You sound sincere: there are so many trolls on the forum so its hard to know who's not telling the truth; and you just registered this handle today, a strong characteristic of trolls.

Anyway, if what you're saying is the truth, then make sure you are ready: financially, emotionally, psychologically to be a single mom. Please don't bring someone into this world that you can't carter for.

Abortion is still a very nice option if the issues of being a single mom is overbearing.

ednut1:
congrats nd good for u.

Thank u

simplex2:
You sound sincere: there are so many trolls on the forum so its hard to know who's not telling the truth; and you just registered this handle today, a strong characteristic of trolls.

Anyway, if what you're saying is the truth, then make sure you are ready: financially, emotionally, psychologically to be a single mom. Please don't bring someone into this world that you can't carter for.

Abortion is still a very nice option if the issues of being a single mom is overbearing.

Thank you I can handle any1 giving me abuse I am use to it! I know what it be like being a single parent I am a strong person and cope well,I can cater for my unborn child has I wouldn't keep if I couldn't aswell has not beleieving in abortions

smithy90:


Thank you I can handle any1 giving me abuse I am use to it! I know what it be like being a single parent I am a strong person and cope well,I can cater for my unborn child has I wouldn't keep if I couldn't aswell has not beleieving in abortions

Well, its good you believe you can carter for your unborn child, but can you carter for the 'born' child when it arrives? Being strong is not the only thing that child needs.

Goodluck though.

[quote author=smithy90 post=31203727][/quote]It's obvious the guy just wanted an affair.
Well young lady,you just have to pick up yourself from here.It's obvious he doesn't want to be involved in the baby's life.
Learn to use protection young lady and start to plan your life.You're not too young at your age.You need to take responsibility for your life.

Sister keep that child forget him, find help with ur family n raise that child, build urself n u will find a better relationship

Abort the baby... And move on...

smithy90:
Well I met this guy,he said he was seperated from wife,so beleived fell for his sweet talk,now am pregnant he doesn't want to know and is very much still with his wife,I told her and he thinks I was out to destroy his marridge when I wasn't,he lied to me and her,I wouldn't off gone near him if I knew he was still with her but now am pregnant he made it very clear he doesn't want to know,should I just leave him too it and carry alone or try make him see sense

dis is a poo story

thorpido:
It's obvious the guy just wanted an affair.
Well young lady,you just have to pick up yourself from here.It's obvious he doesn't want to be involved in the baby's life.
Learn to use protection young lady and start to plan your life.You're not too young at your age.You need to take responsibility for your life.

By some info I've just recenlty been told am not the only girl he used so am pretty much glad I am rid just shame he is the farther oh I've learnt from this a lot!

cutecanson:
dis is a poo story

Well don't frickin read u toad

hadanssah:
Sister keep that child forget him, find help with ur family n raise that child, build urself n u will find a better relationship

Don't worry he is forgotton and my concern is my baby and I don't think I want a relationship anytime soon or future

simplex2:


Well, its good you believe you can carter for your unborn child, but can you carter for the 'born' child when it arrives? Being strong is not the only thing that child needs.

Goodluck though.

I can cater for my child and thank u

smithy90:

By some info I've just recenlty been told am not the only girl he used so am pretty much glad I am rid just shame he is the farther oh I've learnt from this a lot!

smithy90,are your parents in the UK?

thorpido:
smithy90,are your parents in the UK?

Yes my mother is but my farther passed away years ago

kelvinmuffins3:



That makes you foolish because you were too blind with fake love and deaf with sweet words..
Next time be smart because love does not make us stup!d.

What are u saying? Love doesn't make us to do stupid things? Love can propel anyone to reach the peak of his folly. It does make us to do d unthinkable bro.

No try love o!

smithy90:
Well I met this guy,he said he was seperated from wife,so beleived fell for his sweet talk,now am pregnant he doesn't want to know and is very much still with his wife,I told her and he thinks I was out to destroy his marridge when I wasn't,he lied to me and her,I wouldn't off gone near him if I knew he was still with her but now am pregnant he made it very clear he doesn't want to know,should I just leave him too it and carry alone or try make him see sense

I feel your plight, if d story is actually valid. U just need to move on, don't be disillusioned, u'll definitely find a more honest man sooner than u think, but don't transfer your vindictive sensibilities to him.

Is he your first love? & do u have the financial muscle to cater for your unborn child? Because u can't hinge on such a man for financial assistance.

klark3:

I feel your plight, if d story is actually valid. U just need to move on, don't be disillusioned, u'll definitely find a more honest man sooner than u think, but don't transfer your vindictive sensibilities to him.

Is he your first love? & do u have the financial muscle to cater for your unborn child? Because u can't hinge on such a man for financial assistance.

This story quite real! I am moving on but I have his wife now actually wanting to be involved and make sure he is involved like updating on my scans due date appointments and I don't understand why he should be getting off his black arse and doing it himself,nope not my first love there's more about me but I don't like to post other stuff about my life but I don't really care for men anymore I've been put right off,I don't care if he isn't there financially,but now he can do what he wants my main concern my child my own personal life and my family

smithy90:


Yes my mother is but my farther passed away years ago

Okat.you just need to brace up and be ready to take the responsibility alone.He may get involved(or maybe later) and he may not.
Don't hate men and don't shut yourself away from men completely.What you need is just the wisdom to know who is real.

thorpido:
Okat.you just need to brace up and be ready to take the responsibility alone.He may get involved(or maybe later) and he may not.
Don't hate men and don't shut yourself away from men completely.What you need is just the wisdom to know who is real.

Am ready for it! If he does then fair play to him for taking up his responsibility if not his loss not mine,I try too but right now I just can't look at another man! Its hard finding n knowing who's real so easily to disguise yourself

smithy90:

This story quite real! I am moving on but I have his wife now actually wanting to be involved and make sure he is involved like updating on my scans due date appointments and I don't understand why he should be getting off his black arse and doing it himself,nope not my first love there's more about me but I don't like to post other stuff about my life but I don't really care for men anymore I've been put right off,I don't care if he isn't there financially,but now he can do what he wants my main concern my child my own personal life and my family

Alright.

But u really need to be philosophical about this, things will fall into place with time & u'll be happy. But what about your mum, u gonna need her.

smithy90:
Well I met this guy,he said he was seperated from wife,so beleived fell for his sweet talk,now am pregnant he doesn't want to know and is very much still with his wife,I told her and he thinks I was out to destroy his marridge when I wasn't,he lied to me and her,I wouldn't off gone near him if I knew he was still with her but now am pregnant he made it very clear he doesn't want to know,should I just leave him too it and carry alone or try make him see sense

If you were my sister, I would have slapped you.
nonsense.
why didn't you investigate before opening your legs for him?
young and single guys will be asking you out, you will say no. its a 'separated' man that you want to marry,

klark3:

What are u saying? Love doesn't make us to do stupid things? Love can propel anyone to reach the peak of his folly. It does make us to do d unthinkable bro.

No try love o!

I don't believe in love anyways.

simplex2:
You sound sincere: there are so many trolls on the forum so its hard to know who's not telling the truth; and you just registered this handle today, a strong characteristic of trolls.

Anyway, if what you're saying is the truth, then make sure you are ready: financially, emotionally, psychologically to be a single mom. Please don't bring someone into this world that you can't carter for.

Abortion is still a very nice option if the issues of being a single mom is overbearing.

Abortion is never a good option ....

Mekymuo:
Abort the baby... And move on...

may God forgives u ..if your mum aborted you wil you b here talking trash?

samtol4:
Abortion is never a good option ....

Says who