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Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by suzzy16(f): 2:32am On Jun 15, 2015 |
gleatz:Amin |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by suzzy16(f): 2:36am On Jun 15, 2015 |
fxbot:lol |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by suzzy16(f): 5:48am On Jun 15, 2015 |
coogaluta:lol,abi |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by suzzy16(f): 6:04am On Jun 15, 2015 |
lol,hmmmm |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by suzzy16(f): 6:17am On Jun 15, 2015 |
Ngokafor:combining these things together is easy,seriously,only if u want to overstress urself,I dnt blame some women nt working,while they re nursing a baby |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Moana(f): 11:29am On Jun 15, 2015 |
Lagunna1 what did u do to the OP |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 11:47am On Jun 15, 2015 |
Moana: Heartbreaker |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Sunnypar(m): 12:41pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
Suzzy16, are you single because I am and we could mingle. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by suzzy16(f): 12:59pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
Sunnypar:sorry,I aint interested |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by abbyt(f): 1:15pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
This issue has been bothering me for few days and I sincerely need good advise please. My friend is dating my brother-in-law to be and it seems she's cheating on him, I know my brother-in-law is very serious with her.I am feeling very bad about because she kissed another man(a married man) in an hotel room we logged when we went for a function together, she taught I was sleeping when the guy came to say hi to us, and the next thing I heard was kissing sound undecided. I was so angry but I kept my cool and I have not discuss anything with her. I want the best for my brother in law and I don't want to hurt my friend my as well. what do I do please. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 1:38pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
It obvious she is a serial cheat. I think you should look her in the face and let her know what she is doing is wrong, highlighting the dangers and how it would affect not only her both her fiance emotionally, physchologocally and otherwise and ask her if it was vice versa, would she be happy? abbyt: 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 2:01pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
abbyt: Are you sure your to be bil is worth the stress, if you are not confident he is a good, doesnt cheat, you might as well consider letting sleeping dogs lie. Come to think of it, you dont even know your friend enough. How long have they been dating? Does their relationship have a defined destination? How did they meet? Like how did two friends ended up with two bruvs? If you are really sure your bil is good then anonymously send a message to him about his girl and the man. You can give further pointers or description about the man, tell him to snoop on her phone too before confronting the girl. Put it in such a manner that will show you are serious and want to save him a lifetime trouble. I mean get his attension enough to be interested in it. But first for friendship sake, just wisely and innocently ask your friend if she loves her bf, if her bf cheats, where does she see their relationship heading, has she or can she date a married man? Etc In a random and smart way, link the man to an event (unless unavoidable, use another event other than the hotel's) and her, then ask questions relating to the man. Remember not to do the questioning in one time or day, apply wisdom. The answers will make you understand her actions or know her better and then give you a perspective on how to let in or let out your bil to be. If you wont mind her snooping on you as a friend, you can snoop on her phone for evidence. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by EfemenaXY: 2:27pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
Shiningmama: Shingingmama, sorry I haven't been following up on you. The more I read your posts about what's going on in your home, the angrier I get. Sweet Jesus! You're even having to plead with him not to disrespect you at home? He shouldn't be disrespecting you at all! I swear, none of this would be happening to you if you were my daughter!! I know you don't want to leave your kids but you've swallowed a lot of shyte from this man for over 10 months now. The initial advice I gave you was to help you rebuild your self-esteem. To rediscover yourself and look forward. It was given to help you cope with your situation then. Now, you need to move on from that. That notwithstanding, the fact remains that you're a young, vibrant, married woman forced to live like a nun in servitude in your own home. Can this man survive a month without sex? And yet he subjects you with worse? This isn't sustainable. You can't live the rest of your married life like this. We're talking the next 40, 50, 60+ years. You're looking at the wrong people again and saying to yourself, if she (his best friend's wife) can manage without sex for 8 years, then what is 10 months in the grand scheme of things? Shingingmama, throw yourself into your business o! I know you said you've started something small on the side - good on you. But you must really put your head down, girl and make lots of money! Make money, make money, make money, Shiningmama so you can get your independence. And freedom from that bondage of a marriage. You need to set yourself and your kids free from that environment. It isn't healthy. Not for you, and certainly not for your kids who see how their dad treats their mum whilst having his numerous affairs. You husband's got you well and truly trapped because he knows you won't leave your kids, hence him treating you the way he does. Just like Cococandy suggested, keep your mouth shut and carefully, methodically plan your exit strategy from that bondage. This should give you something to look forward to. To strive and work even harder to gain your financial and emotional freedom. The sooner you leave, the better for you. And hopefully, someday, you'll meet someone who'll love, and respect you for who you are, and not for what you can "do for him". Someone who will cherish you and treat you right. No one has the right to hold you back and down. You need to move on with your life. 11 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by T3Amo(f): 8:31pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
What happened to babyosisi |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 11:28am On Jul 08, 2015 |
You beg the 'Awka guy' before you meet and yet you call him your suitor.. Someone who never discussed marriage with you or try to engage you even thou engagement is not a guarantee that a guy will marry you.funny!he didn't even want you,but you were shamelessly throwing yourself at him. Guess you didn't see the hand writing on the wall. He was simply never interested in you so it wasn't you who let him go,he left you after friend zoning you and you were still begging..shameless wanna be....... LIAR! Herzumpther: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 11:30am On Jul 08, 2015 |
Ladies,the best person to counsel you on marriage is your mother! 4 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 11:33am On Jul 08, 2015 |
peppyluv02: Tell them ooo 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 11:42am On Jul 08, 2015 |
Everybody is a relationship expert these days even those from broken homes and marriages. Even kids! My friends keep forcing me to attend all those counseling nonsense and fellowship, I tell them thank God my mum is still alive. I will learn all I need from her. Her marriage worked for over 30years so why should I take advise from a 'kid'! My man won't even let me go for such. By the time you take advise from every Tom and jerry,your problem becomes worse! If your mum is no more...sorry about that but then,don't go up and down looking for solutions from every tom and jerry. You can get a confidant,someone you can trust. dearpreye: 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 11:49am On Jul 08, 2015 |
peppyluv02: Your best advisor is very close by. Tap from her and be happily married ever after. Shalom! 3 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by stonecoldcafe: 11:50am On Jul 08, 2015 |
peppyluv02: Excuseeeeeeeeeeeee meeeeeeeeeeee! Hold it right there. What do you mean by broken homes and marriages? I take exception to that statement! God uses the foolish things of the world to confound the wise. I am not saying be dropping your life history everywhere but anyone can learn anything and YES even from someone who has had a failed marriage. What if someone's mum is no more. What if someone's mum is a single mother (not widow?) I'm sorry but this goes against the purpose of this thread. 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 12:24pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
I called him what That's old news anyway. 7 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Renaj: 1:55am On Aug 09, 2015 |
Renaj: Hello house,Remember me? Is been a while! Have been busy with the Msc programme. I have been trying to catch up on all that I have missed. @Ma Efemena, you are to be held responsible if.... . I took it slow with my boyfriend, getting to know each other better and it has and is still a wonderful experience. But I have discovered he is not ambitious. Still encouraging him to do better, and he has improved, albeit slowly. He still isnt strong financially, just making little progress. My sisters said he is a good man. But the choice is mine to make. I have met several younger guys in par with me in education, but I dont feel anything for them. I tried to care for one who was really interested in me, despite knowing I have a boyfriend, but he wont simply go. He is making future plans and all that, but am not happy with him or any other. I am still in a dilemma.... 2 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 10:12am On Aug 09, 2015 |
You called him suitor and he was never your suitor. Neither did he show signs of getting serious with you. You people should stop coming here with twisted gists and lies. Herzumpther: 2 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 10:15am On Aug 09, 2015 |
Lmao. Still old news sha and I've moved forward. I no even remember say I post here gan. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 11:07am On Aug 09, 2015 |
Who cares if you've moved forward or backward... Herzumpther: 4 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Idowuogbo(f): 11:32am On Aug 09, 2015 |
peppyluv02:Haba,stop being mean na.. .na Sunday o |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 11:35am On Aug 09, 2015 |
You want me to expose that you are one of those tripping for my fourteen years old neighbor abi? Idowuogbo: 2 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Idowuogbo(f): 11:40am On Aug 09, 2015 |
peppyluv02:Taaa! Comot dia before i use you practice wrestling. 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by thorpido(m): 11:45am On Aug 09, 2015 |
peppyluv02:Haba,you no go church? |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 11:48am On Aug 09, 2015 |
Ah! Sorry o! I can't wrestle o! I don't have strength. But were you not asking for names on that thread..So,you are number one. *runs out of thread before she beats me up* Idowuogbo: 2 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 11:50am On Aug 09, 2015 |
I no go. thorpido: 2 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by thorpido(m): 11:52am On Aug 09, 2015 |
peppyluv02:Okay,she says she has moved on.Check other threads na |
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