Please guys I need your honest opinion on this one,

I'm going to detail it, just read through patiently pls,

It happened some months late last year, I went to photocopy a document somewhere, a girl attended to me
naturally without any notice of each other, she was nice
and well behaved that I appreciated her, after some days we would pass each other and exchanged "hi" & "xup",
this went on for some months till early January this year,
we met in a restaurant and our normal "hi" happened before seasonal greeting ensued, we exchanged contacts
I ask her about her tribe, she ask me mine one thing one thing
we dismissed,

the babe is beautiful, speaks and dresses well, my people
after that day the babe begin call always, one thing one thing we became friends, I like her but she loves me.

she has been good to me, showing cares and support but the problem is she is demanding for sex which I don't wannu engage to because of my decision to abstain from sex and fear God this year, I have been given her excuses,
skipping her visiting but the more I resist the more she
intensify.

I wannu stay focus, principled, determined and discipline this year,
I have improved my spiritual life this year and had been prayerful.

I don't wannu lose her cuz she has some good traits, but I'm still thinking she might meet another guy and still be dating me - I will be the maga na.
is she temptation? what do you guys think I should do?
see our chat tonight.

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chai

konji is a bastard...

kilokeys:
chai

konji is a bastard...

do you think is that ?

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Chooii-

Romantics me biko
I dey abeg you.


Lemme be serious!!!
What gives u the impression that she loves you?

You are just the next available tool to cure her of her sexual highness.
I love the fact she is direct and straight to the point.

It is a good thing u went straight to the answer too.
Shows two matured adult.
Don't worry,she will find anoda johnny.
Focus on ur God

Abeg you with name of God Op, gimme the babe number...... I dey beg

The OP's replies on the chat are cracking me up. Kikiki

ronald4lif:
The only problem I see here is that she was too fronting and that gave her away like what they normally call cheap. Forget all these your rhymes of my agreement with God, 2015 bla bla they are all crap.

What she ought to have done was to give herself some self respect and restrain herself from her urges towards having sex with you. At a point you would have been inviting her over to your place and she will still hesitate coming doing gragra, whenever she shows up na you go drag her panties sef after a few minutes of romance.

Please, forget about the talk of she's got good traits, character etc. If you don't accept her sexual advances she won't be comfortable around you ever again, who turns down a girl sex plea? That's a bad turn off and rejection. Forget the idea of friendzoning her jare.

Impressive write-up
#fact.
He should focus on his God.

clemz85:

I don't wannu lose her cuz she has some good traits, but I'm still thinking she might meet another guy and still be dating me - I will be the maga na.
is she temptation? what do you guys think I should do?
see our chat tonight.

To be frank with you, she wants sex. She can't stay in a celibate relationship. Some people can't date without sex. So you are left with letting her go because she will get it from someone else, or deluding yourself that she'll remain celibate for you. You have to choose between her and your vow/spiritual life (God).

Think hard and choose what's best for you.

this one strong o, clears throat, carries my mat with my bible and cross, Holy hausana in the highest

PunkyBrewster:
The OP's replies on the chat are cracking me up. Kikiki

Hahahaha. I was just seeing "God this.. God that" renting the air up and down on the screenshot.

At a point the girl visibly frustrated asked "what is the meaning of God?" LMFAO!! Being hórny is not an easy task.

I swear, the girl is sexually frustrated. I can feel her pain through my screen.

OP, one thing is certain, if you don't lay that chick, you'll lose her. It's either you choose her, or you choose God.

sinizia:


Hahahaha. I was just seeing "God this.. God that" renting the air up and down on the screenshot.

At a point the girl visibly frustrated asked "what is the meaning of God?" LMFAO!! Being hórny is not an easy task.

I swear, the girl is sexually frustrated. I can feel her pain through my screen.

OP, one thing is certain, if you don't lay that chick, you'll lose her. It's either you choose her, or you choose God.

Hahahaha!

sinizia:


To be frank with you, she wants sex. She can't stay in a celibate relationship. Some people can't date without sex. So you are left with letting her go because she will get it from someone else, or deluding yourself that she'll remain celibate for you. You have to choose between her and your vow/spiritual life (God).

Think hard and choose what's best for you.

yea I'm thinking to choose against her but would'nt
she feel hurt? cuz she behaves like she loves me

clemz85:


yea I'm thinking to choose against her but would'nt
she feel hurt? cuz she behaves like she loves me

Bruh!
U need a whip!!!
Long thin one.
U just said u wanna go celibate and u are already considering choosing her!
So u partially want her and u were TYPING GOD like u are some sort of virgin.

clemz85:


yea I'm thinking to choose against her but would'nt
she feel hurt? cuz she behaves like she loves me

Feel hurt? She's already feeling hurt and frustrated.

One person must feel hurt for that relationship to work or crash. If you give in, you'll feel hurt for deserting your vows to God and she'll feel happy.

ronald4lif:
Forget all these your rhymes of my agreement with God, 2015 bla bla they are all crap.

Are you trying to say that one who chose to go celibate can't maintain to it?

sinizia:


Hahahaha. I was just seeing "God this.. God that" renting the air up and down on the screenshot.

At a point the girl visibly frustrated asked "what is the meaning of God?" LMFAO!! Being hórny is not an easy task.

I swear, the girl is sexually frustrated. I can feel her pain through my screen.

OP, one thing is certain, if you don't lay that chick, you'll lose her. It's either you choose her, or you choose God.

forget about what rent and rented not,

good point though, I don't care emma let her go

AndreRose:

Are you trying to say that one who chose to go celibate can't maintain to it?

help me ask him o,
this is march and I will be counting cuz
the will gets more stronger

AndreRose:

Are you trying to say that one who chose to go celibate can't maintain to it?

help me ask him o,
this is march and I will be counting cuz
the will gets more stronger, she is the 2nd Person I'm
turning down this year just that I like her

ShirelleBaby:


Bruh!
U need a whip!!!
Long thin one.
U just said u wanna go celibate and u are already considering choosing her!
So u partially want her and u were TYPING GOD like u are some sort of virgin.

to rephrase, I meant to do it in a way she won't be hurt,

sort of vigirn ke? we are talking about a totaled Dude
got repented

clemz85:


to rephrase, I meant to do it in a way she won't be hurt,

sort of vigirn ke? we are talking about a totaled Dude
got repented

Okay
bruh can I see a pix of you?
You must be HAWT.
U said this is the second girl that u are turning down.
There must be something about you.

On a serious note!!
Keep being faithful to God.

ronald4lif:
The only problem I see here is that she was too fronting and that gave her away like what they normally call cheap. Forget all these your rhymes of my agreement with God, 2015 bla bla they are all crap.

What she ought to have done was to give herself some self respect and restrain herself from her urges towards having sex with you. At a point you would have been inviting her over to your place and she will still hesitate coming doing gragra, whenever she shows up na you go drag her panties sef after a few minutes of romance.

Please, forget about the talk of she's got good traits, character etc. If you don't accept her sexual advances she won't be comfortable around you ever again, who turns down a girl sex plea? That's a bad turn off and rejection. Forget the idea of friendzoning her jare.

no dear, she might be too fronting or starved but I got
a decent swag they can't resist, she is not the only one
that fall, many fall in the past, I don't hustle to get laid
I can tutor you on that

booked

ShirelleBaby:


Okay
bruh can I see a pix of you?
You must be HAWT.
U said this is the second girl that u are turning down.
There must be something about you.

On a serious note!!
Keep being faithful to God.

being HAWT! I don't know but I learnt one thing -
if you keep grass green, the sheep's must surely come
for it, so this year I decided to start a new field

ShirelleBaby:


Okay
bruh can I see a pix of you?
You must be HAWT.
U said this is the second girl that u are turning down.
There must be something about you.

On a serious note!!
Keep being faithful to God.

My Crush Shirellebaby is Crushing on another guy here. Watching u on 4D

Forget the lady, stick with God...

I know you are considering it, it's not gonna do you any good, infact you are going to regret it if you do it..

Right now, it's better to hurt her and be dedicated to your vows than to please her and hate yourself... You dig?

I like it when guys make this kind of decisions, it inspires me too..

jauntty:
My Crush Shirellebaby is Crushing on another guy here. Watching u on 4D

My doc.
The crushing is mutual.
How can I crush on a celibate man?
So he will tell me-''d love,I dunn wanna do'''

ShirelleBaby:


My doc.
The crushing is mutual.
How can I crush on a celibate man?
So he will tell me-''d love,I dunn wanna do'''

Hahahaaha...ehenn, so u don't like #team_celibate_men

AndreRose:

Are you trying to say that one who chose to go celibate can't maintain to it?

Very few people maintain it. Many guys at the beginning of every makes promises and abstaining from sex is usually one of the most made promise. But all that becomes a dream as soon as they get too close with a girl in a private room. In his case, he could have make it through but were the girl came visiting after she must have made shakara for a while, and they get all heated up chances are high he would have reached for his pants. She came in for sex too quick and easy that's why he bounced her, then come here to brag as someone who sticks to his resolution. Conji know wetin be resolution?