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| Help Me Advice My Friend. by unilagfreshest(m): 9:23am On Mar 17, 2015 |
I have a friend named kay. He has been dating this gal for close to six years, though on & off (i mean break up nd reconciliation). He has lots of gals too, I know of 3 currently, nd am sure there will be more. They are both in final year here in unilag, but d gal is 29yrs, while kay is 27. and most time d gal catches him with other babes (major reasons they breakup nd makeup). The last one that happened the gal read all his chats on whatsapp nd bbm, nd discovered dat his cheating is far more than she thought, after much begging from him she said on one condition she will only accept if he will come nd meet her parents, nd tell them his plans, (coz he told her he cant marry nw, cz he is not ready financially nd odas), but she insisted even if its 5yrs he will be ready he should go nd meet her parents nw nd tell them his plans for her, though he loves her coz she has been with him thru thick and thin. she can give him her blood to drink if dat is what will make him happy. she sacrificed alot for him even her school fees sometimes but his fear also is bcoz of d age diff he might meet some other babes later in future, so he doesn’t want to commit himself now, nd he doesnt want to tell her to go coz of the helps and love she has given him so far...so nairalanders what should he do.. cz i don knw wat to advice him...thanks all. |
| Re: Help Me Advice My Friend. by Melahou(m): 9:43am On Mar 17, 2015 |
Your friend is still a boy who still sucks his mother breast. When his off age he'll know what he wants. Let him continue to play around. 2 Likes |
| Re: Help Me Advice My Friend. by Mhizizzy(f): 9:48am On Mar 17, 2015 |
Small boys everywhere The girl had better look for a better somebody 1 Like |
| Re: Help Me Advice My Friend. by Nobody: 10:12am On Mar 17, 2015 |
it's not gonna work. They should break up now. The boy at 27 still has a lot of time. He won't stop following younger girls. He won't stop cheating on her. If she forces him to see her parents, he won't be happy. He'll continue cheating but he'll only be more discreet. Their union is doomed to fail. The boy already considers age difference an issue. Nothing changes that age difference, therefore, it'll continue to be an issue. As hard/unfair as it seems, the girl has to move on. Yes, 6 years is a long time but why settle for unhappiness over a serial cheat? She's scared she may not find someone else who will love her, considering she is 29, still an undergraduate. By the time she's out of the uni, done with service and settled with a job, she's well in her early 30's. Say 32. That's scary to her. She has to move on. Bro, I know you're the one in the story. . . Let the chic go. |
| Re: Help Me Advice My Friend. by adahgold(m): 10:46am On Mar 17, 2015 |
Melahou: well said bro... |
| Re: Help Me Advice My Friend. by adahgold(m): 10:48am On Mar 17, 2015 |
Mhizizzy: don't forget dat they r small girls everywhere too... |
| Re: Help Me Advice My Friend. by Vision4God: 11:00am On Mar 17, 2015 |
Tel ur frend & d gals to repent, face der studies. Al ds game of r/ship doesnt pay. He will chew his finger tomor if he doesnt stop playn around |
| Re: Help Me Advice My Friend. by major466(m): 11:26am On Mar 17, 2015 |
I will rather advice the Lady to forget the relationship and move on. The guy isn't mature and doesn't love her enough to make the needed sacrifices towards a meaningful relationship that will lead to marriage. |
| Re: Help Me Advice My Friend. by unilagfreshest(m): 6:55am On Mar 18, 2015 |
Bro, I know you're the one in the story. . . Let the chic go. [/size][/font][/quote] bro am noT is my close frnd.. Thanks aT all... |
| Re: Help Me Advice My Friend. by AJ01(m): 7:09am On Mar 18, 2015 |
Melahou:Gbam |
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