34pm On Feb 13, 2015
i actually tot lol meant lot of love...nah later i knw d meanin....,cos any statement i made on fb and 2go back i wud always gt lol ether from a guy or a lady..ah b cum dey suspect say hope dis guys lolling me are nt gay(ogaychi) undecided undecided undecided undecided



buh i use lot of smileys on babes.. e dey catch dm grin grin grin grin cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
Twaci:
Well mine goes both ways sha...

1. Lol.
U know, when this stuff came into town, I actually thought it meant, "Living our life", and whenever I comment and see someone say "Lol", I get angry and wonder, who forced u to leave the life u are living to come and read my post?! It was later on when I had blasted a poor girl on whatsapp that she explained to me that it rightly meant, "laughing out loud". Laughing out loud? Who send u? What if u come laugh small, wetin e go be? "Loss - laughing out small small". Really guys, pls stop "lolling". U can use smiley, that's why they are there. Or better still, just "Loss".

2. "Just passing".
Well here is ma advice to u passers, get a life! Stop passing. If u have got nothing useful to say, pass quietly and stop taking up comment space.

3. Kk/ohhkkk.
This comes mostly in whatsapp, BBM, Facebook and other social sites. Imagine this, u type furiously on ur pad, two sentences or three, then the perverted mind on the other side(usually girls, mind u) come up with just "kk or ohhkkk". Like seriously? Hey, if u don't have anything useful to say to my gist (...or gossip), just say "Loss". I can manage that. At least I go get for mind say u don loss.


Sowie girls.
Re: Annoying Things Ladies Do That Kills Chat Which Makes Us Delete Them by jmoore(m): 6:35pm On Feb 13, 2015
Girl: i
Jmoore: j
Girl: meaning?
Jmoore: I thought we are reciting A B C D.......




The k crew is getting worse. It is no longer a single k. You get some thing like 'kkk'. What the hell is that?

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Re: Annoying Things Ladies Do That Kills Chat Which Makes Us Delete Them by Nobody: 6:36pm On Feb 13, 2015
sooooooo true!!!
Re: Annoying Things Ladies Do That Kills Chat Which Makes Us Delete Them by Psalmwise(m): 6:37pm On Feb 13, 2015
bros nah dat ping or hi me first dey vex me..,if u no hi dem dm no go hi....,me sef if u no ping me...ah no go ping u notin spoil grin
Typical 9ja babe chat
Guy: Babes wasup
Babe:Fn
Guy:Aw was ur nite
Babe:fn
Guy:Hope u ve eatn sha
Babe:Yea
Guy:wat dd u eat
Babe:Food
Guy:hmm

blablala

Observation: They would nt ask wat abt u , they will always try to frustrate u..all dose kind chat dey always end with K...My guys if u have notice such type of babes and u realy want to score her jez ginger ur chat with lil pidgin spice it with smileys..., grin grin grin or better still refer d babe numb to me for specialist attention grin grin grin grin
tosyne2much:
I'm dropping this cos it would be an eye opener for the ladies who have poor communication skill but would never admit it. Majourity of them are most likely to blame it on their mood or because they are not into you (if I hear)


Lemme quickly chip in this. Guys please never force any lady to chat with you and never hesitate to DELETE any lady that is always waiting for you to message her first. More so, someone who values and cherish you will always check on you unconditionally

Lemme keep the ball rolling cool

Annoying Things Ladies Do That Kills Chat Which Makes Us Delete Them

Note: I'm NOT trying to say the use of abbreviations is forbidden in an online chat

Let me start

1. The use Kkk

I have made a little research and I have come to conclusion that 100% of guys detest it with passion. I personally place ladies who reply with the use of "kk" on probation and as soon as they are not ready to change. DELETE

2. Post Me First

I guess this should come second. An average Nigerian would definitely be waiting for you to message her first else, she might remain in you list till the end of time without thinking you exist.

3. You Are A Guy So You Should Lead The Chat
I'm not trying to say this is bad but it shouldn't happen every time. Since chat should be a two sided thing, the flow shouldn't always come from one side

4. I Have No Gist
Most ladies don't know how to keep a convo running because they aint innovative. You always have nothing to talk about. Let's have a gist of how your day went, you just can't give a summary of it. It's one of those things that makes us delete them

5. The use of "Same"
When you can take your own time to type a full sentence, only for someone to give a "one-word" as reply. I mean what kind of laziness is that ? Let's assume you reply " my night was worthwhile and I thank God for seeing the light of a new day" and you inquired about her night and you got the reply " Same" isn't that annoying ?

6. Chatting With Us In Time Of Need
When some ladies in your list message you, without reading the message you already know It it's either they need you to render help or financial assistance

Feel Free To Add Yours

Written by: tosyne2much

Still Modifying

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Re: Annoying Things Ladies Do That Kills Chat Which Makes Us Delete Them by cutieberie1(f): 6:37pm On Feb 13, 2015
if guys dont have wat to tok abt wat makes u tink we will hv...gals re also humans...if u dont wanna chat then dont....i dont knw y guyz re proud as if no b u still meet d gal.
Re: Annoying Things Ladies Do That Kills Chat Which Makes Us Delete Them by falconey(m): 6:39pm On Feb 13, 2015
I hate the "KKK" some gays(not guys) also use it
Re: Annoying Things Ladies Do That Kills Chat Which Makes Us Delete Them by Vision4God: 6:39pm On Feb 13, 2015
My advice: change ur tactics & I tel u ders gonna b difference in chart format
Re: Annoying Things Ladies Do That Kills Chat Which Makes Us Delete Them by majamajic(m): 6:43pm On Feb 13, 2015
Op is right .
Re: Annoying Things Ladies Do That Kills Chat Which Makes Us Delete Them by Nobody: 6:45pm On Feb 13, 2015
The hard truth is that some girls don't even wanna chat with you, but since you are forcing yourself on them, they may just as well lol themselves out of that boring chat.

The simple truth is that if she's interested in what you are saying, then the chat will be interesting.

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Re: Annoying Things Ladies Do That Kills Chat Which Makes Us Delete Them by Nobody: 6:49pm On Feb 13, 2015
charlie, you've really changed lol.

So you're done with the "10 reasons" cliche?
Re: Annoying Things Ladies Do That Kills Chat Which Makes Us Delete Them by Nobody: 6:52pm On Feb 13, 2015
In some cases you'd think you're chat'ng with a programmed robot.

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Re: Annoying Things Ladies Do That Kills Chat Which Makes Us Delete Them by tosyne2much(m): 7:06pm On Feb 13, 2015
ITbomb:
Another annoying list that tosyne2much create to make me delete him
hahahahahahha cheesy

oyah delete me nahhhh tongue

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Re: Annoying Things Ladies Do That Kills Chat Which Makes Us Delete Them by Mimienudles(f): 7:07pm On Feb 13, 2015
No5 ehn, especially when you don't like the guy or you don't want a chat with him
Re: Annoying Things Ladies Do That Kills Chat Which Makes Us Delete Them by tosyne2much(m): 7:08pm On Feb 13, 2015
Dotwillis1:
I tink u v dropd a post of dhiz nature once before....


... 'K and whatever'....men, diz 2 responses sucks
tosyne doesnt drop a thread twice. hehehehe
Re: Annoying Things Ladies Do That Kills Chat Which Makes Us Delete Them by JahzaraAde(f): 7:15pm On Feb 13, 2015
Hey,

What does 'BIS about to finish' mean?

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Re: Annoying Things Ladies Do That Kills Chat Which Makes Us Delete Them by Viktoh(m): 7:18pm On Feb 13, 2015
Dz gurl ayaf bn textin HI since 2014 nor reply me,jez last week i text her 154263285469...nd she was lyk-viktoh wah network airtym is dat ME-samsung grin.


Shez dancing SEKEM inna ma block list

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Re: Annoying Things Ladies Do That Kills Chat Which Makes Us Delete Them by henrylowe(m): 7:18pm On Feb 13, 2015
tosyne this is so on point... i delte those kinda ladies without mercy
Re: Annoying Things Ladies Do That Kills Chat Which Makes Us Delete Them by immortalvoices(m): 7:23pm On Feb 13, 2015
Tonsyne2much..... No one writes it better than him

Kudos

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