eyeview:
Maybe its time you get on your knees and give your life to christ. Its a spiritual fight and you can't win by applying physical strategy.
Ask God to forgive you your sins,known and unknown. If you guys were sleeping together before marriage when dating,confess and ask God for forgiveness. If you dated a married man as a single lady,please confess it before God and ask for His forgiveness,most single ladies who slept with other people's husbands don't know that its a seed which they will reap its harvest in their marriage.
When done with that,you now start presenting your husband continually in prayer. Persevere in the place of prayer and watch what will happen.

Vision4God:
OP pls pray 4ur husband. 4get his attitudes and bgin 2do special meals, bhav differntlt.
He will bgin 2hv a rethought on his attitude.

Also tel him u both nid 2 dscus. Say ur mind in a respectful wy.
Watch wat God will do

Omamibaby:
Please help me, our marriage is less than a year but my husband is driving me crazy, i feel like killing him. There was a point i wished that something to happen to him so i can rest and have peace
of mind.
My husband has so many female friends and which he claims there is nothing between them yet they keep calling him at odd hours.
He comes back to the house very late.
Before we got married he always takes me along but now I live like a woman with no husband. The most painful part of everything
is that my husband was nobody when I met him. I stood by him, we work hard together
when things were tough while we were dating. Now he has gotten a good job, all he do is to go to the bar, call girls (long call), come back late. Now he deletes every
message in his phone. Recently, He forgot to delete one of the
message he sent to a girl which he told her that he misses her and still loves her. When I met and confronted him, he didn’t say
anything rather he started keeping malice with me for days.
What I don’t understand about the whole situation is that he makes it seem I’m the bad
person, he always say “did I marry him or his phone, that he saw other girls before he got
married to me?” What bothers me is that, if a man has nothing to hide, while will he gets
angry when the wife touch his phone.
I’m so unhappy and I’m scared of walking out because his people have this bad notion
about yoruba women that they don’t stay in their husband’s house and our marriage is
just 10 months old. I’m fed up and tempted to poison him.

Omamibaby:
Please help me, our marriage is less than a year but my husband is driving me crazy, i feel like killing him. There was a point i wished that something to happen to him so i can rest and have peace
of mind.
My husband has so many female friends and which he claims there is nothing between them yet they keep calling him at odd hours.
He comes back to the house very late.
Before we got married he always takes me along but now I live like a woman with no husband. The most painful part of everything
is that my husband was nobody when I met him. I stood by him, we work hard together
when things were tough while we were dating. Now he has gotten a good job, all he do is to go to the bar, call girls (long call), come back late. Now he deletes every
message in his phone. Recently, He forgot to delete one of the
message he sent to a girl which he told her that he misses her and still loves her. When I met and confronted him, he didn’t say
anything rather he started keeping malice with me for days.
What I don’t understand about the whole situation is that he makes it seem I’m the bad
person, he always say “did I marry him or his phone, that he saw other girls before he got
married to me?” What bothers me is that, if a man has nothing to hide, while will he gets
angry when the wife touch his phone.
I’m so unhappy and I’m scared of walking out because his people have this bad notion
about yoruba women that they don’t stay in their husband’s house and our marriage is
just 10 months old. I’m fed up and tempted to poison him.

brito:



She should pray for herself, she's a very jealous and possessive wife. For she to think of poisoning shows the kind of person she is. like someone mentioned above give your life to Christ. I wish u happy married life!

dinachi:
@ OP you are an evil woman! I would have paid attention to you but for the fact that you are considering taking another persons life. You were even tempted to poison him? For what? I think you are the evil person here not your wonderful charming husband! You search his phone all the time. Does he search yours?
All you evil witches who come here and parade yourselves as innocent women should desist!
Go and get help before you murder an innocent man whose only crime is that he married a murderer like you!

eyeview:
Maybe its time you get on your knees and give your life to christ. Its a spiritual fight and you can't win by applying physical strategy.
Ask God to forgive you your sins,known and unknown. If you guys were sleeping together before marriage when dating,confess and ask God for forgiveness. If you dated a married man as a single lady,please confess it before God and ask for His forgiveness,most single ladies who slept with other people's husbands don't know that its a seed which they will reap its harvest in their marriage.
When done with that,you now start presenting your husband continually in prayer. Persevere in the place of prayer and watch what will happen.

Faibuhari:
These is a real kolomental issue, if you can't give concrete advise can't you STFU and stop talking gibberish. I didn't read anywhere you blamed the husband rather you still dished out blame to an helpless woman