I av a friend who's husband use to tell her when she had her first pregnancy that he will marry another wife. He said if he says it during their courtship that she might not marry him so later the man married another wife. Both the husband and the wife are in their early 30s and the wife has 3 children for him so when frustration set in the woman packed out of the house, then she went to court for divorce but the man cried and begged the judge to plead on his behalf so that the woman will not divorce her even he would postrate on the road to beg the woman and so he would go to the people who live in the area where the woman is living to beg on his behalf and some people are calling the woman that the man is crying and his begging them to plead on his behalf. When this woman saw him he has loose wait yet he doesn't want to leave the second woman, She has a child for him and the man doesn't have the capacity to marry two wifes.What can we call this ?

From your write up i don't know who is more confused
or are you trying to confuse us.

I call it s.tupidity of the highest order from the man. What does this woman want? Can she spend her life in a polygamous setting? If No, then the man just wasted his time rolling on the floor for nothing. No amount of rolling and begging and loosing weight will take away the humiliation she will face in that house. If the man feels like displaying his talent of acting he should enroll in nollywood.