Have you been shot down recently? It was
probably for one of these 9 reasons. Find
out why you got rejected, and learn how to
stay in the game! By Eli Walton from LP
There are a number of reasons why a
woman might reject a man. Most of them,
the guy has some control over, although
not all. Sometimes it’s you, and sometimes
it’s not.
Women get hit on and approached by guys
a lot. In one way this works against you, as
you’re just another dude trying to chat her
up. But if you can play it right, it will work
for you. Most of the guys hitting on a
woman are creeps, or jerks, or just
disrespectful. It doesn’t take too much to
stand out above those men.
Why are you getting rejected by the
woman you like?
Here are the most common reasons that a
woman will shoot down a man. You’ll
notice that some are beyond your control,
but most of them are mistakes that guys
make. Are you making any of these? Read
on to find out, and correct the ones you’re
getting wrong. Your love life will be glad
you did.
#1 Being too cocky. Arrogance is the way
some guys cope with their perceived
shortcomings. For whatever reason, they
think that coming off as cocky will cover
up the fact that they’re insecure or short
or boring or whatever. It never works.
Being yourself, whoever that is, beats
arrogance any day.
Take the things you might be cocky about
and downplay them, or better yet, don’t
even talk about them until they come up
naturally in conversation. Maybe you have
a good job or a nice car. Maybe you’re a
good athlete. Whatever it is, she’ll find out
in due course, and will be much more
impressed than if you just blurted it out
#2 Lacking in confidence. Probably the
quality that women value most in men is
self-confidence. More than good looks,
money, a great job or a sense of humor, a
self-assured man is extremely attractive to
women. But too many guys substitute
cockiness for confidence, and the two are
polar opposites.
A confident man doesn’t brag. He doesn’t
need to. He is decisive, making decisions
without wavering. He is respectful towards
women, polite to waiters, charming, and
an all around gentleman. This is something
that all guys should strive towards being.
#3 Out of your league. Sometimes, a guy
gets rejected because he aimed too high.
Let’s face it, there are some women that
most guys never have a chance with. It
might be about looks or money or age or
whatever else. If you shoot for the stars,
you can’t be surprised if you crash land.
This doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t try,
though. Sometimes, the prettiest girl at
the dance stays alone because everyone is
too afraid to approach her. Speak to a
woman like this with self-confidence and
politeness, and you never know how
successful you might become. Just be
prepared to be shot down. Rejection is not
the end of the world, as long as you can
handle it well.
#4 Too self-involved. It’s unbelievable the
number of guys that, when flirting with a
woman or on a first date, spend an entire
evening talking about themselves.
Whatever goes through their heads when
they do this, either thinking the women
are impressed, or that it’s their duty to do
all the talking for the woman, they are
wrong.
Women hate this about guys more than
most other things. Unless you’ve just
returned from climbing Mount Everest, you
don’t have anything more interesting to
say than she does. Even if you really did
scale the Himalayas, shut up about it
anyway. If she wants to hear more, she’ll
ask you. Women are much more
impressed by guys who show interest in
her life and career. Get over yourself or
you’ll stay alone.
#5 Fouling the waters. Unfortunately, bad
hygiene is an all too common reason that
women reject men. Luckily, it is an easily
preventable one. It’s pretty simple. Wash
yourself, brush your teeth, wear clean
clothes, run a comb through your hair, and
you’re pretty much there. It’s easy for
guys to get cleaned up and ready to go
out. Put in that minimal effort. If you’re not
clean, you will be rejected.
#6 Poor performance. Rejection doesn’t
just happen at the first encounter. You
might have already gone on a few dates,
or even slept together. Any of these
reasons can still apply after the initial
meeting. This one can only apply once
you’ve slept together. Maybe you just
didn’t please her.
Women have sexual needs just like men
do. If a guy isn’t meeting those needs,
then she very well might reject him
because of it. Most women are pretty
understanding, and as long as a guy is
making the effort, she should help him
figure out what her needs are. But if a guy
is just a selfish lover, putting his own
pleasure before hers, then he will have
only himself to blame when she stops
answering his calls.
#7 Just not her type. Sometimes, a guy is
just not what a woman is looking for. It
could be something about personality or
maybe she’s just not physically attracted
to him. Maybe the chemistry isn’t there for
her. There’s not much you can do about
this, other than just accept it.
Again, rejection happens. If you approach
her in a gentlemanly way, she will be
polite about it. You should be, too. There’s
nothing worse than a guy who gets bitter,
whiny or angry over rejection. Knowing
how to accept rejection is part of being
self-confident enough to approach a
woman in the first place.
#8 He’s kind of a prick. Everyone’s heard
it before, that nice guys finish last, and
that women like assholes. It’s impossible
to deny that there’s some truth to this, but
do you really want to be with a woman
who likes guys who are jerks? Take the
high road and be a gentleman, and you’ll
do much better.
This might be the most common reason of
all that women reject men. Guys are rude
towards women either because that’s how
they are, or how they’ve convinced
themselves that they need to be. It’s a
terrible approach. If you’re a jerk to her,
she will shoot you down. It will be a richly
deserved rejection.
#9 Just not in the cards. Sometimes,
you’re just unlucky. You approach a
woman you’re into, whom on any other
day might like you, too. But for whatever
reason, she’s having a bad day. Maybe she
had a fight with a friend or a bad day at
work or maybe she’s just under the
weather. You’ve got to accept that there’s
always an element of chance to things,
and sometimes, the timing just isn’t right.
Rejection is a normal part of the game,
and it’s important to learn to accept it. But
if you can avoid these common mistakes,
it will be something you have to deal with
less and less frequently. Try to fix the
mistakes you’re doing wrong, and accept
that there are some things you can’t
change.

abeg help me tell them o. I so despise arrogant guys, and it would be more than a pleasure to reject them in the most painful and harshest way possible. I love to see them go down

EroticAngelina:
abeg help me tell them o. I so despise arrogant guys, and it would be more than a pleasure to reject them in the most painful and harshest way possible. I love to see them go down

really? You girls enjoy when they go down? Those bloody mo.rons don't know this.