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Abusive Relationship!! How To Get Out. by Gabbyswit(f): 3:57am On Mar 02, 2015
There are different forms of abuse. Emotional, physical, sexual and financial. A lot of people are into abusive relationships and are finding it very difficult to let go. Walking out of an abusive relationship takes a lot of strength and courage. There are simple ways in which one can get out of abusive relationships.

1. Admit you are being abused: the first step in getting help, is to admit you really need on. Snap out of your self denial.

2. Talk to trusted people: most people who are abused find it extremely difficult to talk to anyone. They believe they should protect the abuser. When you talk you get a strong support group, who will help you through it all.

3. Work out an escape plan: remember you have just one purpose in mind getting out of the relationship. It will be a good thing if you really plan how you will go about it. A safe and secret place to stay, some extra cash, clothes and important toiletries.

4. Make your plan to leave a secret: if your abuser gets to find out you are about to get out of a relationship they will do everything within their powers to keep you. Make your plan to leave a secret.

5.If possible, have evidence of the abuse: you should have an evidence of the abuse, you could record the person when threatening you or take photographs in the case of physical and sexual abuse. It will help you if you want to take up the case legally.

Stay safe and away from abuse. You deserve to be happy.

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Re: Abusive Relationship!! How To Get Out. by Mynd44: 5:10am On Mar 02, 2015
Plan to leave? You make relationships sound like an addictive drug
Re: Abusive Relationship!! How To Get Out. by Redoil: 7:11am On Mar 02, 2015
Gabbyswit:
There are different forms of abuse. Emotional, physical, sexual and financial. A lot of people are into abusive relationships and are finding it very difficult to let go. Walking out of an abusive relationship takes a lot of strength and courage. There are simple ways in which one can get out of abusive relationships.

1. Admit you are being abused: the first step in getting help, is to admit you really need on. Snap out of your self denial.

2. Talk to trusted people: most people who are abused find it extremely difficult to talk to anyone. They believe they should protect the abuser. When you talk you get a strong support group, who will help you through it all.

3. Work out an escape plan: remember you have just one purpose in mind getting out of the relationship. It will be a good thing if you really plan how you will go about it. A safe and secret place to stay, some extra cash, clothes and important toiletries.

4. Make your plan to leave a secret: if your abuser gets to find out you are about to get out of a relationship they will do everything within their powers to keep you. Make your plan to leave a secret.

5.If possible, have evidence of the abuse: you should have an evidence of the abuse, you could record the person when threatening you or take photographs in the case of physical and sexual abuse. It will help you if you want to take up the case legally.

Stay safe and away from abuse. You deserve to be happy.
you can do better and write better things than this rubbish.
A lazy poor beautiful gurl who got married to a rich bully should quite the marriage and the money/wealth.
Re: Abusive Relationship!! How To Get Out. by Nutase: 8:26am On Mar 02, 2015
Home breakers. People that write this kind of posts are the ones that will not leave even when they are abused. tongue
Re: Abusive Relationship!! How To Get Out. by Vyolet(f): 6:24pm On Mar 02, 2015
Mynd44:
Plan to leave? You make relationships sound like an addictive drug
Hi.
I mentioned you on a thread on romance section. Do attend to it please.
Thanks.
Re: Abusive Relationship!! How To Get Out. by Gabbyswit(f): 9:58am On Mar 04, 2015
An abusive relationship itself is like an addictive drug. Takes a lot of courage to let go.. The abuser use a lot of humiliating and dominating methods to keep the victim in check..

Mynd44:
Plan to leave? You make relationships sound like an addictive drug
Re: Abusive Relationship!! How To Get Out. by Gabbyswit(f): 10:01am On Mar 04, 2015
I laugh at your comment because you do not know a thing about abuse, read well i didn't say abusive marriages..
And I never mentioned that any home be broken.

Nutase:
Home breakers. People that write this kind of posts are the ones that will not leave even when they are abused. tongue
Re: Abusive Relationship!! How To Get Out. by Gabbyswit(f): 10:03am On Mar 04, 2015
Thanks for taking your time to read though. This post is not for lazy poor beautiful girls who married for money is for people who need help out of disastrous relationships.

Redoil:
you can do better and write better things than this rubbish.
A lazy poor beautiful gurl who got married to a rich bully should quite the marriage and the money/wealth.

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