I'm a muslim and i don't joke with my five time daily prayers,but I've been battling with some domestic war for a while now. Actually, i come from a polygamous house and i'm over 30, and ever since i finished service(NYSC) in 2012 I've not been able to secure a job neither do i have a girlfriend not to even talk of having a wife which keeps bothering me every second of my life because my mates are married with kids already.

Moreso, anytime i'm alone i hear a strange voice which tells me to self service myself and it makes me masturbate alot, i think i'm being controlled by some unknown force/ spirit. Pls, i need some islamic supplications (Nonkali) to be used for my tahjud prayers and to even make me get close to God. I've been stagnant all this while so, i really need to fight this evil spirit out of my life.

Thanks

That EVIL spirit is no other person than YOURSELF.

Man himself is the devil he has inside of him. Be disciplined and everything will fall into places. After doing that , God would now have a place to operate.

thesource:
I'm a muslim and i don't joke with my five time daily prayers,but I've been battling with some domestic war for a while now. Actually, i come from a polygamous house and i'm over 30, and ever since i finished service(NYSC) in 2012 I've not been able to secure a job neither do i have a girlfriend not to even talk of having a wife which keeps bothering me every second of my life because my mates are married with kids already. Moreso, anytime i'm alone i hear a strange voice which tells me to self service myself and it makes me masturbate alot, i think i'm being controlled by some unknown force/ spirit. Pls, i need some islamic supplications (Nonkali) to be used for my tahjud prayers and to even make me get close to God. I've been stagnant all this while so, i really need to fight this evil spirit out of my life. Thanks

Take this to the Islam section. That's where you will get the answers you need the way you need it

Cc: Ishilove

You need Jesus.

OP, I am not convinced you are possessed by anything. There are millions of 30-year old plus men that are not married and have you seen unemployment statistics in Nigeria of recent?

As for the voice asking you to masturbate, the devil and his associates whisper. Recite Suratul Falaq and Nas frequently.

And you have to be more proactive, go out there and get things done for yourself.

May Allah ease your affairs and ours too (Ameen).

Control like a remote control? Maybe u should start joking with ur "five times daily" prayer and see how this spell would be broken. Trust me

It happening to u because you are jobless, u lost faith and depressed,, u always isolate yourself, go out, interact with people,visit your friends place and be prayerful, u are not the only jobless guy in Nigeria, am also jobless, that's y I really need change in my life maybe things may CHANGE this time, that's y I wanna cast my vote for buhari, although am GEJ fans, but I just want to try another hand, GEJ let me lost hope in his administration,.... Sorry for my poor grammar

You need to work on yourself and pray the more and stop being alone cos an idle man is a devil's workshop.

FP.....CNT bliv dis.....BTW,Op u nid prayers...c an imam.

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After reading some articles on the topic of "Controlling Masturbation from an Islamic point of view," I have come up with my first article on this topic. These are the basics.
Before continuing, I would like to warn my readers that mere reading of this article will bring nothing into effect. When I was addicted to masturbation, I would read "Curing Masturbation" pages but they didn't have any good effect on me. Now, I know the reason. I didn't take each and every word of those articles very seriously. I didn't practice what they told me to. Take a lesson from this experience of mine, and please don't repeat what I did.

What about D'ua?

I have always been asked, "Isn't d'ua (asking help from Allah) enough to keep us away from this filth (masturbation) ?" Of course, no one can deny the importance of d'ua. In fact, the fourth ayah of Surah Al-Fatiha is:
"You do we worship and from You do we ask help from"

However, you must know that only words are not enough. Faith without works is dead in Islam. We have to take action after d'ua, otherwise it won't profit you.

The Best Way to get rid of Masturbation

The best way to get rid of masturbation is to get married, and this is the opinion of the scholars. This is the ever-lasting cure. Wives may masturbate their husbands, this is allowed in Islam. But people can't do it themselves, it is an immoral act.
But wait... there are many people out there who can't get married. What about those people?

I can't get married!

Are you a teenager who can't get married? Are you thirteen or fourteen years old and you can't even think about marriage at this age? Or is it that you don't have the money to get married?
Well, in this situation, Islam will help you. Islam is the complete way of life - the correct way of life from Allah, the Lord of the Worlds. He guided us in this matter as well. The PROPHET MUHAMMAD (S.A.W) said:

"O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power."

Fasting is something that every one can do. Some people give me the excuse that they are too young and that they can't fast because their parents would allow them to do so. This is a lame excuse, tell your parents plainly, "I am fasting to please ALLAH."

Fasting may be something that any one can do, but its really difficult. It's not all about leaving food and drinks. Fasting basically makes us more submissive to ALLAH.

While fasting, you must pray five times a day for your fast to be accepted. Otherwise, forget about the cure for masturbation. The one who is fasting should say the five obligatory prayers in congregation, should not lie, should not use abusive language, should not tell immoral jokes, should never look at ghair-mahram women (those with whom marriage is allowed), should not watch television, should not smoke, should not sing, should not listen to songs or music, and should strictly abide by the Sunnah, and all other Islamic manners and etiquettes, etc. You have to do all the Sunnah acts and all the obligatory acts to please ALLAH. These good deeds will purify you heart, increase your imaan (faith), and will make you love ALLAH. It will make you more obedient and clean, and you will want to obey ALLAH. And when this stage comes, you won't even think about masturbation!

However, its all about taking the first step. Start fasting. I know that there are people who will just get happy be seeing this article, and won't act on what it says. This is something that can destroy you.

Repentance

"For every disease there is a remedy, and the remedy for sin is repentance."

This is a hadith that they taught me in school, and I still remember it. Who is repentance a remedy for sins?

Before answering this, let's know what repentance is according to Islam. Repentance is to feel guilty of the sin you committed, and to return to ALLAH and to never do that sin again.
Repent every time you masturbate. Feel guilty of the sin that you commit. After repentance, never masturbate again.

However, if you tried your best never to masturbate after you repented, and you tried it very hardly, and you were struggling to stop masturbation because you had repented, but you still failed and masturbated again, then what will happen? You've done it again, start it all over. Repent again, and then make your intention never to return to masturbation. After extreme struggle, if you masturbate again, then repent again. Even after that you were that you overwhelmingly couldn't control yourself and sinned (masturbate) again, then repent again!

The point is that repent each and every time you sin. This will help you feel regret when you break your previous "repentance. " This will also keep you away from sin. How? Let me explain.

For example, if your mother told you never to hit your smaller brother, and you agreed with her, but still hit your small brother, she would obviously be angry with you. If you promised her again not to beat the small kid, but broke your promise, she'll be angry with you again. Then, if you promise her again, but break the promise again, she will not tolerate such behaviour again. But, what will be your position? Won't you feel regret each time you broke your previous? A time will come when you'll stop hitting the small child. Similarly, after repentance a time will come when you stop masturbating.

Conclusion

These were the basics, and if you don't act on these, then forget about curing masturbation. Put the above-mentioned points into practice, or else you'll soon become hopeless.

You may find it difficult to do all the things. One common difficulty in the way is one's own family, friends, relatives, etc. They might ask you, "Why are you fasting? Why are you praying five times a day in the Masjid? Why...?" Tell them plainly, "To please ALLAH and to purify my self."
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Reference :
THE ISLAMIC CURE FOR MASTURBATION - Blog Archive

I believe your problem is more of the mind than spiritual. Assuming you had a job and receiving a good salary, I bet you wouldn't have any of this(it's funny but I strongly believe that's the truth) because you wouldn't be sitting at home idle talk less of your mind wondering into fantasies and you thinking you are hearing some voices telling to do such, you need to find something doing. That said, follow Bro Maclatunji's advice and recite ayatul kursiyyu often also and then keep up the prayers.

May Allah help us.

Be constant in your Ayatul Kursiyyu, remember that only Allah's name can destroy them!

Do a lot of istighfar.

Masturbation: A Major Sin
By Arif Billah Hazrat Maulana Shah Hakeem Mohammad Akhtar Sahab db

1. The Prophet (S) is reported to have said, “The one who marries their hand is accursed.” That person who masturbates them self has been cursed by Allah and His Messenger (S) and on the Day of Judgment their hand will be pregnant.

2. It is a means of destroying ones’ life in this world and the Hereafter.

3. It diminishes ones’ health.

4. It is a major sin and if repentance is not made from a major sin, then the person will fall under the threat of being thrown into Hell.

5. This person is potentially not capable of marriage because their semen will become thin.

6. A person may develop many diseases, such as gonorrhea and chancrous, etc.

7. Due to this evil habit, eventually the person becomes involved in fornication or adultery.

8. This evil habit comes upon a person due to the curse of lustful glances. Since it is mentioned in the Qur’an that the person who guards their gaze will be able to guard their private parts, from this we can gauge that the person who casts lustful glances will not be able to guard their private parts. As a result, they lose control of them self.

9. The person becomes weak sexually and mentally meaning that they have memory loss, blood deficiency, their resolutions become weak, their heart becomes weak to such an extent that if a cat were to jump from one place to another this person’s heart would skip a beat or start beating faster as if a lion had just jumped in front of him.

10. The radiance and splendor from one’s face is depleted, dark circles start to form around the eyes and a strange curse befalls this person because this person is involved in a cursed action; they become pale, their eyes go inward, they start to have mood swings. As a result, their body, heart and mind go down a slippery slope towards destruction.

11. If a person does not quit early, then in their youth they develop of a disease of incontinence of bladder.

12. Due to undue hard stroking, the nerves, arteries and veins all tend to die out and blood doesn’t flow properly to that organ, due to which it may become limp and the person no longer has the ability to perform intercourse. They may develop impotence or erectile dysfunction, and thus they will face a great shame in front of their wife, society and the matter could even reach divorce.

13. Repeatedly ejaculating causing ones’ semen to become extremely thin, due to which one loses virility

14. Sometimes the mere rubbing against ones’ clothes or the mere thought of intercourse with ones’ wife may cause ejaculation. One’s organ may become crooked. It may grow in girth from the front and then towards the back due to which a person may not be fully capable of intercourse.

15. A persons’ memory becomes weak, they often experience headaches, due to minor strenuous activity; they may experience temporary blindness, cold sweats and anxiety.

16. Sometimes semen becomes uncontrollable causing ones’ mind to become weak, one to be disinclined and not interested in studying and whatever one learns, they are not able to retain it.

CURE FOR MASTURBATION


1. The primary cure for ridding ones’ self of any evil is himmah, i.e. ones’ one determination. Without ones’ firm determination, there is no cure. Whenever ones’ nafs tries to involve a person in this particular sin then fight it off as if a person were to fight off an enemy that is after their life. Similarly, one should be as determined to save ones’ iman as they would be to save ones’ own life. They should be so determined that they must be willing to give up their life, but not commit sin. The day a person has this type of determination then this evil habit will leave. Also, one should try as much as possible not to be in seclusion.

2. One should ponder over this that the Prophet (S) is reported to have said, the paraphrased meaning of which is, one who masturbates is accursed.

3. Ponder over the shame that one would feel on the Day of Judgment, when this person will be raised and their hand will be pregnant in front of Allah and His Messenger (S).

4. Ponder over all the harms mentioned in the earlier section.

5. Realize that this debasing act only amounts to a short-lived pleasure.

6. Allah is with us all the time.

7. Meditate over the fact that Allah is watching us all the time.

8. This evil habit is due to the curse of lustful glances. Therefore, one should not view any pornographic material and not even go close to pictures in the newspaper, on the internet, cable, television, VCR; DVD etc. to such an extent that one should even start avoiding emails, otherwise random thoughts will come into ones’ mind and will cause heat to develop in ones’ body leading the person to ultimately masturbate.

9. One should not be by them self rather they should be amongst pious friends.

10. One should be concerned to stay in the company of the righteous with the condition that they inform the righteous person of their condition and implement the instructions of the righteous person.

11. To consult ones’ spiritual guide and stipulate a financial penalty such that one feels pain in their heart. This penalty should be in the form of charity. It shows the expertise of the spiritual guide. One should also feel remorse as to how sad their spiritual guide would be.

12. One should be willing to give up their life, but not commit sin. This state of being can only be developed by being in the company of righteous people, therefore adopt the company of the righteous.

13. Guard ones’ gaze and watch over ones’ heart because mere consultation with ones’ spiritual guide and litanies and the company of the righteous is not sufficient. Therefore, one should implement all the advices one receives from their spiritual guide regarding guarding ones’ gaze and watching over ones’ heart.

14. If perchance a person happens to fall prey to this accursed act then each time a minimum of twenty supererogatory prayers should be prayed or such a large amount of charity should be given such that it becomes burdensome on ones’ nafs

@ empiree , come check this out.

What's wrong with our Christian brothers, the Op made it clear that he needs a Muslim deliverance why not let us respect peoples believe....

Besides, @ op stop isolating your self, never be alone, recite ayatul kursiy often. God bless

maclatunji:
OP, I am not convinced you are possessed by anything. There are millions of 30-year old plus men that are not married and have you seen unemployment statistics in Nigeria of recent?

As for the voice asking you to masturbate, the devil and his associates whisper. Recite Suratul Falaq and Nas frequently.

And you have to be more proactive, go out there and get things done for yourself.

May Allah ease your affairs and ours too (Ameen).

this op's problem is he's too superstitious. that ur 30 and have no job, its normal as this is 9ja.......its a general phenomenon right now in our country, make God help us change the tide, millions over 30 are roaming the streets without a job, even 2-1s.
problem of unemployment now leads to the issue of no gf, u don't have a job, u wan date woman in this modern day, u must be extraordinary to have things go your way, women equals money and vice versa.
no gf now also leads to self-servicing, no nonkaly can help u bro, my own candid advise will be, pls start getting busy and be prayerful things turn beta, nobody is doing you. try doing anything that comes your way, remember its always dirty at the bottom but with God you will ova cum

As salaamu alaekum my bro I believ it stll highly needed to thunderly sound it into ur n others' hearin at this juncture that u re on the RIGHT PATH, u need not not to look elsewhwre.

The fact that u ve had Allah as the abl n Mighty1 is suficient to u to ve all ur prblm solved.

My bro in islam U dnt ve prblm but the usual challenges that almost 77per cent youths of our Dear country re battlin wit. Hope u ve agreed wit me.

Now all u need to do is to shun solitude in its totality n be prayerful esp u familiariz urselv wit the prescribed suwar n verses of the FINAL TESTAMENT the most cmpriensive of all d scriptures that had bn ever revealed by 1andOnly Allah.- the likes of all "the Qul" in the holy Qur an- the Qursiyy etc.

U then look for real/incurruptipl gatherin whre u wll be listenin to sermon and lastly ;


U berry procastinatn by startin right away now to take step on how u conquare the challenges.

Thanks

OP. Recite the Quran more often. Esp. Suratul Baqarat and Kahaf. Also Ayatul Kursiyu, falaq and Nas.

OP, what you experience might not be due to jinn affliction. To confirm if it's caused by jinn, listen to ayatul kursiy for I hour, three times in a day with an earpiece. You can download ayatul kursiy mp3 here, http://mp3red.ru/19876650/sheikh-mishary-rashid-alafasy-ayatul-kursi.html. Try to concentrate while listening to it. Then observe carefully how your body reacts during the recitation. There may be some reactions or none at all. The reactions you are to observe if it's a case of jinn affliction have been enumerated in the e-book titled: Sword Against Black Magic by Abdusalam Bali. Download it here, http://d1.islamhouse.com/data/en/ih_books/single2/en_black_magic_evil_magicians.pdf. And follow the steps therein whether you observe reactions or none. Do confirm that what you experience is not a medical or a psychological one before you attribute it to jinn affliction.

Wealthyone:
@ empire , come check this out.

thesource: to me doesn't have such problem. Best advises have been given by muslims. Judging from his write up suggests he definitely need dua to do. Then get something to do practically to occupy himself.

And upon laying in his bed he should recite Ayat kursiy with faith. Routine nightly dua is very good. It takes minds off satanic thoughts. Folks are just lazy now. Thanks for the mention

I just read through you post now. Please just copy and paste ds address on YouTube. The information here will really help you with your challenges Insha-Allah (BLACK MAGIC(Sihir)_ JINNS and EVIL EYE How to perform RUQYA (Eng) - Sh. Abdul Rauf Ben Halima]) pls check it

you need to increase ur faith and believe.d devil thinks ure deviating in that aspect.wat u nid to do is to make sure u fast and pray nd always recite yaasin 10 times per day.