fuckshit:
fücking right

Hell Yeah

MoNickk:
my question is why in the same compound in the first place?

its not a big deal

Youngpo413:
its not a big deal

really. I can't really do that cos I love my privacy in a relationship.

MoNickk:
really. I can't really do that cos I love my privacy in a relationship.

same compound can't stop privacy,except one partner is a cheating type.

Youngpo413:
same compound can't stop privacy,except one partner is a cheating type.

they have actually broken up now. The guy wasn't comfortable with the number of friends she had n dey called it quits.

MoNickk:
they have actually broken up now. The guy wasn't comfortable with the number of friends she had n dey called it quits.

hmmm,I would do the same sha,
That kind of lady cheats a lot,if you ask her,she will say there are just friends,I know her type

Youngpo413:
hmmm,I would do the same sha,
That kind of lady cheats a lot,if you ask her,she will say there are just friends,I know her type

not necessarily. The guy was just being insecure in my opinion.

MoNickk:
not necessarily. The guy was just being insecure in my opinion.

insecure?no guy will feel comfortable to see his girl friend with different guys in the name of friendship,jealousy must surely occur except he is not in love with the lady.


Most ladies do sleep with the so called friend...so any sane man must be wary...

Youngpo413:
insecure?no guy will feel comfortable to see his girl friend with different guys in the name of friendship,jealousy must surely occur except he is not in love with the lady.


Most ladies do sleep with the so called friend...so any sane man must be wary...

I think that's where trust comes into play. u don't expect her not to have friends again cos of her bf. at least she brought the guys home so the guy could see them. He was just insecure.

MoNickk:
I think that's where trust comes into play. u don't expect her not to have friends again cos of her bf. at least she brought the guys home so the guy could see them. He was just insecure.

personally,past experience has taught me not to trust any lady with their so called male friends,she will even introduce you to her male friend,maybe for you not suspect anything,then all of a sudden she will start to misbehave...you will be wondering what went wrong,then all of a sudden she will ignore you totally and finally she will ask for a breakup...you will be so shocked to know that the new guy she is dating is one of the so called male friend...so now see that instances like that will surely make that same guy to feel very uncomfortable( maybe)when his new girl starts to get close to male friend.


The guy in question may had passed through the same scenario in the past,and he did the right thing by breaking up with her...












You see it has nothing to do with insecurities.



Finally,the word trust doesn't exist in relationship nowadays,so trust anyone at your own risk.