MzzTega:
5 years! hmmmmm.
Where you in a relationship before?
If No den something is wrong.
If yes,den u r yet to get over d past relationship.

nikkflexible:
For mature ladies preferably (guys too can add one or two things)

Would you say yes to a guy that extremely loves you and has been saying and showing it for 5years running but then what you have for him is extreme likeness and you aint sure you love him?
With his personality,looks and other qualities you are ok but then you have not come to see yourself loving him no matter how lengthy and quality your chat sessions are.
though you have nobody you are dating presently.

Enegod:
Toasting one female for five years!!
gaddamnit!!!
Who does that kind of thing!!

funmilayo32:

my dear be true to yourself and the guy. just tell him the truth, as they say the truth is bitter.

ronald4lif:
I thought many women say they prefer a guy who loves them to the one they love. You like him extremely and he's been consistent with the friendship you both have had for 5years right? Does he also possess every other qualities you admire in a man and hubby except that you don't love him? You see, love in itself isn't enough to say yes to marrying a person. There are other factors which includes; character, appearance, height, caring attitude, understanding and his Godly attitude etc. Should he have all these then I ll suggest you give him a try, though not marriage immediately but a relationship and see how it turns out in the next few months. Who knows he might just be your missing rib after all

naijaboiy:
You are just a wicked person
How can you friend zone a guy for five complete years and you cannot tell him your mind.

Chaiii

nikkflexible:
For mature ladies preferably (guys too can add one or two things)

Would you say yes to a guy that extremely loves you and has been saying and showing it for 5years running but then what you have for him is extreme likeness and you aint sure you love him?
With his personality,looks and other qualities you are ok but then you have not come to see yourself loving him no matter how lengthy and quality your chat sessions are.
though you have nobody you are dating presently.

nikkflexible:
its jst loving him dats d problem..all other qualities are in order...tanx tho..i really appreciate

Chizzy20:
were u hurt in ur previous relationship?

Welepamilayo:


Are you attracted to him? Likeness can evolve if there is attraction. if you just like the person as if they are your sibling, then move on. you are both just playing the comfortable game where you feel something because it is convenient. Another thought is you will might have to lose him b4 you realize you could have been more than you imagine. hopefully there will be no regrets. Best thing to do is not to play games and make sure no one is being fooled.

ronald4lif:


I know, but I still suggest you give a relationship a try with him, if the both of you are single. He has been very good and helpful for 5years tells a lot about his real intentions, which to me are genuine.

Guys like him are very rare ohh, I am not sure I can do such. For what na? Biko try him out that guy is an asset, try to make yourself develop feelings towards him jare

nikkflexible:
trust me i have told him several times bt he wont stop showing how much he cares.
.we av bin frnds for years and i neva gave him greenlight abt dating him....

Ok so what's the issue now?

You want to say "Yes" to him because he has been showing love and care to you meanwhile you don't "Love" him back.

In other words you're considering dating him out of pity.

Right?

nikkflexible:
no i wasnt. i jst dnt want any commitments for nw cos i need to get sum oda important tins settled..

ronald4lif:
I thought many women say they prefer a guy who loves them to the one they love. You like him extremely and he's been consistent with the friendship you both have had for 5years right? Does he also possess every other qualities you admire in a man and hubby except that you don't love him? You see, love in itself isn't enough to say yes to marrying a person. There are other factors which includes; character, appearance, height, caring attitude, understanding and his Godly attitude etc. Should he have all these then I ll suggest you give him a try, though not marriage immediately but a relationship and see how it turns out in the next few months. Who knows he might just be your missing rib after all

naijaboiy:

Ok so what's the issue now?

You want to say "Yes" to him because he has been showing love and care to you meanwhile you don't "Love" him back.

In other words you're considering dating him out of pity.

Right?

nikkflexible:
we've bin frnds for a long time and we av neva dated but he has been proving his love since 5yrs ago..although he has dated sum oda gals which i knw of to while away time but right now he is nt in any relatnshp

nikkflexible:
That is why I need your advise....am confused

Dating out of pity is one of the worst heart breaks you can give to someone in a relationship.

If you don't love the person now I wonder when you will love the person. It won't grow while you are dating.

You will only end up regretting and it may spoil the friendship you both have together.

I'm sure you are feeling guilty for keeping him that long and not returning his love.

I also wonder why a guy will just sit his àss down and wait for one particular woman for five straight years just to say "YES" to him.

When no be JAZZ!

Enegod:
Toasting one female for five years!!
gaddamnit!!!
Who does that kind of thing!!

stunningjudy:

My friend has a dude that started asking her out right from year1, we have graduated and the dude is still asking her out. We all did a 5year course. So to answer your question, its very possible.

Nawa o

MzzTega:

Ok. Two things are involved here.
Its either both of you being together is not meant to be or there's something wrong with you.

stunningjudy:

My friend has a dude that started asking her out right from year1, we have graduated and the dude is still asking her out. We all did a 5year course. So to answer your question, its very possible.

nikkflexible:

stunningjudy:

My friend has a dude that started asking her out right from year1, we have graduated and the dude is still asking her out. We all did a 5year course. So to answer your question, its very possible.

MzzTega:

Yes dear,you yourself said it. The guy has been good.

nikkflexible:
of course