JahzaraAde:
Hmm. Fair observation.

It appears fairer guys are more appealing up until late teens. After that, the darker guys dominate.

I'm personally attracted more to darker guys. But fairer guys are cool people nonetheless. The colour of one's skin definitely doesn't predict how well they'll be in a relationship.

Michael Ealy is a real handsome lighty - he's attractive

lolz

Now let me get this clear...

Fair Babes want Tall Dark and Handsome guys,
Dark Babes want same.

Dark Guys want Curvy, Fair and Beautiful babes,
Fair guys want same (though not all)

So, who wants the Dark girls and the fair guys Nobody... yet the Dark girls especially want Dark guys... funny!

We seem to make life difficult for ourselves by bringing in too many criteria and narrowing our options...

I'm personally very light skinned to the point one would expect i go for dark ladies, but no, i don't precisely, neither do i go for fair ladies... i simply go after beautiful ladies... ok, they should be tall as well to avoid the our pairing lookin funny and makin me uncomfortable due to height mismatch...

@ EVERYBODY: Trim ur specifications cos you aren't good enough after all.

peace.

the girls what big black veiny preeqs not some colourful plastic looking tins.... peharps that's why. -i just asked a girl o

khiaa:



I can see my veins through my arms aswell but I am considered brown/caramel like you, I guess it's different in the US.
lol Are you flipping the birdie *finger* in that photo?

In Naija, the OP is seen as a light skinned man/ fair complexion...so let's try and understand this thread from the naija point of view. We dont live in the land of onyibos.

Truckpusher:
Are they paying light skin folks these days for being light skin?

hahahahaha... beats me! I see alot of threads on 'em..

@OP... d concern of ur "trail of lightskin-phobia ex" is quite understandable even tho beauty-related issues are individualistic. U just need to find someone who sees beyond the skin & ul b just fine.

Im guessing u already found someone tho..

Mhizizzy:
fair nd gorgeous tho

MrFernandez:


Haha...I can understand Hon...between your dp is breathtaking!

Creamish:


In Naija, the OP is seen as a light skinned man/ fair complexion...so let's try and understand this thread from the naija point of view. We dont live in the land of onyibos.



hahahahaha... beats me! I see alot of threads on 'em..

@OP... d concern of ur "trail of lightskin-phobia ex" is quite understandable even tho beauty-related issues are individualistic. U just need to find someone who sees beyond the skin & ul b just fine.

Im guessing u already found someone tho..

I'm an American and it is the land of multiple races not just white so get it right.
I did explain in my post that the difference must be the US so clearly I understood the op's pov so your post was unnecessary.

khiaa:



I'm an American and it is the land of multiple races not just white so get it right.
I did explain in my post that the difference must be the US so clearly I understood the op's pov so your post was unnecessary.

U made dat brown colored comment severally...making doz who say they r light skinned feel like they dunno wat they r talking about...dat was unnecessary.

pcguru1:

Toni Braxton and Anita Baker I do have their Collection, Mavin Gaye sadly only sexual healing, lol damn rookie mistake Rolling stones i meant, yeah i know the song walk this way it was do.pe, Rick Rubin was responsible for that joint collabo the bearded guy in Jayz song 99 problems. but the Isley Brothers i would give that a go. infact am gonna jam "The show must go on" by queen in the office all day. you really know your stuff you are officially my music buddy and buddy now.

Yes I know who Rick Rubin is/was, he and Russell Simmons were college buddies but Aerosmith made the original version of walk this way back in the 70's.
Please don't torture your fellow employees with Queen *We Are The Champions* was the best song they ever recorded, everything else...... well you fill in the blank.
I will gladly be your buddy.
PS You must get Marvin Gaye's greatest hits. You can't be a lover of music and not appreciate Marvin.

op if u dey complain wetin u want make guys like us wey dark like back of pot do?

lefulefu:
op if u dey complain wetin u want make guys like us wey dark like back of pot do?

Women love the chocolate brothas.

Creamish:


U made dat brown colored comment severally...making doz who say they r light skinned feel like they dunno wat they r talking about...dat was unnecessary.

I'm sure you being in Nigeria doesn't mean you can't see the difference between light/fair *Drake* and brown/caramel *Will Smith*, you have eyes and you have those different complexions in nigeria.

Me I don't like fair ladies. Dark skinned ladies win everytime.

khiaa:




I'm sure you being in Nigeria doesn't mean you can't see the difference between light/fair *Drake* and brown/caramel *Will Smith*, you have eyes and you have those different complexions in nigeria.

We dont go caramel/brown/watever u guys use there....ur either light skinned/fair or dark skinned here. We all know d skin shades but for the sake of it, let's not make others feel silly.

No beef khiaa...no fight. 1 luv. Always liked ur posts.


Personally, I culdn't care less bout the skin colour... if an albino can make me fall for him, goody!

khiaa:



Women love the chocolate brothas.

khiaa if yankee women love brothas wey dark as charcoal pls let me know so i can pack all my bags cross sahara desert come settle 4 yankee .Anytime a nigerian lady see me dem dey always scream and run inside bush .

lefulefu:

khiaa if yankee women love brothas wey dark as charcoal pls let me know so i can pack all my bags cross sahara desert come settle 4 yankee .Anytime a nigerian lady see me dem dey always scream and run inside bush .

lol Some of us loooove our men ebony dark and smooth.

lefulefu:

khiaa if yankee women love brothas wey dark as charcoal pls let me know so i can pack all my bags cross sahara desert come settle 4 yankee .Anytime a nigerian lady see me dem dey always scream and run inside bush .

Girls like Dark guys ? , guy abeg where boys fit order for charcoal i must be *very black* by force