Op tell her to marry him because Holy spirit ministered to him. Oniranu

Amuga:
Op tell her to marry him because Holy spirit ministered to him. Oniranu

You are not serious, are you?

Holy Spirit ke, that will end in total disgrace and tragedy.

Let that holy spirit minister to her too. Abi how you see am?

Good afternoon dear.

AtheistD:
If she doesn't love him then everything else is irrelevant.

Thanks dear. If see doesn't love him, it could also lead to infidelity in marriage. But the guy no just wan gree.

Richy4:
Some people will just see fire, and they just decide to put their hands on it.

The lady in question knows that she cannot tolerate lazy man, because they are not compatible yet she wants to go into a relationship like that.

Tomorrow she will start nagging day in day out With hope to change him. The freaking thing is that she will be acting as if she did not know what awaits her during the long marriage.

Tell her to let the guy be if she knew she cannot cope with a lazy man. But it she can tolerate him, that is fine.

My dear i tire oh! Her pro blem is that her guy is not ready now, other suitors are not coming. so she is scared that they may not come again and she could get late.

I have been able to discourage her from such thought. because God is never too late in his time.

SmartFaces:


Thanks dear. If see doesn't love him, it could also lead to infidelity in marriage. But the guy no just wan gree.

Or she has other reasons for considering the proposal. If he was an okada rider would she still be confused?

If his mother dies and he inherits everything she will be married to a man of financial standing.

That statement above I why she has not yet rejected him.

salsera:
She came to you for counselling?
Then you came to us
I suppose the other thread you posted was a counselling session too

Pray tell what type of counsellor are you

You have a point. As a counsellor you are expected to keep your client's case confidential. But sometimes, at the consent of the person involved i can share with other people so lots of people out there can know what is actually happening outside their comfort zones.

If the person says no, you have no right what so ever to do that or you can be sued.

I also run a talk show forum, sometimes debates or interviews and some client demand i air their case out to the public for people's opinion... i can't say no if that is what they want.

for the other thread, it's not a councelling issue. That was more of a family issue. (A friend's sister) we are like family and the consented too before i did.
Hope you are good?
I will also advice, when you go through threads, don't just do to make comments, read them to learn. it will build you positively. Trust me, it has helped me. Sometimes i read and won't comment, trying to pick points and ask myself self-building questions.
I wish you the very best this weekend and always. Happy election in advance.

MzJackBaueress:
I think the problem here is not about him still living with his mom. The problem is that he is lazy and jobless depending on his mum for his financial needs. If he had a well paid job,I don't think he will still be living with his mother. He would have been on his own.

@Op,she should just move on with her life. The mummy's pet is an unserious fellow. Marrying that type of man,she will not enjoy the marriage despite marrying a man with a rich mother.

Thanks alot dear, i am gratful.

StealthIdeals:
Take it or leave it, he wil get marid someday.

Abi oh!! But not to my client.
happy weekend.

EggovinMma:
But you said she doesn't love him? What's the essence of this thread?

she wants to hear people's opinion over her case and for other people to learn

SmartFaces:


You are not serious, are you?

Holy Spirit ke, that will end in total disgrace and tragedy.

Let that holy spirit minister to her too. Abi how you see am?

Good afternoon dear.

Na so o. Good Afternoon. Probably she is scared other suitors wont come but they will. Because you wan chop meat,you come dey call cow brother

chidyhels:
If shes over menopause. .yes
No responsibility from raising children

she is not. enjoy your evening.

AtheistD:


Or she has other reasons for considering the proposal. If he was an okada rider would she still be confused?

If his mother dies and he inherits everything she will be married to a man of financial standing.

That statement above I why she has not yet rejected him.

Kk. You made a point.

Happy weekend.

AtheistD:


Or she has other reasons for considering the proposal. If he was an okada rider would she still be confused?

If his mother dies and he inherits everything she will be married to a man of financial standing.

That statement above I why she has not yet rejected him.

Pop's this poster a bottle of chilled Orijin and serves it with a plate of hot nkwobi for this comment.

She is just one greedy girl whose eye is chooking her. So the marriage will end up in disaster and you will be back here with Part 2 of the movie to play for us.

A smart, calculating, cunning woman would have weighed her chances of controlling him (diplomatically), managing his mum and sucking up to her and confirming his wealth, so that at the end of the day, she laughs last. It is not every woman who has that kind of mind, your friend clearly doesn't. If she did, she won't be asking you for advise, she would have brought her asoebi for you. That's how some girls end up marrying regular guys whilst some others end up marrying Prince William

SmartFaces:


He said he is waiting for Indegine slot of his state to work, after service, he stayed in the house for 3good years till late last year he got a job with ministry of education as a teacher.

For the ambition, he always says, he will be a very wealthy man, that if his dad wins the case with the gov't over land that he will be swiming in money.

Not good

abegi, Jesus is 2035+ and still lives in his father's house, please don't pressure the young man

EggovinMma:
But you said she doesn't love him? What's the essence of this thread?

She is in love with his mother's money

Wouldn't have been any problem if the guy were a lady. If he has no job, he can opt to be house husband.

Chillis:
Na wah.
You people should start using your brains for goodness sake.

How can she marry this kind of person with this description?


After you end up complaining and frustrated.

Is she that desperate?

I just tire for them oo

Mechionu gi dere!
If she's your sister will you advise her to marry that kinda man? One that doesn't know his responsibilities?
@op, tell your friend to forge ahead if he's not willing to ma-up to responsibilities!
W̶̲̥̅̊ђA̶̲̥̅t if d mom-feeder drops dead tomorrow_they become beggars right?

nnafather:
You had better go and marry before it is too late. His mother feeds him and he is lazy? If he marries you, won't he feed you? Lazy girl.

U said u dnt love him, that settle d ?s.

Waat

smileysmiles:
At 36 ,
1. lives off mom
2. No job
3. No ambition
4. She doesnt love him
5. Has no sense of responsibility

What advise does the lady need
1.Whats the basis of the relationship?
2. Why is she even considering the guy?
3. What are his good sides /positive attributes

I tire oooo, what's even the basis for this thread.

AtheistD:


Or she has other reasons for considering the proposal. If he was an okada rider would she still be confused?

If his mother dies and he inherits everything she will be married to a man of financial standing.

That statement above I why she has not yet rejected him.

Atheists always try to prove smart. You're right anyways, hoes don't want the process, they only care about the result.

@apoint He (Jesus) came to die for you... Then he came to work and as a result the Father (God) created an appartment (RHS) for Him(Jesus) as His reward for a job well done!
Now where is the job well done of this 36 years old Mammon?

Dandeson1:
abegi, Jesus is 2035+ and still lives in his father's house, please don't pressure the young man

I feel the mother is wicked to still let this happen!

If he is the only son, then marry him.

SmartFaces:
She is my client and this is the story.

He is 36years of age, still lives with his mum, feels very lazy and scared to do anything for himself to generate income, depends on his mum for virtually everything because she is rich, had never taken any form of responsibility what so ever, yet he wants to marry her.

Can he make a good husband and father considering the fact that he is so so lazy?

Can he give anything whether love, money, take responsibility, just name it considering the fact that he has been on the receiving side from childhood till now?

Can he be romantic enough and be good on bed, considering the fact that he forms to be so churchy and righteous...He spends all his time in the church and other religious gatherings.

More so she does not love him or even have an atom of feeling for him, but he said "The Holy Spirit Ministered to him, that she is his wife"

What should she do?

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Funny how people use the Holy Spirit to tell all sort of lies these days.

Lemme understand your friend here. She wants to depend (marry) on someone who depends on someone else. What sort of thing is this dependency theory?.

A man who can't take responsibility at age 36 will not be a good father and husband!. And she's also have to play slave to the mother in law because she provides and pay all the bills.

My advice to your friend OP, she should look for another man immediately!!!.

Adyrin:
Mechionu gi dere!
If she's your sister will you advise her to marry that kinda man? One that doesn't know his responsibilities?
@op, tell your friend to forge ahead if he's not willing to ma-up to responsibilities!
W̶̲̥̅̊ђA̶̲̥̅t if d mom-feeder drops dead tomorrow_they become beggars right?

Akpa amu gi tipia there...Okuko igbo. What do you know about marriage? Go and wash plates for dinner. Mama is calling u. Anu.

SmartFaces:
She is my client and this is the story.

He is 36years of age, still lives with his mum, feels very lazy and scared to do anything for himself to generate income, depends on his mum for virtually everything because she is rich, had never taken any form of responsibility what so ever, yet he wants to marry her.

Can he make a good husband and father considering the fact that he is so so lazy?

Can he give anything whether love, money, take responsibility, just name it considering the fact that he has been on the receiving side from childhood till now?

Can he be romantic enough and be good on bed, considering the fact that he forms to be so churchy and righteous...He spends all his time in the church and other religious gatherings.

More so she does not love him or even have an atom of feeling for him, but he said "The Holy Spirit Ministered to him, that she is his wife"

What should she do?

For references, feed backs and supervisory purpose, please follow this account, before or after your contribution. Thanks people.

the saddest part is the religious angle to all this... religious people r so so lazy... I'm sure the lady would be scared to "disobey" God... mostly because she too is trying to form religious... why would God set u up with a lazy person. don't be foolish. remove the religious cap from your head and kindly decline the stupid offer. Tis deception of the highest order. my sister once dated a guy who wanted to give the first car of their marriage to his pastor... be careful and flee from this dude...

Get advice from married people only. Those married for not less than 2years.

My advice: Do the right thing, do what is right and don't be deceived by emotions. Your conscience will tell you what is right.
Why do you want to get yourself into such a relationship, nothing seem right with the intending relationship with that guy. You better move on.