THE BIGGEST TRUTH ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS AND SEX (MUST READ)
1.For Ladies
2.For Guys
3.For both Ladies & Guys

1.Advice For Ladies--

If a guy tells you he loves you, and wants to have sex with you, believe me, he DOESN'T love you, all he wants is satisfaction from you..
Reasons-
1. If he loves you, he would want you for marriage, and not sex/pleasure, he would respect you and wait, he would see other beautiful things about you outside sex, He wouldn't be interested in sex because feels real happiness in him because of you. Now that's Love.
2. If you give in to him, Believe me, He will leave you for another lady, even if he eventually marries you, He would be a cheat because He has seen everything about you, you will soonest become boring to him... he wants something new outside.
3. If you say "NO" to him, and he leaves, he never loved you anyway. He only wanted a toy to play with (your body), but if he stays, then he likes you, (let's believe its temptation that made him request so much,,,that's if he stays)
4. If he says he wants to marry you, and because of that, you guys should have sex, BIG LIE--- why? because, if he wants marriage, he'll be busy planning, knowing you, your family, your attitude, your character, etc and making money too.
5. Everyman wants a faithful and God fearing wife, after going to clubs with him, when he's ready, he tells his friends, he wants someone that he can trust..... if you do "sex sex" with him and you think he would marry you, am so sorry for you, believe me--"NO BODY LIKES TO WEAR CHEAP MATERIALS" or "BUY PUBLIC MOTORS".
NOTE::: When Men are really in love, they are very scared to ask you for sex, you see them respecting and valuing you, they forget sex, they are always happy thinking of a future with you. Sex becomes unimportant to them.
(Every Guy is the same is because you have lost your value, keep it and see that everyman is not the same)

FOR THE MEN.-
When a girl is sex demanding and tells you that "if you really love her, you should prove it", or "she can not date a man who can not have sex", or that "you are not man enough", my brother, run from these kind of girls, especially for marriages...
REASONS.
1. They are never faithful after marriages. Why? Because they have seen all you can do, they want more outside, they get easily bored with one partner because it is a hobby already, what happens next?? INFIDELITY. And believe me, MEN HARDLY KNOW WHEN THEIR WIVES ARE CHEATING,
2. Imagine having children and some of these kids are not your biological children, (how would you know those that are yours sef). Women who have no self control during relationships will also not have self control after marriages because they never practised it in their youthful days, they end up sleeping with your gateman, colleagues, or even her own co-workers when you are out of town for business, etc.

3. They end up sometimes having birth related problems because of pasts abortions, abortion peels, etc and you end up suffering it with them in your marriage.

4. Women who can't do without sex in relationships can not hold your family spiritually, they are not good wives or mother, they are always complaining and are getting tired of you because you have nothing new to offer after marriage, then they start following Alhajis and CEOs.


For Both Boys and Girls who are okay having sex with each other.
If both of you are in a relationship and are fine having sex together in the name of love, you are both deceiving yourselves..
REASONS
1. Very soon, One of you is likely to leave the other, why? Loss of value---nothing new about you to anticipate for. He/she now knows you in and out, and soon will see someone better.
2. Research has proven that such relationships lead to unhappy marriages, no fun, no happiness after marriage. Why? both of you are already tired of each other...nothing new again because everything has already been revealed before the marriage--what happens next? Divorce, quarrels, unfaithfulness starts.

FINALLY, PRE MARITAL SEX IS A GRIEVIOUS SIN, A MORTAL SIN THAT 90% of those in Hell are victims.
Use your life well, don't waste it for pleasure

My dearest youths,,,,they are 1001 ways to show love and make love apart from sex....
Namely


1. Tell the other person that you love
them
2. Give a special present
3. Be there when they need a friend
4. Spend time together
5. Go to see a film.
6. Hug yourselves with laughter
7. Make sure the other person feels
important and respected
8. Kiss when people are looking
9. Kiss when people aren't looking (Not French Kissing)
10. Tell the other person that you care
11. Hold hands
12. Visit each others parents
13. Buy presents for each other.
14. Cut each other's toenails
15. Talk about your feelings
16. Share dreams with each other
17. Gaze at each other
18. Sit together in the park
19. Take a walk together
20. Go out for a meal
21. Have a picnic
22. Go to weddings and marriages together
23. Give compliments
24. Cook a meal together
25. Plan and go on a trip together
26. Throw a party together
27. Just be there
28. Find out what's special for the other
person - and do it.
29. Eat dinner by candlelight
30. Go to a concert
31. Pray together
32. Propose marriage
Etc.
Love is Fun... .
Make it clean and keep your value
God bless

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Amen

God bless

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I love this piece

And the worst part is pre marital sex is now a normal thing in dis world.

From my wealth of experience...

Guys; Your Lady is definetely gonna to cheat on you no matter how nice or un-nice you are, how much money you got or how good u are in bed. and you are gonna do just the same


Ladies: sorry; but you are gonna cheat on him and there is nothing you can do about it. Its not your fault, it was just meant to be.


Its a pattern ..... I have seen it.

this is the best advice ive ever come across on NL... i swear!!! thanks a lot!