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| Need Advice Urgently. by Glo4issy(f): 1:23pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
My cousin will be 18 on Sunday but she is already in love with a 27 years old man,Have advised her to think of something meaning instead and I love her so much that's why she enclosed such decision to me. The question is"what advice can I use to convince her". |
| Re: Need Advice Urgently. by major466(m): 1:27pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
She's 18. Allow her make her own decisions. |
| Re: Need Advice Urgently. by Cutehector(m): 1:27pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
Seriously d best advice one can giv is self advice. U dnt need to bother urself. Allow her to make her decisions and mistakes.  |
| Re: Need Advice Urgently. by Nobody: 1:28pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
she is too young for that  she is in lust not love.... |
| Re: Need Advice Urgently. by Glo4issy(f): 1:29pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
major466:Not yet 18 |
| Re: Need Advice Urgently. by Glo4issy(f): 1:39pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
will just be mute about that,its her life and I guess she now feels she is mature  small girls of nowadays amaze me. |
| Re: Need Advice Urgently. by Nobody: 1:58pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
Glo4issy:Once she's 18, there's little you can do to dissuade her. Good a thing she has confided in you. Do not betray that trust by ratting her out to anyone else. I believe you are experienced in relationships, or would want us to believe you are experienced in relationships. Therefore, talk to her the way you would have wanted someone to talk to you when you were 18. Show her signs she needs to watch out for, and generally, how to keep her emotions in check. And then you let her make her own decisions. There's nothing you can do to keep two people genuinely in love away from each other. I know you're scared, but she also has her own life to live. You would not always be there for her, so while you still are, advice her meaningfully and not necessarily away from him. 3 Likes |
| Re: Need Advice Urgently. by Samiceman: 2:00pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
Glo4issy:Give me her contact.... Lemme help u At least am not up to 27 |
| Re: Need Advice Urgently. by dhappyking(m): 5:22am On Feb 06, 2016 |
All you can do is advise her. She will still do whatever she wants. Nut just let her know that it still early morning and she has her whole life to live. Any wrong decisions now could mar a bright future. She should be more concerned with building her future by investing her time and resources in her education. |
| Re: Need Advice Urgently. by cruzita(f): 7:16am On Feb 06, 2016 |
leave her alone ,maybe she is the type that learn from their own mistakes not from others mistake. |
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