chillian:
Why do guys take advantage of advanced ladies especially the desperate ones promising them marriage and after taking advantage of them they dump them. Giving excuses of how rude or arrogant the lady is or better still avoiding her at all cost.I have witnessed two different cases from my friends and I can't help but wonder why men indulge in such wicked practices.

Tallesty1:
That heartless guy was used and dumped by a badass lady. It revolves dear.

chillian:
Why do guys take advantage of advanced ladies especially the desperate ones promising them marriage and after taking advantage of them they dump them. Giving excuses of how rude or arrogant the lady is or better still avoiding her at all cost.I have witnessed two different cases from my friends and I can't help but wonder why men indulge in such wicked practices.

Redoil:
i apologise for the insult. But truth has always been a bitter piles.

mutter:
Many Men and women that reach a mature age before getting married are very difficult to live with.
They are set in their ways and do not want to make much change or just cannot make the change.
They have their lifestyle and cat adjust.
When a man in this situation marries a woman, he usually marries a younger woman who completely adjust to fit in to the man`s lifestyle.
For women it is nearly impossible to get a much younger man to marry.
Furthermore the man sees himself as the head of the home and does not want to marry woman he cannot control.

It is possible that the man really wanted a serious relationship but then he found out he could not cope because he could not be the man he wants to be in this relationship.

Women really need to stop looking for ready- made men and be ready to build with a man.

bukatyne:


And do you know if the badass lady was a good girl turned bad by a heartless guy

chillian:
Why do guys take advantage of advanced ladies especially the desperate ones promising them marriage and after taking advantage of them they dump them. Giving excuses of how rude or arrogant the lady is or better still avoiding her at all cost.I have witnessed two different cases from my friends and I can't help but wonder why men indulge in such wicked practices.

mutter:
Many Men and women that reach a mature age before getting married are very difficult to live with.
They are set in their ways and do not want to make much change or just cannot make the change.
They have their lifestyle and cat adjust.
When a man in this situation marries a woman, he usually marries a younger woman who completely adjust to fit in to the man`s lifestyle.
For women it is nearly impossible to get a much younger man to marry.
Furthermore the man sees himself as the head of the home and does not want to marry woman he cannot control.

It is possible that the man really wanted a serious relationship but then he found out he could not cope because he could not be the man he wants to be in this relationship.

Women really need to stop looking for ready- made men and be ready to build with a man.

onyenro:
I love the topic op. They mount pressure on you to marry them. What happen to the guy that ate the first fruit?
This is an advice to upcoming babes. The dried leaves told the fresh leaves keep dancing on the tree, we were one's like u. Nobody uses anybody unless u were despoil.d.

MizMyColi:
A lady should be mentally strong enough to know when to gather all her faculties and walk out of a relationship that reeks of first class manipulation, selfishness, control and downright emotional abuse.

But no, we won't.

We must marry this year by fire by force.
When it doesn't pan out that way, we conclude we were taken advantage of. We had a part to play joor.

We keep giving guys irrefutable reasons to spew iranu and rada rada about us.
Reducing us to beggars of attention, affection, money and ultimately; marriage.

Dear Lawd, Lord give me and my fellow ladies brain.

Aamem.

Try put-in fear and respect next time!

Redoil:
after ladies and people like you might have taken advantage of men in ur younger days forgeting the world is round and it is now pay back time. What goes arround comes arround.

freecocoa:
The simple answer is to stop being desperate and just maybe, no one will use you.

A desperate woman is also out to use any man who is stup1d enough to get caught in her trap, so...

mutter:
Many Men and women that reach a mature age before getting married are very difficult to live with.
They are set in their ways and do not want to make much change or just cannot make the change.
They have their lifestyle and cat adjust.
When a man in this situation marries a woman, he usually marries a younger woman who completely adjust to fit in to the man`s lifestyle.
For women it is nearly impossible to get a much younger man to marry.
Furthermore the man sees himself as the head of the home and does not want to marry woman he cannot control.

It is possible that the man really wanted a serious relationship but then he found out he could not cope because he could not be the man he wants to be in this relationship.

Women really need to stop looking for ready- made men and be ready to build with a man.

carefreewannabe:


I was thinking the same when I saw the title of the thread.

And then I was pondering over the reasons for such a mindset and behavior. What makes some ladies more desperate than others? Why do some ladies respect themselves and others don't?

I will not go into detail because I could write a book about that topic but I wish that more ladies get a life; a life that does not revolve around a man who will a get God-like status, a life that does not revolve around fashion and beauty to attract the divine creature that is supposed to solve all her problems and fulfill all her dreams, a life in which you have more than some cheesy soap operas that you spend your free time on and which constantly remind her that life is about a God-like creature who is the answer to all her questions.

And then they wonder and complain that men prefer to spend time with their buddies. The answer is, you are extremely boring.

Welcome to the 21st century.

elitejosef:
;Dsmiling mood activated
I have seen ladies who turned down serious suitors. One at my office when I came in newly refused me because I just came in with her and she needed a man that has settled down.
when two guys finished with her, she later came back begging for us to date. I actually wanted to fire down. But I remembered this girl turned me down then, and I knew she never loved me but just been desperate. how wish I clean mouth she for cry say he took advantage of me.

Redoil:
after ladies and people like you might have taken advantage of men in ur younger days forgeting the world is round and it is now pay back time. What goes arround comes arround.

uboma:



Your analysis is partially true. Not all matured single ladies are guilty of taking advantage of guys during their younger years.

Redoil:
after ladies and people like you might have taken advantage of men in ur younger days forgeting the world is round and it is now pay back time. What goes arround comes arround.

queebeediva:
It very common this days, but I think the problem is from the both sex, please ladies in quest for your dream husband don't be too available for any harry be paitent, prayerful and upright cause what will be will be. And guys, when you identify a good woman pls be good to her and if you feel you can not hooked with her for marriage @least be a loving friend to her. Like Akon would say; even the life that we got is borrow cause we don't no 2mwro.

Redoil:
after ladies and people like you might have taken advantage of men in ur younger days forgeting the world is round and it is now pay back time. What goes arround comes arround.